My girlfriend lost her virginity by cheating?

[Anonymous]

She and I were BOTH virgins and we were talking about doing it soon but she's been sleeping with two of my ''best friends'' the worst part was for 9 straight months this has been going on. It started the night of the same day I proposed to her. After I told her she meant more then the world to me What should I do? I know realistically I should leave her but I still love her and my heart wants her.. well whatever is left of my heart. This is fucked up. Help please?

[Missterio]

No, no, no.

You can't marry her.

You need to move on.

She basically heard you say you meant more than anything in the world to you. And her answer to your honest feelings was to stab you in the heart by whoring herself out to your friends.

Which by the way you need to dump them too. They are not your friends.

And she will make you miserable and cheat on you in the future too. Be sure.

Im even doubting if she was really a virgin. She probably lied to you.

[bloodyrevenge]

I'm sorry. But if she was willing to lose her virginity to someone who she doesn't love and then sleep with someone else also. And sleeping with both if them repeatedly you need to move on. It sucks. And its hard but she doesn't care about you and, how you feel.

Some people cheat and regret it and their relationship can be saved. But usually if its a one time thing. Not months on end. Hope this helps.

[ghostqueen]

Leave her ass! Save yourself the trouble and dump her. That's so messed up, she betrayed you tons and most likely will again if given the chance. It's gonna suck but you can't stay with someone like that. Oh, and if you haven't already cut those shit friends off too.

[Máiiréad]

Don't be foolish, leave her. If you stay with her then you are abusing yourself. Don't do that.

[Unigel]

I would advise to get the fuck out. I need to trust my partners, I can't involve myself in the relationship otherwise.

If you stay with her, I bet that your trust will have a hard time coming back and even if it does you will never forget what she did. It will come back to you everytime you feel anxious, sad or angry, every time you argue with her, every time you doubt her.

Starting a relationship with that kind of handicap sounds like a lost cause to me.

[Missterio]

yes and she most likely will cheat on him again in the future...

no serious person does what she did.

no person that loved someone would do what she did...

she has probably been playing him from the start.

[aggle]

Don't be desperate man. Your heart may want her but she is a class A cunt on every level. Leave her and never go back. Id also ditch the best friends too they sound like complete dicks.

Leaving someone you love is hard I understand but if she cheats on you with two people after you proposed then in all likelyhood she is playing you.

[daz2000]

Dump the bitch and ditch the so called mates you dont need an anchor like that in your life it may be hard but you gotta move on once a cheat always a cheat she will screw you over again trust me especially seen as it was going on for nearly a year

[OpenWine]

https://youtu.be/FLLnL4RZCPk

favorized this for the sole purpose of answering these kind of questions.
watch and decide

[Lovemycountryboy]

You need to leave her because what if she does it again behind your back you need to leave her and she needs to realized that she should have not done it and she screwed up

[parttimelover]

If you still want to have sex i say sleep with her just so you have the experience now.
But i personally couldnt do that. Being a sloppy third. Its disgusting

[Missterio]

worst advice ever...

no dont do it.

she's a bitch. and you will only b selling yourself short.

[parttimelover]

@ missterio

just saying. free lunch. has to be eaten from the floor though

[Marinepilot]

Leave her and beat their ass. Hell, hit her too, she's derserves it.

[Asker]

I agree.

[potatoisme]

You know the answer. It's time to move because she's not someone worth spending your time with.

[abond008]

Well that really sucks. Be glad you found out before you got married. It sucks but you move on. I am so sorry to hear.

[nickyBBB]

Wow I would slap her so hard lol
Seriously leave her and try to forget about her, she is a b***h

[Amiralooch]

Dump her I know it's hard but you deserve better. She did it many times she is more likely to do it again.

[turtlejai]

Lose the girl and the supposed best friends. No trust anywhere there. better to hurt now than keep on hurting

[hasrett]

Why are you still with here?

[Anonymous]

Ugh! Move on she don't deserve you. You don't want to marry a cheater dont you?

[Bodhi_Stinson]

Leave her. Sorry mate this is really not good

[TheCrazyBoy]

Leave her sometimes you have to just let go.

[Anonymous]

Bail. Now.

Remember that it’s for the best.

[Flower-petal]

Move on

[Anonymous]

Have you got to have sex with her yet?

[Asker]

GTFO...

[disgustingweebtrash]

Leave that sloot

[Billywu2]

Run run run