People who allow themselves to physically deteriorate; have they basically given up on life?

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Maybe they think, "Why bother? I'm not going to find someone special anyway. May as well not even try, it's too much hard work anyway".

Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

It can be one of many reasons. Could be physical pain not allowing someone to really move. Unbearable stress from work/school/etc. Depression. It's not my place to judge a single person on their physical stature. But hey, if they need some motivation and help, I'm all there. One of my girl friends went through a bad breakup and she's been hitting the gym with me twice a week and is feeling a world's better about herself

menina · Accepted Answer

It's not always the case. Sometimes people are severely depressed and nobody knows. Or they might have a disease that affects their appearance. Or they might be ok with the way they look. We don't know if someone is struggling just by looking at them. Maybe they're desperate but they didn't given up on life.

Plus, relationships are part of life but life is much more than that.

WalterBlack · Accepted Answer

Yes, there are many people who have effectively given up on life but still continue to exist only in a physical sense. I've also met many people who haven't given up hope of fixing their problems, but they are completely lost, without any ambition or meaningful goals. People who find themselves in either mindset often let their physical health and hygiene deteriorate.

TheVigilantFox · Accepted Answer

Maybe they’re suffering unimaginable pain that we’ll never understand.

Maybe they’ve lost someone who meant the world to them and they’ve just given up losing someone can do that to a person you lose all hope and you just hate being alive as there’s literally no point in being here without them.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

This reads as if you think people just decide to just become overweight one day. It's an incredibly gradual process and sneaks up on you. A lot of the times it can happen even though you've not changed anything about your lifestyle. I started gaining weight even though I was exercising and eating the same amount as I always have been. That can be incredibly confusing and hard to deal with. Also weight has absolutely nothing to do with romance.

AdithyaR · Answer

Not necessarily them alone. I've been on a weight loss routine, i workout regularly and am very fit now. I still hate my body just as much as I did a year ago. One's physicality is not necessarily a sign of good or bad mental health.

exitseven · Answer

In some cases they do. Some people just don;t care and just want to eat and drink, take drugs and just have fun.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you insinuating that the only reason for a woman to care about her appearance is to attract a mate?

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Yes, and in reality they are right, even lowering weight, their life is still as miserable.

libsaretards · Answer

For me it was severe depression. Food was a big comfort to me. That combined with alcohol.

Andres77 · Answer

Not all. We have an agenda whether others are part of it or not

alcorriher · Answer

yes. they have unfortunately which is sad and not good

John_Doesnt · Answer

I see a lot of those super fat people on TV who are married and having multiple kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, my father is one of them He should stop smoking, eat healthier and walk more but he does none of these thing despite being told by various people frankly countless times

LiamJHayden · Answer

Probably sometimes, but it could just as easily be disease or injury.

Iron_Man · Answer

People suffering from deep depression, people down on their luck

Willoughby23 · Answer

Staying in shape is hard work. Most people don’t do it until they have complications that cause them physical pain.

Guardian45 · Answer

There can be other extenuating circumstances. There is not just one answer.

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

maybe but linked to trauna

es20490446e · Answer

Low expectations from life.

Cubus · Answer

Well, I haven't.

NachtjaegerSS · Answer

I think that's a fair statement.

Fuentes · Answer

More then likely

Anonymous · Answer

It can be one of many reasons.

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