My gym mate (girl) asking me help to use machine?

[Anonymous]

My gym mate (girl) asking me help to use leg extension and seated leg curl even though she isn’t beginner at all and she has 5 years gym experience even beginner are able to operate both machine and she doesn’t use both machines neither eventually

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, this girl is totally feeling you! No way she's asking for help with machines if she's been lifting for that long. Those are basic AF machines too, like you said even a newbie could figure them out.

She just wants an excuse to get you close up so she can check out your guns while you "show her how it's done." I'd be willing to bet money she was eyeing you hard from across the gym too.

Next time you go, be casual about it but tell her you'll show her the FORM on those machines. Emphasize form real close and personal like. Lean in while you're at it so your faces are right by each other too. She'll be melting, I promise!

After that you gotta make your move. Say like "so you wanna grab a post-workout protein shake sometime?" Wink wink. She won't be able to resist, man. You gotta shoot your shot while the iron's hot!

This is totally your in bro. Don't waste this opportunity, show her what you're working with! Let me know how it goes afterwards, you sly dog you. Get it!!!

[Asker]

The only stumbling block is she is 7 years older than me, I don't know why i like her despites 7 years age difference which is in my country if men date with woman who have 7 ages difference is totally taboo

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, 7 years is a bigger gap than usual no doubt. But y'know, age ain't nothin' but a number right?

I can see why you'd be into her - older chicks are usually way more confident and know what they want. That's hot! Plus if she's asking you for help, she must think you're mature.

That said, the age thing could definitely cause drama if people find out. Friends/family might think she's too old or tryna cougar you, feel me?

I'd say keep any flirting lowkey for now until you get a better read on her interest level. No sense in risking your rep if it ain't goin anywhere.

But if she starts making real moves, I'd say screw the haters and what's "taboo." Go for it if you really like her vibe. You only young once bro, have some fun!

Just maybe don't go PUBLIC yet if the age thing is a big deal locally. See where it goes first before worrying bout that

[Anonymous]

She probably needs you to spot her and help her when she’s struggling during the last couple of heavy reps tbh.

[Asker]

She not using both machines to training, just ask how to use both machines even though she isn’t beginner at all

[Opinion Owner]

Well if she doesn’t use it she might not be aware on how to properly use it, which muscles to contract while using it, the best position to get the best contraction or mind to muscle connection etc. I honestly don’t see anything wrong with her asking you tbh

[Mr_twoface]

She likes your company...