It's not that I'm self-conscious about my body, I'm not at all actually but I'm not at all "sexy" kind of girl more rather "cute" just kind of go-with the flow kind. However when I'm over at his place and we have our sexy time how it starts off is the same and I want to be more direct, aggressive in a way, without looking like a fool and possibly laughing because I feel silly trying to be sexy just being in my underwear unless he wanted me to show them off.
OK, I hope you guys get what I'm saying. I'm not talking about "porn-esque" behavior. If you wanted your girlfriend to be more fun and sexy/cute how would you want your girlfriend to initiate and show off her undergarments?
Lady's any ideas?
and please, no gross stuff either.
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It is impossible to be assertive and self-conscious at the same time. You have to choose what matters to you--is it what you mean to do, or what others will think about it?
If you're going to worry about what people think, give up on being direct, give up on having fun, and give up on being sexy--it's not for you. Otherwise, do what you mean to do.