Anyone Else feeling, Lonely & Left Behind?

Question

For a M 28, With no Career..

2 college Degree and pursing the third one..

With no Partner.. in past or present.. and probably in future..

Life's became pretty Silent and Lonely..

I don't exactly Hate it, I have a Lot. A dysfunctional family + Food + Shelter + medical facility..

But I cannot Shake off this feeling of being Left Behind and it's beginning of Ache in Places, I didn't knew I had 😑..

Anyone else feeling like this!..

Anyone Else feeling, Lonely & Left Behind?

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Something is not working….

make some changes?

get a job? Get a girlfriend? Get married? What is holding you back?

me? No… I have always been self sufficient even as young as 2-5 years old. We had no food…under the communism rule…

My mom and dad was too busy and out of the house working in the rice paddies… so I was on my own to look for food to eat in the mountains… I learned to survive at a very young age… I looked for cardboard scraps and metal scraps in the street to sell to get a few Pennie’s to buy pickled turnips to eat because I was hungry.

I had to make myself be more outgoing … meet people… never let life put me down… I went out and search for jobs…at 12-13 years old… folding table clothes, babysitting, cashier, filing paper in a small office… I did every job I can find and use the money to buy groceries for my family… I learned to buy sale items…I got my degrees then got a job …working… find a bf… get married so I am not lonely…

thwre was an interview I only read headlines lol… they asked an elderly man for an advice… the elderly man said… get married…

MK1997 · Accepted Answer

I don't. I used to be around lot of people, socialising, having a boyfriend, working... They all brought me conflicts and enemies.

RN I am caring for my mom, have a degree and looking for work. I have people I am talking to when I need it. But I don't need anything more socially.

I am content.

But in the future, I'd want a partner eventually.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I am happily married and within a few years of retirement, so i can’t commiserate with you.

BobbieBoy666 · Accepted Answer

I'm fifty-nine and single and I feel this way and I have friends and family.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes  >>>>>

Shiprex · Answer

Alone but not lonely. I get enough human stimulation from my job and individuals have to be super mellow for me to be interested in them socially. Keeping active and vibrant motorcycle rides gives me enough emotional stimulation to cater to a missing person gap in life. But it's nice having quiet and no clutter in the house.