How heavy should someone be before it's unattractive?

[iiinsOMNIA]

I lost eight kilograms in middle school but haven't lost anymore since. I'm insecure of my weight (69 kg) and I wonder how much more weight I should lose to be pretty

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+1 y

I totally forgot to mention that I am 167cm tall! Sorry!

[Anonymous]

This is a common misconception with women because they're so fanatical about weight. Guys do not care about a woman's weight per se. It's how she carries it.

I used to work with this woman who was 5'11" 225 lbs. And she was hotter than hell. I suspect most women will say a woman over 200lbs. Is fat. But this is my point, she was also 5'11". And curves for days. Anytime she gained weight is just added to and accentuated her curves. Not all women got it like that. Is that fair? No but neither is LIFE. Some guys genetically just look at a weight and add muscle while some guys have to put hrs. In the gym to get half the same benefit.

Love yourself and work with what you got hun. That's all anybody can do. And let me tell you I've met plenty of chunky women that were sexy as hell simply because they owned who they were and didn't let it define them. It's hard for someone to believe your beautiful if you don't even believe it. So own who you are!

[hahahmm]

Not really about weight. It's about proportions. But females/women love to talk about weight numbers because that's easy to measure. Also at your age you are still growing/developing! Just exercise and form good habits for getting regular exercise and later in life those things are second nature and easy. People who wait till late in life to do it have a much harder time.

[hahahmm]

Also keep in mind that if you try and find out the weight of celebrities, the numbers are all fake. Sometimes heights are fake too. So don't go thinking you can learn the right weight based on numbers you see from people like that. Just forget about weight.

[pascal_climbs]

Its all about proportions, not weight. You can be heavy, but when it is muscle, you will very attractive

[BlckGrl]

Depends on height girlie

[iiinsOMNIA]

Right, I new that! Can't believe I forgot to say that lol

[inhua]

different people have different bodies so it's hard to determine

some people think Pacific Islanders and Sumo wrestlers are obese and unhealthy but they are strong as heck even more so than the typical gym rat from the west

[Billlewis]

If she's as heavy as 300-400 pounds, I'll probably be interested in her.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Number on the scale is such a bad indicator. A 155lb woman with a 55bmi and a 155lb woman with a 20bmi look nothing alike.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sorry... was trying to multitask and clearly failed. Meant to reference body fat % not bmi, but the rest of the sentiment is valid.

[iiinsOMNIA]

I know, but I'm definitely not someone with 20% body fat unfortunately

[slatyb]

The answer depends on your height. How tall are you?

[iiinsOMNIA]

167 cm

[slatyb]

You aren't heavy. You aren't close to heavy and don't need to lose weight.

[SawerBrown]

What makes you think you're not already pretty.

[iiinsOMNIA]

A lot of different things, but size is a big one

[ProbablyClueless]

Honestly, if you're over 30% body fat, your appearance is probably suffering for it.

[Drumlin2001]

Stop worrying about it. If anyone judges you for your weight they aren't worth your time.