My husband bought me lingerie for Christmas but I don't want to wear it. Any suggestions on how to tell him?

[Anonymous]

My husband Matt suprised me by buying me lingerie for Christmas. He has been shopping before with me when I have gone to Victoria Secret. Matt knows me very well and bought the right size but the items he choose where far too revealing and sexual to ever wear outside the house and considering how much they cost I would feel bad just wearing them to bed. I appreciate how much trouble he went to but I would rather return them than wear them considering how much they cost. How do I tell him without hurting his feelings?

[Hanoi_Jane00]

My advice is to wear it a few times on a special occasion, surprise him with it and screw his brains out, then put it away. Guys are easy pleased in my experience. Sex is a great way of smoothing over something you did wrong like backing into his car or accidently setting the kitchen on fire or replacing his favourite but ugly sofa.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Just wear in bedroom or under robes

[Asker]

I agree with your advice.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Thanks :-)

[Asker]

@Warmapplecrumble can you send me a private message. I would love to talk to you more

[Laura85]

My other half gas been buying me underwear of all sorts for years and to the credit if most guys they are well aware of the difference between bedroom underwear and every day nice underwear. Just thank him and enjoy wearing it in the bedroom

[SarahsSummer]

You wear lingerie outside the house?

[Asker]

Yes, although when I said lingerie, I am considering a push up bra to be lingerie.

[SarahsSummer]

Maybe you should tell him you cheated with his mom before you accept any more gifts from him.

[Sha84]

just wearing in house and didn't insult husband

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice.

[Sha84]

very much welcome