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If you're booked in for a massage (not from your partner), do you prefer someone of your gender or the opposite gender?
Why is that?
Opposite gender for me. I simply cannot relax very well around other men. Most of the people I had in my corner growing up were women.
Massages require one to totally relax and trust the person touching them. Around other men, my instinct to be ready for a fight kicks in, preventing the relaxation needed. Outside of sparring, I have never been in a fight with women.
I'm not dong the greatest job explaining what I'm trying to say. It may seem sexist, but it is simply easier for me to let my guard down around women.
it's more about their ability and pressure. I've had excellent from male and female. probably best was male and worst was male. current is female.
I've never had a massage from anyone other than my SO, but if I was going to get a massage I think I would prefer it to be from the opposite gender as I am more used to being touched by the opposite gender.
Although, if I got a woman massage person I wouldn't complain.
Uh I would probably prefer a woman. If a man is doing it my mind would be in the gutter and not in a state of relaxation
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I don't really care BUT I've never had a massage before. I just ask my wife to do it. I don't go pay strangers to do it to me.
My wife doesn't go pay for them either. If she did I'd only stand for a woman doing it. Her being half naked for 30 minutes or an hour with some man looking down at her body and putting his hands on her crosses my boundaries.
Getting my commitment means you forgo letting other men getting access to your naked body like that or touching you for an hour.
I’ve never gone to a massage parlor and not sure if i would since its my fave kinda porn and i’d have the worst thoughts 😇 But yea I’d definitely want a cute guy preferably in his 20s or 30s
90% of the men I've gotten massages from relied solely on their relative strength over their female counterparts. I LIKE a rough massage, but I've found the women have better technique, so if you find a strong woman you get the best of both worlds.
Opposite. Have given one to a woman and had one given by a woman. Neither were meant to be sexual but both ended that way.
The female masseur realised I found her attractive and well it felt amazing. Suffice to say she helped me come to a happy conclusion.
Female I was massaging was enjoying it too much and well it went way further than a massage.
Don't like any form of physical contact with men aside from hand shakes.
As long as i'm single than for sure it's going to be from a woman and if i was in a relationship or married, than for sure it's also going to be from a woman but she will be my housewife 😁
Which means if i'm married than i'll only have massage from my other half and no one else...
Erotic massages, which I also provide, I get from other girls.
Deep tissue massages I get from guys who have more muscle behind them. Those are more of a 'No pain, No gain' type of thing :)
I geniune dont mind but I had few finger me and if i cum lick off their fingers
I have been massaged by female masseuse often and I loved it.
The only man I was massaged by was my partner. I loved it too.
I’d like to try a male masseur when I heal my leg.
I’m not so worried about gender as much as making sure they put on enough pressure. My back is fucked up and I need a good, deep massage pressure to stop my tension headaches.
I have received massages from men and from women. I found that the women were more thorough with the massage then the men. men tended to rely a bit more on brute force which isn't all that helpful
u I just want those awful cramps out of my legs...
man, woman or a llama... I don't care
I don't like massages so the only person i'd like it from would be a girlfriend. So voted for the opposite gender.
Bi bot troll of the day!. It depends how much of a discount I can get on that happy ending
Not sure I’d mind either way, but I have only had a massage from opposite gender
you forgot to describe what the massause looks like. I'm pretty sure that if the massause look like Vin Diesel more women would choose B in no time
It’s weird having a guy massage it’s not sexual. When I was in a committed relationship I had an old lady do it
as a straight guy i would choose opposite sex but to be honest i don't like massages, not that i don't like the relief and all i don't like wandering hands touching me.
I accept massages ONLY from the opposite sex. I'm not comfortable with gay touches. about transgirls I *may* think twice.
I’m more relaxed with a girls touch. It’s just the energy mesh I guess. Mentally, physically, emotionally, I can wind down easier than with a man, even though I’ve had great man massages.
Doesn't matter as long as their professional and don't talk during the massage.
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