If big tits hurt your back, get in the way, hurt when they bounce, get unwanted attention, make guys look at them, etc., why do girls want `em bigger?

[Anonymous]

And, if you don't want the attention, why do you wear things that make them VERY obvious and ATTRACT attention?

[bobalife]

I think there’s too much stereotypes and negativity here. I have big boobs and I love them. I never got any back pain lol. I wear what I want and please as a regular person. I also just enjoy fashion and do what makes me feel good about myself. I am just a girl ~

[Asker]

Sounds really nice! I'm glad you wear what you want! Most, if not all, women should be that way.

[bobalife]

Thank you, this means a lot and I appreciate it 😊

[WonderingManII]

@bobalife I got two questions for you:

1) Girls, how did you feel when your boobs first started growing? ↗

2) Girls, did your boobs grow quickly or slowly over time? ↗

[Likes2drive]

Not all of them get back pain from it and the ones that want them bigger are usually very small chested but they dress to make themselves feel good and not for our benefit, it’s very rare that they do it for attention, just like makeup, they do it to look good for themselves or to compete with other women, it’s rarely for men, it’s for their self esteem

[Asker]

Although I have NO problems with them doing so, they can walk around topless, for all I care but, women don't HAVE to walk around with 75% of their tits showing to be good-looking or attractive!! I love seeing them in single-colour, fairly tight, turtle-neck style tops with no sleeves or the same kind with long sleeves. Sometimes, the insinuation is enough to be alluring and pretty. Just like how I don't HAVE to SEE their legs or as to know they're quite nice!! They LOVE walking around in nothing but stretch pants, these days! They aren't at all naked from the waist down but you know what's there.

[Likes2drive]

Sounds like you like women that are dressed like from the 1920s , but yeah, a lot of the young women are dressed in those yoga pants and not leaving much to the imagination

[Asker]

No, I'm fine with what they wear today just not when they wear it and complain about people looking at them. And it's NOT JUST men that are looking and saying things! In facts, it's more women saying things than men! And a LOT of those things aren't very nice!! At least men talking about them is more of an attraction thing and, although kind of backhanded, still complimentary. Women get REAL nasty!

[WonderingManII]

Some girls love the look of big boobs and others don't.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Those who want them bigger dont understand the pain obviously.
A lot of the time its hard to find clothes that fit and dont make them look obvious

[Grond21]

Not all women feel pain. Even on the answers to this question some don't. So perhaps those wishing to be bustier are hoping for their luck as well

[PeachyPie93]

Attention.. Woman love attention more than they love themselves.. Why do you think sex work is so popular now that you "aren't allowed to slut shame" :P

[CherryLove007]

men are thirsty cockroaches and think about sex more and need to fulfill that need more than women period and it does not matter who they stomp on to get it,,,, sex sells now just as much as any other era there is just more visibility now.

[Justagirl333]

I'm used to no one being able to look me in the eye, so it doesn't bother me anymore that my breasts get attention. Unfortunately or not, I can't hide them.

[Asker]

They seem nice but they don't look incredibly big.
Unless they were doing a good bit of bouncing around, I don't think I'd give them more than a quick look or two.

[Justagirl333]

95/D is my bra size🤷‍♀️

[Grond21]

Does Hungary work the same way as the US, where the number is the band size and the cup is the difference between the band and the bust size?

[Justagirl333]

@Grond21 in us 42D

[Grond21]

Yeah, that is what I thought. And it means you are wearing the wrong bra size. It works, to a point, but it isn't tailored for you. Have you tried the abrathatfits calculator?

[WonderingManII]

@Grond21 I think 95 is 42D in the USA.

[Grond21]

Yes, that is what she said too. But from her picture, that can't be right. She would have to be fat with small breasts, relatively, for that size. But she is fit and busty. I am guessing she is closer to a 30H

[Justagirl333]

@Grond21 thank you

[Grond21]

You are welcome. Best of luck with getting your right size

[WonderingManII]

@Grond21 The woman in the picture is beautiful, but when I zoomed in, I'm not sure she is wearing a bra in that picture. I think I can see a nipple through the t-shirt. But that could just be a problem in the picture.

[Justagirl333]

@WonderingManII I wear a bra but it was cotton and it was cool then.🫣

[WonderingManII]

@justagirl333 I'm not offended. But I find that sort of thing "sexy".

[Justagirl333]

@WonderingManII thank you😃 no problem😃 most men find it sexier when the nipple is visible. 😃

[WonderingManII]

@justagirl333 Yes of course! That doesn't seem like a good bra for hiking? It doesn't look like one that would give support for lots of movement. Did you choose that bra for the look of the picture?

[Justagirl333]

@WonderingManII not for the looks. comfortable, doesn't cut in, and holds my breasts.

[WonderingManII]

@justagirl333 Since I am not woman with big breasts I will never understand. I just have an attraction to breasts, so I did the logical thing and read about bras. But I will never understand. Glad it's working for you!

[Grond21]

@WonderingManll I am responding late, but you can see there is a bra because of the quading up top. Which supports the idea that it is the wrong size. The cups are too small.

@Justagirl333 you seem confident in your figure. Congrats on embracing it

[WonderingManII]

@Grond21 Some girls like the quading look.

[Grond21]

Do they? It always signals wrong sizing, so I thought they wouldn't like it

[WonderingManII]

@Grond21 About 2 years ago, I talked to a woman on youtube, and she said that is what she wanted.

[Grond21]

Huh. You learn something new every day

[Asker]

@Grond21 Quading?

[Grond21]

Short for quad boobs. When a bra is ill fitted, particularly when the cups are too small, and some of the breast tissue is pushed up in another rounded shape

[Justagirl333]

@Grond21 the cups aren't small😀 D cup.
I have big breasts, any bra I wear will make my cleavage look big.

[WonderingManII]

@justagirl333 Some bras are made for cleavage and some will completely cover it up.

[Grond21]

@justagirl333 D cup can be big, depending on the band size. But you are bigger than a D cup.

[Nikki1989]

Most women want them smaller. I have felt too big since the age of 14.

[Nikki1989]

And that comment about wanting attention is just immature and delusional.

Newsflash: most women don't dress for the benefit of men.

[Asker]

I never see men wearing tops with plunging scoop necks or skin-toned see through material except for strategically placed decorations over the nipples.

[Asker]

If they want smaller, why are they usually envious of girls with bigger tits and end up getting implants and push-up bras and breast enhancers and pills that make their tits grow? I never see girls from the itty bitty titty committee getting into wet t-shirt contests. I've never heard of a mother telling her daughters to slouch forward to make their tits look smaller and do things to keep guys from looking at them. I never see women binding their chest or wearing nun's habits to make their tits less noticeable. I know several M-F trans people and they put a LOT of stock into having big tits!! I don't know of ANY of them that refuse the hormones or implants just because their guy tits are big enough.