The point he's trying to get through is that when you married, you made a promise. Keep that promise. When you have kids, you have to be there to raise them.
If an inexperienced man told you how to do something because that's just how he thinks it works would you believe him and wing it?
Some things "sound good" but are completely impractical. This guy should write Romance novels not "advice columns" because there are quite a few things missing from this like the reality of hardship and how to deal with it, the reality of change not only in the self but in your partner (and how to deal with it), and the overall reality of children which is that they are individuals, not objects, and you do not weigh them down with deferred dreams; all that does is present undue pressure.
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Here's a thought... does it really matter? Is life quantifiably or qualitatively 'worse off' without marriage?
I guess it doesn't.
Depends on who you ask though ;p
Depends on where you are in life and how you are built / what kind of life you are living / are a part of.
its means TRAPPED 4 LYFE BRO!!!
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hahahahaahah, surely it isn't all bad.
"When you have children, have your children carry your hopes and dreams."
What if they are crushed like mine are?
You're totally single and not a parent. I can tell.
The point he's trying to get through is that when you married, you made a promise. Keep that promise. When you have kids, you have to be there to raise them.
If an inexperienced man told you how to do something because that's just how he thinks it works would you believe him and wing it?
Some things "sound good" but are completely impractical. This guy should write Romance novels not "advice columns" because there are quite a few things missing from this like the reality of hardship and how to deal with it, the reality of change not only in the self but in your partner (and how to deal with it), and the overall reality of children which is that they are individuals, not objects, and you do not weigh them down with deferred dreams; all that does is present undue pressure.
But it does SOUND good!
great take!
Great Take! :)
Their may not be bars, but its a cage nonetheless.
It's something you have to deal with IF you want a family.
True
i liked it
IT is bad i sink
uh... kk
of course