Why do guys seem more comfortable than girls on nights out?

[neilsmart]

[OneViewpoint]

In my experience guys are just more laid back and chill than women who tend to be more riddled with insecurities and competitive with other women.

A bunch guys can get together and one guy may be wearing jeans and a t-shirt while another guy is wearing a suit and tie and another guy is wearing shorts and flip flops. Trust me, none of them give a shit what the other guys are wearing or the fact that one of them has a 2 day growth of facial hair. They are just in the moment yacking with friends.

Women are judging each other every second. Hair, makeup, clothes, handbag, jewelry. And they love to stab each other in the back for some reason.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

If a guy was wearing flip flops he would at least get some comments cause that's more of a girl thing to do.

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[LifeHitMeandRan]

Guys will generally go for clothes that we deem practical/functional/comfortable over anything formal if we have the choice.

[OneViewpoint]

@Shrimpenjoyer ,

Hardly, LOL. I have a friend who sold his business and has a beach house on Long Island Sound. He shows up every Friday night in a ratty t-shirt and shorts from about May - October. I'm often coming from Manhattan and meetings with banking hedge funds and private equity clients so I'm in a suit or blazer with shirt and tie. Other friends are steel workers in a small construction firm. They show up in jeans and a pullover shirt or sweatshirt. Another guy is a freelance mortgage broker who works from home most of the time. He shows up in jeans and a button up shirt because that's what he wears most of the time. Another guy owns a bar / restaurant. He shows up in flip flops and cargo shorts all year long, LOL. These guys have nothing to prove to anyone. And none of us care what anyone else is wearing.

[Master_Debator]

For us it's just some bullshit we got talked into going to... good chance to drink... maybe check out some other chicks on the DL. For chicks though... They really know how to turn something simple into a shit show. I won't go into how they do that... just believe me... It's never just some drinks and eye candy with them.

Now I've worked in clubs (drug dealer), and from what I've seen... dudes don't really have shit to worry about unless she's not inviting him to come with. I mean if you judged me for just looking at women earlier, you haven't caught these married chicks giving random strangers BJ's before have you...

If you're a dude, you should feel uncomfortable with her going on nights out without you... just trust me bro. lolz.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s a choice
Dressing up or dressing down


And guys who dress down on nights out later wonder why no one found them attractive


The truth is, girls do it right.
Dressing up is not a wasted effort


Details make all the difference

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[AviatorTom]

Girls think they have to advertise, like the girl in the picture. Short skirt. Stiletto heels. Bare shoulders. A bit of cleavage. And a choker. It's obvious what she's looking for.

Guys, on the other hand, don't need to advertise, they just need to show up and check out the eye candy, like the guy in the picture

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[AviatorTom]

@neilsmart That's the whole point. He dresses to be comfortable, not to advertise.

[DreamCrescent]

what’s she looking for? i thought she looked nice

also what’s wrong with a choker? other than it’s so 90s

[CherryLove007]

I love a man in a tux and I cannot lie... xoxo

[molonski2]

Because females treat it as a marketing performance, it's all about performance, presentation , they want to know all this detail , you just cannot plan things like that , sometimes it's just wing it and enjoy.

Females tend to make everything a big deal., over thinking , over interpretation.

" They did this because of that " type stuff.

[LifeHitMeandRan]

Because we are simple. We don't try to plan everything. We just roll with the punches. We also don't try to compete with each other. We literally just fuck around.

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[capriVib]

Bc they don't have as much to show off visually as women do.

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[DryGermanGuy]

I never noticed this. The girls here are partying just like the guys.

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[DryGermanGuy]

If anything, she is dressed more comfortable than him. But how comfortable someone perceives his/her clothing, is largely subjective anyway.

[lightbulb27]

always thought the girls looked more confident.

[RedInnocent69]

Because we’re in control. We’re not trying to impress. We’re trying to enjoy and relax.

[neilsmart]

the guy is dressed more comfy than the girl in the pic?

[RedInnocent69]

Very much so, @neilsmart

[neilsmart]

he looks really hot wearing that open neck shirt, jeans and Timberland boots

[RedInnocent69]

Noted, @neilsmart 😉

[Bklynbadboy12]

Im always comfortable and I always want her to look her best. I think the woman should always outshine the man

[CubaPirate]

We're less likely to be sexually harassed or abused id say

[Anonymous]

Are they? I've never been comfortable on nights out.

[NathanDavis]

because they're drunk... lol

[jamesgoldman]

Low/no risk of spiking or rape

[neilsmart]

what about the way they dressed differently?

[Jeff51]

Those guys have game.

[Anonymous]

I don't know that but look amazing

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[Opinion Owner]

I think they both have a comfortable outfit on

[neilsmart]

she is wearing a tight choker while he is wearing an open neck shirt, and she is balancing on her tip toes while he is wearing comfortable boots, no?

[Opinion Owner]

Chokers don't choke so hard that the person suffocates. Chokers are a piece of jewellery which looks beautiful. She wouldn't look that happy in the photo if her outfit made her uncomfortable.

[neilsmart]

that's true but they do feel tight around our necks - they press against our windpipe when we talk and swallow but it feels sexy wearing it around well dressed hot guys

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly! That's why I like girls who wear it

[neilsmart]

guys look really confident with your shirt collar open like that guy - does your neck feel naked with your collar open?

[Opinion Owner]

Once I'm used to it then no. But the first few times, yes it does feel naked

[neilsmart]

its a very attractive look on guys - confident and relaxed

[Opinion Owner]

True. If the guy is confident it does look good

[neilsmart]

based on the pic he looks confident - i imagine he takes her home and slides his c**k down her throat

[Opinion Owner]

That's normal when it comes to sex

[neilsmart]

yeh i know from experience - that's what guys do

[Nemesis2k7]

False

[neilsmart]

what about the way he is dressed more comfortable than her?

[oldman26]

Do they always