I have no motivation to do anything because I have herpes 2, I just want to lay and rot? How can I get out of this?

[Anonymous]

[sheikalana]

If you haven't seen a doctor please do so they can prescribe you some medicine. Herpes usually goes away in less that a week if you get proper treatment. If you don't feel like doing anything just stay inside and chill until it goes away.

[Asker]

I’m testing a medication for it. And it’s permanent. I have trouble breaking it to new partners when we get intimate. I got dumped cuz I told my recent partner I had it

[sheikalana]

Oh I'm so sorry. For some reason when you said herpes I thought you were talking about cold sores which is something fairly easy to treat. That must be terrible. Well, as long as you're honest with whomever you date you shouldn't feel bad by now you should already know that admitting that you have herpes could be a deal break for most people but you're doing what's right. Hope you feel better.

[Asker]

Yeah I just wanna die, I already have trouble finding people to love me and now having genital herpes is 100% worst. And the person who gave it to me removed condom purposely and walking around Scott free. While I’m in debt, may no work another day due to depression and having uti symptoms

[sheikalana]

You should report that person to the authorities. Spreading STDs willingly is a crime. I'm deeply sorry for what you're going through this is a very sad situation to be in.

[Asker]

I don’t know if they will believe me because when we were done he messaged me “I never knew u had herpes” so he’s framing me and also he deleted his social accounts and our chats. Yes I’m very depressed I have no motivation to do anything anymore

[sheikalana]

You should still report him. If he's done it to you he's probably done to other people too. If you don't report him he will do it to someone else and keep spreading STDs. That's a crime! I would expose his picture and tell what he did. I'm sure other women will come forward.

[Asker]

That’s true, should I report to the police or?

[Asker]

It also happened almost two years ago

[sheikalana]

It doesn't matter how long ago it happened. If they question you why did you only decide to report him now tell them at that time you weren't aware of the repercussions this was going to take and its been affecting your daily life.

[riverrat3]

They have meds to control that

[Asker]

The doctor said to only take when I have an outbreak. I don’t know if I willl find anyone who will wanna be my long term partner. And even how to tell them

[riverrat3]

I am sure there is a guy, ( or girl) out there that also has it that understands what you feel

[Asker]

But it’s small percentage that they will like me romantically and how would I know they don’t have other things like hpv

[riverrat3]

You never know till you try

[Asker]

I found the perfect guy recently he treated me like a queen and I’ve never had this before. Then got my results and I have HSV 2. I told him and he left me ofcourse

[Asker]

And I know I will keep getting hurt by people. I will keep having to tell them I have herpes and 90% will reject

[riverrat3]

Getting hurt is part of life

[Asker]

I just feel like giving up

[riverrat3]

Your choice, but suggest you keep trying

[riverrat3]

thanks for the mho

[jahaims]

Don't have sex with people you can't trust.

[Asker]

Too late now jaihams, can’t believe somebody could be so horrible to remove condom and purposely spread std

[jahaims]

I can. Most humans aren't good people.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true