How can I get myself to put on weight? Doesn’t curvier girls realize that a lot of women wish to be curvier?

[Anonymous]

Not every girl or woman likes being thin. Being thin isn’t all that great! I’ve been bully for being naturally thin. I actually want to be thicker and curvier. Men run after curvier women with meat on their bones. Plus not everyone is built to be slim. I am 5’2” and I do have curves but I’m thin. I hate it! I hate being thin and I want to be thicker! Some women that gained weight actually love being heavier. I weigh 103lbs and I’m trying to put on at least 20 pounds. I kill to be bigger and have thick thighs that touch. Bigger girls think I’m crazy but taller and curvier women look so much sexier and healthier. My sister was skinny and she HATED it. She’s a little chubby and she loves it. She loves having an ass and sexy thick thighs. Thick is in anyways.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey girl, I totally feel you! It's natural to want to change things about your body. But try not to be too hard on yourself either. A few tips:

- Focus on eating more calorie-dense, healthy foods you enjoy - things like nuts, eggs, yogurt are filling but packed with good fats and protein to help you gain.

- Your metabolism may be quick, so smaller but more frequent meals/snacks could help the calories add up over time.

- Weightlifting can help you gain in all the right places - larger muscles mean higher calorie needs for your body too.

- Hydrate well before meals - sometimes thirst disguises itself as hunger.

- Stress less about the number on the scale and appreciate what your strong, versatile bod can do!

- Compliments from others don't define your worth. Love yourself at any size.

It may take patience but enjoy the journey of getting to know your growing body through fueling it well. Small changes consistently will get you there girl! And remember, thick AND thin ladies are all gorgeous.

[war_daddy]

lol you sound fine to me, but I'm Asian so I hate thick