Why is he being weird-squeezing my arms

[Xeniax]

So a guy I have just started to work with confuses me... We talk a lot,and me him and his friend went to this festival yesterday and when I arrived he was all nice telling me I look good,and then later on I the day he was being really weird and like grabbing my arm fat a few times LOL and then he touched my mole and said what is this hahaahhaah I really don't get it he being a d*** and hinting to lose weight or flirting? ~ I know its kind of ridiculous I am just curious to the male mind xD

Updates

+1 y

One more thing..he gives off a slightly gay vibe?

[ColdFeet]

Some guys are a**holes when they like a girl. He doesn't even realize he's offending you, he's just picking the first thing that comes into his head to touch you. He hasn't gotten beyond the playground thing of pulling the girls hair because you like her. He's likely the type of guy that struggles to tell the girl he's with that he finds her attractive and instead thinks she'll get the message because he gets a hard-on.

If that's you in your profile pic then you definitely don't have to lose weight and you're gorgeous. Don't let him bring you down, he doesn't mean to anyway.

[Xeniax]

Your awesome cheers for that x

[Anonymous]

He sounds really immature, haha!

It almost sounds like he likes you and this is his way for flirting, which is pretty lame. But he is finding excuses to put his hands on you, so... hmm.

[Opinion Owner]

way of* flirting

[Deft_maiden]

I am not sure where the weight loss comes to the picture. Otherwise he is flirting with you in an obvious way.,

[aMuse]

He's paying you verbal compliments, touching you, and being playful... How do you turn that into you need to lose weight? O_o? Is this the woman's intuition we always hear so much about?

[Xeniax]

Lol he grabs my arm and back fat though and he goes to the gum, I ask him why he does it and he doesn't answer,then I say I don't understand why in a laughing way and says jokingly you don't need to understand

[aMuse]

Alright I'm going to make a ruling on this right now and say he's flirting. Don't be serious, and self-conscious. Have some fun and run with it if you think it's a good thing.

[aMuse]

*so serious