A guy coworker asked me at work what’s my new year goal or plans?

[Anonymous]

Was he just trying to have a conversation

[jarkitor20]

Sounds like normal conversation ye. I've asked a bunch of my coworkers that without wanting anything from them

[Asker]

Oh okay lol might be just overthinking here

[jarkitor20]

Depends on what you want it to be. Even normal conversations can be a start of something

[Asker]

Nah he just married guy I doubt he intended it to be something else

[Asker]

I was surprised he mentioned his wife in a conversation out of all this time we been talking he never mentioned her up until today referring to what he was doing on new years

[jarkitor20]

Maybe he felt he was too flirty so decided to mention his wife. I've done that before cuz I can be flirty

[Asker]

Maybe so you might be right some
Just come
Off flirty

[jarkitor20]

It can be quite nice to still be flirty without wanting anything else I don't know how to explain

[Asker]

Right just I remember once him mentioning his wife when he was asking me if I though he was attractive and I said why don’t you ask you’re wife he said my wife thinks I’m ugly… other than that never he initiated his wife so I definitely was shocked

[i_am_an_engineer]

Yes…