Ok. My sister is 55 years old and she had always had suffered from image issues. When we both young sure wwe both were not thin but I never was complexed about my body, my sister did and still has those issues. Of course who won't want to have a good physical body, thin, flat abs, even mysef but I dont have an image complex. My sister when she was lets say younger she got herlsef in different diet programs she for sure lost weight but then she gain those pounds she lost in the long run. She married for the second tiem and her complex still joined her with her hubbie. Her hubbie was not super thin either but not superfat. So they both as far as I remember got themselves in like 3 different diet programs (waste of money) in a course of maybe 5 years. They sure lost weight but then left the diet plans and gain back because my sister and her husband loves to be socially active, eating out with friends and family often or during the weekends.
Then like maybe 8 years ago they both one more time enroll in a diet plan that according to them had been the only one it had really work: KETO. When they both started that program they looked really skinny after one month after, they look sick as they were very strict to the plan. They both had been on KETO like 3 times also, as they like otehr plans, the finish the 3 month program and gain back. Anyway my brotehr in law is more flexible now in what he eats but always he does nto eat that much sugar and carbs he does eat but not a lot. My sister on the other hand she is strict and also she exercises but as you age your metabolism is slow and your body cannot look the same as when you were a teenager. My sister is not super fit now or have flat abs or hard muscles but still she seems to continue to have a body image complex. SHe believes im thinner than her and let me tell you I follow no diet and I exercise but I dont have a knock out body eitehr, I have my flabby belly no flat abs.
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It sounds like your sister really struggles with body image issues, which is so tough. A few thoughts based on what you described:
- Constantly crashing dieting and being super strict isn't sustainable long term. It's no surprise she gains weight back each time.
- Metabolism does slow as we age, so it's unrealistic to expect her body to look like when she was younger no matter what she does.
- Comparing herself to others, like saying you're thinner, is just going to make her feel bad and not address the real issues.
- Maybe suggest she see a counselor who can help with the underlying psychology. Loving herself no matter what size will help most.
- Encourage her to exercise for health, not just weight loss. Focus on how it makes her feel, not just numbers on a scale.
- Compliment her for who she is, not what she looks like. Build her up from the inside.
It's tough to overcome body image issues. Just being supportive might help her learn to be kinder to herself where harsh dieting hasn't. I hope she can find a way to truly accept and love who she is.
You already know this and it's up to her to change that internal bad image of hers.
Most girls never change that and husbands and bfs or girlfriend help it.
Honestly keto is so bad and ruins your body! Being a nurse I hear so many horror stories 😱 from it.
To I ate ketchup and now I'm so sick for 3 days to I can't digest most things not keto now.
To just gaining weight even when eating less!
It's a fad diet that only works cause getting and making food is a pain!
My brother and sister are this way just bad self body image and they look great!
Want to help her? Get her off keto slowly then tell her she looks amazing always say sweet things and have family do so also keep the positive body compliments and her hair and looks...
Only mentally can she get better