Have you ever been asked out in the hospital?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I just got.

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3 mo

So I returned today to get some infusions cause I had recovered from 2 viruses in the last two months and my body was weaker now and that guy messaged me asking how I feel, I said I am back in hospital to get some infusions.

And he said “I am on my way to hospital”,

I thought he meant to see me and found it so sweet and caring, asked him not to disturb, and he said he’s coming here to see some patients, I feel awkward now that I thought he was coming to see me 😂😂

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3 mo

Last one month

[Leapfrog00]

This happened to me just a few months ago. I was in the hospital and there was this girl in the room next to mine I walked past when the nurses let me take a walk (Because I was hooked up to a machine for the first few days that kept track of everything!). When the nurse finally let me walk by myself, I walked past her room and she walked out of hers and asked me if I wanted to walk down to the vending machine with her. Having a craving for a Twix bar, I walked down with her. We talked and she asked me what I was in for, and I asked her why she was there also, and the next day, she told me I seemed like an intelligent person and she said I seemed interesting, and she liked writers, so that was a plus, and she took my phone number, I took hers, and she asked me if I wanted to go out for coffee or to lunch sometime. She was really pretty and had a couple freckles under her eyes and these bright blue eyes, and dark blonde hair. She looked like a Disney Princess. Unfortunately, when I moved, I lost her number, and then my phone broke, so I lost contact with her. ::Sighs:: Ay Vay!

[nolabels]

Cool, I guess, depending on your viewpoint!

I swear that I had an ER nurse hitting on me as a patient recently.

She didn't come right out with it, but my lordy, she was sending me signals right and left.

I didn't pursue her, but, boy, I should have.

[Anonymous]

Yeap he was an X-ray technician he sent a signal from his looks that he liked me and was very kind to me.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I was in for knee surgery and one of the nurses who looked after me gave me her number (I did not initiate—though, I was probably flirting). We dated for a while. It was not as weird as you might think.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I just came here an hour ago, one of the resident doctors asked my number and told me to ask him for help if I need him.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I can’t blame him for being attracted to you. …and I guess as long as he hasn’t treated you, it’s not unethical. It does seem potentially discomfiting, though.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you. He hasn’t treated me, he just saw me in the hall.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And it wasn’t discomforting, I felt good, because I was feeling lonely, everyone is accompanied by someone but me.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Good. I’m glad you getting some welcome attention.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah it's pretty common with ER staff especially. You have constant reminders of your mortality you're less likely to beat around the bush and more likely to just go for it and risk rejection.

[Anonymous]

Ofcourse you're Emma Watson you get attention even at funeral...😜

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Awww, I know who you are 🦋

[Opinion Owner]

Aww there is always long que outside public toilets...😎

[Opinion Owner]

So? For update?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He came, but I already left and went home.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He’s been texting me though.

[Opinion Owner]

Planning to sleep with him?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No… If I wanted to sleep with someone I could sleep anytime

[Opinion Owner]

No i mean you both look intrested in eachother why not take a move? Instead of wasting time on texting?

[spartan55]

Thank goodness you are still getting hit on... it had been a few days.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Hahahaha

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You’re no longer annoyed?

[spartan55]

So what if a janitor asked you out instead of a doctor?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That would be sexy too. But the janitor here is 70 years old married gentleman.

[spartan55]

Yeah sure it would.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My first crush in in teens was a farmer’s boy. I went to village in summers and I loved the scent of his sweat when he returned from the field and gave me flowers.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yeah lol... Nurses and intern doctors sometimes... one time she kept the conversation going for way too long and the guy waiting in the back gave her death stares lol...

[Grond21]

No, I haven't. Haven't really been in the hospital.

I'm sorry your illness has progressed this much.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t have any illnesses. I came here to check up my blood and lungs after I recovered from virus.

Do you only go to check your healths when you have illnesses?

[Friendlybro79]

You went to a hospital to check on something? Or do you mean Doctors office or urgent t care center?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Friendlybro79 I don’t know what you call that, I asked my friend where could I check my lungs at night, because I work tomorrow and only have time in the evening, she told me to go there, I went there, took my blood test and checked my lungs. All is great. Came home. That’s all.

[Grond21]

Maybe this is a cultural difference. I think I remember hearing that China only has hospitals and doesn't really have a culture of smaller doctors, offices, or urgent care centers. So at least in the US, and I think in many European countries, if you go to the hospital it's because there was something serious or urgent. Or both.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, maybe. In my country we also have smaller doctor offices, but I don’t know how it is in China.

[Friendlybro79]

Well glad to hear you're ok. That can be scary.

[Grond21]

Yeah. It's a lot harder for small businesses when the medical system is state controlled

[Sharkstealth]

No I've never been asked out ever but at one of my physicals there was this very cute nurse who was being pretty flirtatious. I just wanted to devour her.

[TrillXHippy]

That’s not what hospitals are made for so no never. People go there as patients and people who work there are there to do their jobs because they work there because it’s their job

[msc545]

That happens to me occasionally when I do hospital work. I don't date people I work with ever.

[rachel776]

like to the cafeteria?

[WonderBell99]

Nope, I wouldn’t appreciate it either.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes it's not a happy place

[Nikki1989]

Yes, in the waiting room.

[Alex8736]

I have but I work at one

[Luckycharms12]

Well I work there so no be uncomfortable with it

[justabuddy]

It can happen anywhere.

[Agape93]

Emergency room

[eagle1951]

oh heck yes a few times lol

[honestanswersonly_]

By a patient?

[EaterPeter]

I wanted to