Girls: if I was dating you and wanted you to start working out regularly would you?

[Jaxi90]

I've had some incompatibility issues here cuz I train 5-6 times a week. Lol the gym's basically a 'girlfriend' in and of itself!

[kaylaS91]

Sure! I already go to the gym no less than 5x a week, and I love it when my boyfriend finds the time to join me there. It's a great way to bond, have fun, and usually ends with us having some fun together whether it be in the change room or back at his place as we're already warmed up. :P

[Jaxi90]

Well if you ever have a bf vacancy...keep me in mind ;) haha

[bellegirl16]

Yes. 2 reasons.

1 - Working out is the best &
2 - it's great bonding time with your guy!

I also train 5 to 6 times a week and have a strange relationship with the gym. I get cranky when I can't go!

[bellegirl16]

By yes I don't mean I would be offended!

[Jaxi90]

Girls like you are the ones I'm after for sure! Glad you 'get' that fitness isn't a hobby it's a lifestyle ;)

[bellegirl16]

I think any good girl friend would at least try it out before she decides she likes it or not.

[Jaxi90]

For sure...I need to meet someone like you.

[bellegirl16]

Thanks. <3 We are out there. Meet her in the gym - then you'll know she already has that in common with you.

[Jaxi90]

Outta curiosity what type of gym do you train at? Metroflex/Golds etc?

[bellegirl16]

I used to be at lifetime for a longtime, but it was a total meat market and full of girls with matchy matchy outfits and fake boobs and perfect makeup. Now I just go to Golds. It's not nearly as flashy, but it has everything I need and people seem more "normal".

[Jaxi90]

Awesome I have the same background! I like being around people who actually compete in shows

[bellegirl16]

I am so not to that level. And I will never be tan enough - lol!!!

[Jaxi90]

I hate being dehydrated/stimmed out for 6 wks prior :P I'm pale and had to use spray tan

[bellegirl16]

Awww - thanks, and good luck!

[Jaxi90]

For sure, and thanks :)

[Distant]

You can "want" her to work out until your face turns blue but it wouldn't give you the right to ask her to do so. It's better for you to find an active girl than to ask an inactive one to be active.

[Jaxi90]

that's true. I've met some girls that woulda been perfect fits though if it weren't for this 1 variable.

[Distant]

I agree with you that people should be active but, even if your lady works out 2-3 times a week and joins you on physical endeavours, wouldn't that be plenty?

[Jaxi90]

Yea for sure

[Distant]

Cool, cool. I was just seeing if it was the fitness that you were adamant about or the actually "gym" aspect. It shouldn't be too hard to find an active girl like that though. Go to the gym around 5pm on Friday , it's ALWAYS packed where I live.

[Thatguy321]

"Hey baby! I love you and all but can you start working out a little more?" Haha tell me how this goes

[Jaxi90]

Do you even lift, babe? Inb4 smack to face

[inamorata]

First, to your description... What do you do? Spend your whole week in there? Dude... Why? =/

Second, yeah I'd work out. If I picked him, it means he cares about me and loves me. I want to show love in turn, which also means, be attractive for him. This will not only make him happy, but make me feel confident as well.
And presuming I picked the guy, I have a reason to believe he cares about my health and best interest, not just my looks. Which is why I'd listen to him without a doubt.
Really... A free personal trainer. What more can a girl ask for? xD

[Jaxi90]

I actually spend all my time in a law office, and the remaining small fraction in the gym. What I meant is that I'd like to date someone who could commit 45 mins to an hr a few times a wk but have been unsuccessful thus far.

[inamorata]

Wow... =/ Is it THAT hard?
Well, you gotta keep looking. I'd say your best is to pick up the girls at the gym.

Have you considered that maybe getting a girl in your gym might be a curse in disguise? I've never dated a guy who wanted to bring me to his gym. They all treat it like some man sanctuary, so all I got was jogging with him, so someone doesn't snatch me in the dark. xD
Maybe, getting a girl in there will become a burden at a point where you want some alone time to let of steam and she just follows you right in. xD

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

I'm not going to workout with my boyfriend bc he likes to be at the gym and especially not five or more times a week. I may sign up for an mma or a poll dancing class but not to be on the treadmill. If he works out that many times that's him and I wouldn't gripe about it.

[Jaxi90]

Well that's pretty fair. I respect that. My problem's been catching static for going in the first place.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

I don't see how anyone could unless a girl has some level of insecurity, that you're not giving enough attention. But if it helps you function to be a happier healthier you find someone who appreciates that and may even wanna be that active with you. Maybe you even try inter grating alternative activities your next girlfriend will wanna do with you.

[EyeSeaYew]

Find a girl who is already physically active and in shape, and will regularly go to the gym with you. I'm a very active, in shape person, but not the gym-type person. I'm irregular when it comes to formal exercise. I prefer casual (yet still effective) ways of exercise, such as hiking, bike riding, swimming, and gymnastics. If you're the gym type then find another girl who is as into the gym as you are. That way, you can be together doing something that you both love. There's really no point in dating a girl who despises the gym and is out of shape and has no motivation to exercise with you whatsoever, if going to the gym really is your main interest. You could probably find a girl who loves the gym as much as you do at the gym.

[musicbrain5]

I would assume that you don't like my body/not attracted to me or just want to be controlling over how I exercise. I rarely go to the gym anymore, but I am fit from playing sports regularly and taking care of my body.

[Jaxi90]

That counts too! I'd love to play a sport with a girl

[Thatguy321]

I say invite her to the gym, if she doesn't wanna go, then drop it.. You could also try other physical activities like hiking or something

[Ildskf]

Yeah! I already work out on a regular basis...4-5 days/week for about an hour...I've tried to get my BF to go to the gym with me but he won't...his idea of working out isn't what I need to do to get my body looking how I want

[Jaxi90]

You sound like a fun gf and gym partner

[BrokenPromises]

If you're any good in bed she'll have all the 'working out' she requires. If someone told me to 'work out' to please them I'd honestly show them where the door is.
Why should I 'work out' to please someone else? Its totally not acceptable. Its just like me asking a guy to wear eye liner because I find it attractive.

[MaskofInsanity]

Nope. I'm active and reasonably fit, but I despise the gym. If my partner wants to go for runs, hikes, etc then I'm all for it. But if he wants me in the gym because it's a hobby of his, it's just not going to happen lol.

[sweatgirl]

I run two gyms so I have no excuse not to. plus I would hope that the guy would want me to stay healthy and fit. I have some health problems which require me to workout regularly. I also usually, buy not always end up dating guys who are gym rats.

[alliecheergirl123]

i mean yeah! i believe that excessing is really important not just for the body, but emotionally and mentally. I mean you might be better off finding a girl at the gym, because shell already have your question taken care of

[Alexias]

I like gymming alone because I am more focused, but I also wouldn't go that frequently, basically 2-3x is good for me!

[sarmac]

well i'm already at the gym all the time soooo..

[Jaxi90]

Ha so glad girls like you exist! ;)

[koibito]

Well... if you can somehow find a way to bond with her while gyming.

[lipstickjunkie]

hahahah no i would probably punch you in the balls too. who fucking cares if she works out or not. it's her body. if you want to work out, that's fine, but don't be a fucking asshole and push it on your girlfriend.

[nickstaa]

Get her a gym membership and say you got a two for one membership or something lol

[lamebabe]

I think some girls might take this the wrong way.

[lacelover20]

I deffently wouldn't get offended by thay

[chocolateismylover]

I don't know it depends.