Do you think it's a good idea to date someone who doesn't share your hobbies or hate your interests?

[itsannalee]

Would you date them?

[quickquesocheese]

As someone who used to have that mindset, meaning that your partner didn't have the same interests or hobbies, i thought it was fine, until i meet someone who did. Its amazing. Please find someone who enjoys the things you do!

[jazzy34]

It would be an extremely difficult relationship. We don’t have to have everything in common, but if there is no common ground whatsoever, it’s not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course. I don’t understand why people think it’s important to have all the same interest as you. When I started dating my girl she had different interest that I didn’t care for. But as time went on I’ve taken on some of her interest as she has w mine. But there are still some hobbies of hers that I don’t care about. I have some hobbies she still doesn’t like of mine either. But to me it was a good thing because I got into things I would have never done on my own because of her. You don’t have to be joined at the hip 24/7.

[itsannalee]

Imagine if you are interested in video games, biking or fishing, but your woman hates it and doesn't like you to do it. Is ikay if your woman doesn’t like it, as long as your guys support each other. But hate it will just hurt to each other.

[bowenw]

You can't agree on everything, but hopefully you have some things in common so you have things you can do together. For me it would depend on how much time they want to spend away from me enjoying their own hobbies and avoiding the ones of mine that they hate.

[BonzoInBitburg]

It's much better to share hobbies and interests. It makes like easier if you don't always need to compromise and can do what you enjoy together

[Coden7]

You should have some things in common to do together. But it should also be okay to have some things separate. Either way you should at least respect each others interests.

[slatyb]

Who hates your interests? Not a good idea. No one will share all your interests, but if they hate them that's a bug no.

[TurboAnon]

I wouldn't want her to hate my interests, but we don't have to have the same interests. If she dislikes some of my interests in a cute way, then that's fine. However, we should share at least a couple of the same interests.

[Berethor]

I accept that men and women are different, sharing hobbies is more of a friendship thing.

[Knightwatch27]

Not sharing interests and hating your interests are very different things and hating what I do for fun is not a solid foundation for a relationship, obviously.

[DrPepper12]

Not hate but have little interest in is a good idea

[nawtee_me]

As long as they don’t try to stop you from your hobbies and interest then I think it is okay not to share them.

[dudeinohio]

It's ok if they don't share my interests... but not good if they hate them.

[Jerre]

Yes, I would still date her if she was attractive to me and liked sex as much as I do

[jorfan3]

I tried this. Went down in flames.

[Account]

No, I don't think that is a good idea.

[ProbablyClueless]

We'd have to have some kind of overlap...

[lexie_xo]

nope there has to be compatibly...

[ChicoFromThe305]

Hate or doesn't like cause there's a difference

[BarryLiverstone]

If they hate my interests I’d be curious why

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope that means you have nothing in common

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope

[Ladsin2]

Nope

[eagle1951]

nooo