Boyfriend wants to wear my underwear?

[Anonymous]

Sooo recently I ended up catching him wearing a pair, he told me he wants to start wearing them all the time. I find it very odd, he swears that they're the most comfortable he's ever worn but to me they don't look comfortable on him. It's also a major turn off but I also feel wrong telling him what to do in this regard

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I completely put this in the wrong place, I'm sorry!

[_Maya_]

I get the dillemma. You can't really control (nor should you try) what someone else feels comfortable in. Now, if this is a deal breaker then you have to speak up. Just as much as he is entitled to wear women's underwear, you are entitled to not want to be with a guy that does. It is the ugly truth of the situation. Now if the bigger issue is that he is wearing YOUR underwear and you are grossed out by that, then there is a possible solution. Tell him to by his own women's style underwear because you don't find it hygienic to share that (I wouldn't either). That idea is working under the assumption that you would be okay if he wore his own but are not happy he is taking yours. If you are freaked out by the whole thing in general then that is a whole other issue.

[Asker]

Good advice, he definitely needs to get his own. I do find it weird but probably not a deal breaker, I just wonder if there's more to it than what he says (comfort)

[_Maya_]

No, I agree there is likely more to it. How can that be comfortable for a guy. You know what I'm talking about how they are cut to fit our downstairs and not to store the other type of..."equipment"

[BTigers96]

I've worn women's underwear at "her" request several times. Because it turned. Out of us on. But, I've never stolen a pair and put them on. That makes it all the more curious.

[DishLady]

😂 😂 😂 (Ahem... sorry. I was picturing you putting a lock on your underwear drawer.)

If you're not comfortable with it you have to tell him. You wouldn't want him to stretch your panties out for the wrong reasons...

[MrOracle]

There's a big difference between wanting to use that material (say, wearing silk boxers) vs. wanting to wear women's underwear. Most women wouldn't have a problem with the former, but most would not be happy about the latter.

[handsomelad70]

Talk to him about his fetish, but don't assume anything about his s*xual orientation.(I've never worn them, but I hear chicks' underwear can be really comfortable.)

[Makeushiver]

You mention that you find it odd but that sounds like it needs elaboration. Turn off/on?

[Wise4myage]

Seems odd to me, but if you are ok with it, then so be it.

[Oldschool1981]

I prefer ladies underwear