Is it weird to consider girls as a hobby?

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Girls would that be a red flag?

Would you be turned off by a guy claiming to have girls as his hobby?

or is that just stereotypical?

Weird but I like it!

Weird and he can go find his “hobby” elsewhere!

Get a life bro!

Don’t care and I’m just here for the pics

[mandyfire98]

Making something a hobby is kind of like objectifying it. So if you make girls a hobby then you are objectifying them. Collecting things is a hobby, not women.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I didn’t expect that view from you but fair enough!! I certainly don’t want to do that!

[mandyfire98]

Yeah because hobby is like collecting coins or something. You're collecting objects. So to say women are your hobby makes it sound like you might not look at them as people haha

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I can totally see that and I understand your reasoning but what if it’s more like a riding bourses type of hobby? Rather then collecting or owning them as a goal it is learning best how to interact and enjoy them?

[mandyfire98]

I still probably wouldn't call it a hobby. Saying you love women and want to get to know them is one thing but that's not a hobby.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

That is fair!!

[DizzyDesii]

Being boy crazy is certainly a hobby

[Wish4UrB00ty]

lol! You do seem to be pretty accomplished at that one! 😂🥰

[DizzyDesii]

I came out the womb ready to check out dudes lmao! My mom said i had my first boo at age 2 lol! I saw pics of us but honestly i just remember my first love triangle at age 4 between Chance and Logan. Lovely just wonderful 🙌 I think i won a boycrazy award in school once. Lol i stay in trouble 🤣

[Wish4UrB00ty]

😂😂😂 you won an award? That is too cute! I don’t know that I have ever heard of giving an award for that before. Although there are always boy crazy girls.

[DizzyDesii]

It was like a yearbook award lol. Lets just say i had a lot of suitors in HS 🤣

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Lmao! Gotcha! I think I was asking parents if I could marry their daughters at 2 but the first girl I remember liking was in first grade. She hated me. Lol!! After that they all seemed to like me. In collage I had a friend that called me Salomon with all my girls…

[DizzyDesii]

I had so many potentials who were interested in me but I wasn't allowed to date until i was 14. So a lot of opportunities were missed. Then once i could date, i still had to turn down better options because i was too stuck on being a good girlfriend despite him being the worst boyfriend

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Oh my gosh you started dating that creep at 14? Is this the one that pulled a gun on you?

[DizzyDesii]

Yep. We dated age 14 to 16. Then when i finally escaped, he popped up yearly to make sure i was still “his”. We started dating in 2009 but he continued to popup all the way until 2015. Got so sick of that because he’d spit some bullshit and i’d consider taking him back again

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Oh gosh that is sad! But fair! Some people can be very persuasive. Especially when they are spinning lies.

[DizzyDesii]

With the exception of a little German mate, no one else got second, third etc chances after that douchey first boyfriend. When im done, im done. When im free, im free

[Wish4UrB00ty]

That is really impressive! A lot of girls who are boy crazy tend to be more fluid it seems. Some will even say that if she accidentally flirted her way to someone’s room then it isn’t her fault because she was only flirting…

[DizzyDesii]

They sound like hoes not flirts lmao

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Completely! 😂😂
Also do you still feel like a flirt or do you keep your boy craz to a minimum under shyness pretenses?

[DizzyDesii]

Boy crazy to me isn't about flirting. Its about your love for men and constantly bringing them up in conversation. After a breakup, i’ already ready to talk about the next hot guy 😂 If my cousin called me all sad, i’d change the topic to hot dudes and crushes. Thats just me. Boy crazy. As for being a flirt, I get it from my dad, so I’ll always be that when single

[Wish4UrB00ty]

😂😂😂 I get my flirt from my dad too. Haha! It’s so funny how easily it comes some times. My friends tell me I am a horrible flirt.

[DizzyDesii]

Im a good flirt but i do misread things sometime

[Wish4UrB00ty]

😏😊 I bet you are!

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Your welcome! 😊

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Nah.

My father literally said that beautiful women have always been his passion and weakness and he couldn't live without them. He had affairs through all his marriages and used his being a good-looking and polished man to its full extent.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I good point! It can get dict real quick! I know a few guys in my family like that.

[NathanDavis]

chances are this guy does not actually "have" girls... but a lot of time to look at girls, online... lol

[Wish4UrB00ty]

That is a fair assessment!😂😂

[jorfan3]

It sounds like you don't take girls seriously, so it would make it harder to take you seriously as dating material.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Good point! I can see that as an issue for sure.

[Emiliamazing]

I'm not sure that it's a weird hobby, but you may have a challenging time to get active participation 🤣

[DavidRaul]

Make her your priority, not hobby.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I didn’t say there was a SHE. It’s kind of a general female sort of interest

[DavidRaul]

Well, you just failed to understand what i said

[Wish4UrB00ty]

No I understood! And really the fact that my outlook is more on the side of “that not really my goal” is probably more so the reason why I’m still single. Because you are right…

[DizzyDesii]

@DavidRaul Such a sexy answer!!

[DavidRaul]

Thanks @DizzyDesii

[Anonymous]

Get a life bro. You are objectifying girls when you do that.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

How?

[Msputiton]

Weird

[collie22]

Women aren't hobbys

[strateguy632]

yes.