Is getting married worth it?

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Qdbrown · Accepted Answer

Marriage a bad idea for men. As a man you take on all kinds of risks and liability. Guys go in thinking they will lock in the woman they meet. Nope...

In these modern marriages sex begins to slow down after the furst few years. I don't care what you look like ot what you think you can do sexually. She will get bored of you and once she has you, she will begin to think she can do better.

Why is this important, because she can divorce on a dime. After you start a mortgage on a home, buying cars and taking on credit card debt. Maybe a kid or two? When she gets mad at you as a man you're still on the hook for all of that. And as a divorced guy you can try remarriage and start over, but that often restarts the same failed fool's errand while orphaning your kids except maybe to see them every other weekend.

Also taken the churn of false allegations in the dating world and silver bullet divorces, a guy even thinking marriage is a very dumb dude.

KrakenAttackin · Accepted Answer

Getting married is the single most dangerous thing a young man can do. There is no reason, at all, for a man to get married under the current "family law" system.

Nazgol · Accepted Answer

It depends. Only if you can be happy and have the same goals & dreams

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Our 11th anniversary coming up and it definitely was for me.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Absolutely not. There’s no burden to perform for women like there are for men. When they leave you lose half. Even the prenup isn’t solid. There’s nothing you can get from marriage you don’t get from a long term relationship. I wouldn't marry the perfect woman.

Anonymous · Answer

As a happy married man I can say, yes. Yes it does. I don't regret it at all.
What I can add is this... Nothing changed after the marriage. And that is the goal. It's not supposed to improve the relationship. If it was good it should continue to be as good.

SynthKobra · Answer

It is for people that have fostered a deep and rich relationship but even then I don’t see huge benefits

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I have been married for 25 years and so far so good.

Vietnemin · Answer

Well it conserves resources if that’s something you care about

MyNameJames · Answer

Really depends on who YOU are. Some people just can't marry because it's not for them, if you know you know.

ariadneR · Answer

I think so, but I guess it depends on the person.

Shihab91 · Answer

If you chose the right one... Yes sure

dray995 · Answer

I don’t know. I’ve never been married.🤷🏻‍♂️

TheFlak38 · Answer

yes if you want to destroy your life.

Sketti2021 · Answer

Depending on what you want

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Certainly not if she doesn't have a hymen.

Agape93 · Answer

Not in my opinion

InferiorElegy · Answer

Nope

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