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Even though my son is only 12. He already set his eye on a quality girl from a quality family. He asked my opinion of get, I told him I approved after he gave me some information about the girl. Then during online learning, I got to “know” her characters and her family. I am proud to say, my son is making a good choice.
when parents show live and respect for their children, they will continue that in the blood line.
to answer yiur question, the answer is no. I would not approve of my children to marry trashy people. they are being raised to respect themselves, the family and to carry on this tradition to their children.
the problem with the siciety as you can see from the opinions shared... is... it’s their choice... the reality is... it’s the love/influence of the family from childhood that they will carry that value.. that value is gone.
@midnightmoon05. Exactly right! This is exactly what I was looking for and you are the only one who gets the point! Thots raise Thots and fuck boys.
You don't marry thots. You fuck them and leave them like roadkill.
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What's his body count, tho? If I had a son, I wouldn't raise him to be hyprocrital or have double standards... If he wanted to marry a virgin then he should also be a virgin... If he don't want a thot with a high body count, then he shouldn't be a fuckboi with a high body count either... But when it's all said and done, it's not the parent's choice or decision who their children marry... Cuz I could ask you are you okay with your daughter marrying a guy or fuckboi with a high body count who will think he can judge her for hers🤔🤔🤷
No, I would not want my daughter to marry a fuck boy, but that is not the question.
Even if your son was a fuck boy, would you want him to marry a thot, "just because that's fair"?
@Brainsbeforebeauty No sense me posting a comment other then to say you said it all.
I already gave my answer... Don't expect from others what you aren't yourself... You men who think you can dick any female you want but expect them not too... I don't know why you invite me to your questions..
I'm so over this sexist double standard hypocritical bs on here...
Thought I told you that yesterday. You think you stirring people up, all your doing is looking very immature for your age🤷 enjoy your Sunday tho.. Peace out✌️👋
It's a simple question.
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@Brainsbeforebeauty you can lead a horse to water, hun...
@Dazed0N0Confused lolol
More women who don't give a shit about their sons...*shocking*
It's not not giving a shit about their sons... I would of loved my son just as much as love my daughters... Why I would of raised him not to grow up to be a double standard, sexist bitter guy... I love my grandson... And yes, I'd hope he marries a good, decent woman someday but then he also would have to be a good, decent person...
Oh and per your update. It's just as sickening when guys justify their whorish behavior or the whorish behavior of other men.. or the men that tell other guys too pump and dump but don't be in a relationship with a single mom... But isn't that single mom someone's "daughter" ?
What if it was YOUR DAUGHTER that was a single mom? Would you STILL think it's okay to fuck but not date a single mom?
Sorry, not sorry, actions have consequences. I think single mothers have forfeited their right to date until their kids are much older. Your primary responsibility should be to the children not to your sex drive.
Women want all the power reproductive rights, well than there has to be some kind of accountability and responsibility as well.
Again, I am saddened but not surprised how women are so defensive, but at the same time willing to launch their sons into a bad marriage with an awful woman.
Proof positive women really don't give a shit about their sons.
Oh bullshit... And again these women you men fucking over are someone's daughter, but you missed that point..
Proof positive men don't give a shit about daughters, theirs or someone else's.. See how that works...
Look I'm not on here to deal with sexist people. As I'm the same on here as in real life, I don't deal with people like that, period..
So kindly take your bitter bias and hatred of women somewhere else..
I'd say you're only hurting yourself, but these young men that have no real interaction with women and go by what they see on the internet, I just hope they're smart enough to see through the bullshit..
Done wasting my time
The original question was very simple and yet the bitter, defensive, women have to turn the question around. It is pathetic that women want to take their own bad decisions out on their Sons.
You the pot calling the kettle.. How am I bitter? I had a good man a good relationship that ended when he died.. Can you say the same? Yeah didn't think so.. But bye now
@Brainsbeforebeauty. I am talking about practically encouraging a Son to marry a whore.
First noone was doing that.. Second, who are you to make that judgement on someone.. Once again you missing the point.. men can have multiple partners and THAT'S OKAY but if a woman not a virgin before marriage, she a whore... You men with your bullshit double standards make me sick.. If I'm bitter about anything, I'm bitter that a good man like my husband died way too young but idiot sexist men get to live and waste their life trying to belittle others... So yeah, that way I'm bitter...
And I really feel sorry for your daughter, just saying🤷
It's not a "double standard", it's a difference of biology. Want to be angry at something, be angry at biology.
And once again, the question was about a son marrying a whore without any comment about his behavior. Not that hard.
What part of bye didn't you get.. And just stop with that biology bullshit🤣🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty. Biology is the Cruz of it all, sorry, not sorry. Byyyeeeeeeeeeeeeee...
I my opinion and this applies to if I have a daughter as well: If the person whom they are marrying is going to be completely loyal, is compatible with them and loves them to the point where they can't think of anyone else but my son, then really I have no problem with their past. I would raise my children to look for someone compatible for them and whom will be loyal to them as they will be to that person. All that matters is how they are going to treat the relationship with my son going forward and if that is with love, loyalty and respect. At which point their past just that.
It's really not a matter of would I be okay with it, but rather I'd have to be. What are you supposed to do...show up at the wedding and tell them no you can't get married? That only gets him hating you and other people thinking you're way too much of an overbearing parent. Who my son marries is on him. I say the same thing about friendships as I do about relationships---if another person is not hurting you, themselves, or someone else with their actions, it's not my place to decide for someone else who they should be with or to try and intervene. Now if she were a thot that was cheating on him or abusing him in some way, that's a very different situation which I'd definitely speak to him about.
Is want him to be with someone who was enthusiastic about sex. If she’s safe and actually wanted the sex I see no problem in fact it’s more of a good thing in that she is likely to know what she likes and have some ideas on how to please him as well and likely to be o honored of judgy 😊😊
Does you definition of "enthusiasm" mean a girl who has had many sexual partners?
No not at all 😊 I only meant I don’t see it as a minus unless she was having sex under duress or as a form of manipulation. id be happy if she had few partners and enjoyed sex but equally happy if she had msny was safe and enjoyed sex. it’s more that I really don’t mind either way but in many cases, its better than none.
On the other hand my boyfriend having had a lot of sex with diff people is not something I’d look for and id honesty prefer it wasn’t the case and as well I myself I have zero interest in more than one partner... I just wouldn’t see it as a bad thing if the two involved were OK with it. Even if in my case personally, I’m not ok with it 😁🤷♀️
Problem here isn’t the son by the mother.
No decent human being calls another woman a “thot” that’s no how decent people act.
I’m sure mothers always worry about their sons being manipulated by a woman. It’s an irrational fear and likely at least partially driven by them knowing once their son finds a woman to be with they will no longer be the only woman they love.
But still it’s their child they need to realize it’s a temporary relationship not permanent. If they never leave the nest they never grow up.
I'd rather my sons (and I have three of them) not do that. I'd like them to have successful marriages.
Um...
I wouldn't want either my boys or girls marrying an active sexually crazed promiscuous person.
Active is the key word here... In other words a person who will continue to be this way...
Now a person with no STDs who has calm down and is ready to settle and be happy in a monogamous commitment well then thats all that matters.
It's not their past state that matters it's their current state that matters.
Great answer💯
We all know that last behavior is indicative of future behavior. You are rationalizing being a Thot... who somehow reformed.
Oh yes the dr phil advice
The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior. Yes this is true when an individual does not acknowledge the problem and puts effort into learning new behaviors. Everyone is capable of learning and everyone is capable of change. It starts with acknowledging the issue. In the end everyone has a past. All we can do is be open with our partners and be vigilant. We watch for current behavior and we make a decision based on what is occurring now.
@meetkitty123. How many Thots/fuck boys don't you know who "saw the error in their ways"?
@meetkitty123. Last behavior is the foundation of things like credit reports, security background checks, driving records, criminal activity... but somehow you think people won't behave sexually like they have in the past? Sounds like you are rationalizing your own behavior.
Oh Kraken why are you against the concept of change?
Change occurs. we can do so with intentions or it can happen on its own.
Surely you are not the same person now as you were at the age of 18. You are not immune to life. You cannot say life as never affected you and that you never learned anything from your past decision. You come off hardcore ridgid and tough as if you are a supreme being but I doubt you have not had moments in which you knew you were doing poorly and you knew it was time for an improvement. Its in our nature to want better not even you are immune to that need.
@meetkitty123. I am hardly "supreme", I am simply saying people rarely change core behavior. Your Son might be pussy-whipped by a Thot. Odds are she will revert to her old ways once the newness of marriage fades.
I am not sure if sex is a core behavior.
Have you not changed your sexual ways as you have grown? Or are you the same sexual lover you were when you lost your virginity?
Excuse me if I came off presumptuous
But of course I am assuming you're not a 40 year old virgin...
But he's a man so it's okay.. It's only not okay for women🙄🙄 yes that's sarcasm... Men can have a high body count and they're labeled experienced, a woman with the same body count labeled a thot.. Just more GAG sexist bullshit
@meetkitty123. I find it interesting how many women posting are offended by this simple question. Perhaps as children seek partners who are like their parents, your Son seeking a Thot hits a little to close to home.
Im not offended
I think its a good question
@meetkitty123. Here is flash traffic form you, women who are dumb whores have done who seek dumb whores (and daughters who become dumb whores). Get it?
The whole reason you don't want your Son marrying a Thot, or even seriously dating a Thot.
Here ya go GAG:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNjoc1aOGK4
Of course I would want a decent woman for my son. I want my hypothetical son to be loved and respected by his wife
@pleasestopthis. This simple and most valid statement you made is beyond most. of the women of GAG.
@pleasestopthis. Do you see how offensive the women of GAG are by the concept of their Son marrying a decent woman? It says a lot about the women posting here.
Well everyone has its own concept of decency I guess
Whats hilarious about this question is when sluts pretend to be triggered.
@theflak38. And see how willing they are to serve their Sons up to a Thot?
I don't care. It isn't my decision to make but frankly I don't care about a person's sexual past. If they are disease free and make him happy then go for it.
@ez-bri-z. So you would welcome a Thot into the family. Do you have a Son?
@ez-bri-z. "Not hung up on body count" means a high body count. Perhaps your Son's wife will get along after all.
Does it though? Feel free to check my post history so you don't accuse me of being a liar here, but I didn't let anyone do a thing to me until I met my wife and she is the only living soul on this earth who has ever done a thing to me sexually.
Now, in high school I was fine doing things to other girls, but I never let anyone do anything to me.
Having sex with a guy is just a no go at all.
So believe me when I say, high body count doesn't bother me because I honestly don't care. Not because of my own limited experiences. Not because insecure guys on the internet obsess over it. I just honestly don't care. I am more concerned she makes him happy and that I don't isolate him over something so trivial.
The odds of her making him happy long term are pretty slim as she reverts back to her old ways.
You know your last few updates are sort of asinine. You don't have to agree, but it doesn't make us worse parents. We just aren't helicopter parents like you apparently are, more concerned about where your son puts his dick than you are about where your son puts his heart. I think that is truly the sick thing here.
You don't have any kids obviously. You are still wrapped up in castigating your imaginary son than protecting him. Pathetic.
@ez-bri-z. Do you deny that Thots raise Thots?
You are sort of everywhere with this argument. I need you to compile your thoughts (pun not intended) into something a bit more organized. You asked if I was ok with it, then used a really stupid and derogatory term for a sexually active woman to see if i would welcome her I to the family, then accused me of being promiscuous. When all of that failed you tried to claim I don't even have a son and when that failed now you are trying to go down the parenting style track.
So instead of directly answering your question let's try this instead.
Are your parents complete f*cking idiots?
If yes, then I guess thots raise thots.
If no, then I guess a child can be a thot despite their parents being more conservative in their sexual approach.
My parents are long dead. I do agree that traditional parenting can still yield a Thot due to cultural influences, but having a thot mom greatly amplifies the chances.
What happens before the two got together isn't important, they are together now.
What if their son has a high body count & she doesn't, but is upset when the bride's family says "his body count is too high, she deserves better", isn't that a double standard?
Or if both of them have a high body count? What then?
It's the 21st century, if it doesn't matter to the couple, then it shouldn't matter to you.
The brides family is entitled to not want their daughter to marry a fuck boy.
Who are we to say who is a fuck boy/girl? For some people having more than 3 partners is high, others more than 15.
You can't choose who your child decides to marry, unless an arranged marriage was the case. Otherwise, parents should fuck off if there is not actual threat to their child.
@Dazed0N0Confused. So if your Son announced that he is going to marry a girl who seemed like a ho, you would be just fine with it.
I would have to be, that is his choice in a partner. I have no control over what happens with my children once they hit 18yo. I will not judge the girl or guy on their past if they are truly in love with my child.
@Dazed0N0Confused. You CAN guide your son by example. You can help your son make good choices. If you are a dumb whore you son will learn to seek a dumb whore... get it?
Yeah, because a high body count is irrelevant.
Well actually, I would prefer a woman with more experience because then she will know what she's doing.. and she'll be more likely to be up for kinky sex that like a threeway.
@Juxtapose. So you would be up for a 3-way with your son and his wife... at least that's honest.
@krackenattackin
🤦 You're wicked 🤣! Lol you made me blush with that comment... Now thats an awkward imagery! I often laugh and say this to my boyfriend but now I laugh and say it to you "Ay que sin vergüenza tú eres! Sinvergüenza!"
As long as she treats him well and he’s happy, why would I care? It doesn’t effect me if she’s slept with people before being with him. And it doesn’t hurt my son either.
I would advice him not you but then it’s his life his choice cause I don’t wish to be blamed for anything.
@tesscasie. That's fair enough.
What do I care about high body count?
As long as she did it when she was single and didn't cheat on anyone I am good.
I don't care if she had many sexual partners, I care that she was loyal or not. If she was then I have nothing to worry about.
I'd hope he picked someone better but if she used to be a whore but also has degrees and is smart I can forgive.
My opinon doesn't matter, in the case of my son's partner choice. It's his life. His family he's forming. I would be surportive, as much as I could
I mean he's probably aware of what he'd be getting into. Not really my business.
@feelicks. What if he is just pussy whipped and can't see she is a thot?
@feelicks. There are tons of pussy whipped guys out there.
I only call cheaters, players/golddiggers who play with other people's feelings for money/sex and hypocritical people hoes. A promiscuos person is not necessarily a bad person as long as he/she uses protection. If my son was a hoe himself, he has no right to prefere Girls who ain't like him. Virgins deserve virgins, non promiscuos people deserve non promiscuos people, hoes deserve hoes lol
@hi_it_is_me123. "If your son was a hoe he has no right to prefer girls who ain't like him"? Wrong. People are entitled to preferences.
What you are saying is something akin to "if my daughter is out of work she has no right to choose a man with a good job". Just wrong.
Hmm ok you are right but it is hypocritical. Any girl who marry this manhoe is a cuck who does not respect herself in my opinion. Anyway i would be disgusted of him for being a hoe
Whatever you are right. It is his decision then whether marry a hoe or virgin but it would upset me
@hi_it_is_me123. The question was, would you be on with your son marrying a Thot? The women here are immediately focusing on their "Sons" behavior, which tells me they are self conscious about their own behavior.
No, it is because there is a huge hypocrisy thst these women hate. The way you asked your question is also reason why women react like this. Who tf ask question like this. You used a swear word and the ton you use kinda make us feel you have other intentions. We can read between the lines. Maybe we misunderstand you but i dont know
I also answere your question in my first post.
You are the one thst is "self conscious about your own behaviour" but act stupid
@hi_it_is_me123. So you would only care about a Thot marrying your Son, bearing your grand children, effectively replacing you after you die... based on who your Son screwed?
That is short sighted as fuck... also classic female.
No, idiot. If my son was virgin/non promiscuos i would except him to marry someone like him. But if he ends up being a hoe that i defined in the first post, then he can fucks himself. He would not be my son anymore.
Then he can do wtf he wants.
In short i would not advice him to do thst since h are cheater, manipulative and selfish people. If my son was a good person, i would not want him to marry a h
Whatever i dont want to continue this conversation. We can agree to disagree
@hi_it_is_me123. So your love of your Son is highly conditional, you will make a "great" mother.
I would not support a kid that heavily harm other people except he choose to change himself and apologize himself for being an asshole to other people. Would you still want your daughter if she was a ho? Be honest. I want to know your opinion too. It is ok if you dont want to answere, i will respect it
Nobody deserve unconditional love.
@hi_it_is_me123. At least you admit your core female nature.
Stop being stupid. You also would not love anyone uncondiotonally. Nobody love anyone uncondiotonally. Uncondiotional love mean loving someone even if this person cheat on you. Let me alone. I dont think that you are even serious. You just want to troll
Sorry but i am done with you
Do you try to justify your thot behaviour with last update? If you ask such troll questions, dont except people play your game. I explain why many women reply like this. If you can't stand the replies, and insult all female gagers who reply to you dont ask a question
thot meaning sb thats very sexy? sure. somebody that fuck around? no
"THOT" is "That Ho Over There".
I voted yes, because I don't give attention to someone's past. If in the present she was an emotionally healthy person and ready to get married, I would be ok with it.
@nice-girl Your not "giving attention to someone's past" tells me you don't want someone to pay attention to your past. Also, this tells me you would be willing to sacrifice your son to the pains of being married to a Thot.
This doesn't have to do with my past, I just believe that people can change and be on the same page at some point despite of their past. Also, I'm not saying that I would force my son to marry someone, I would just respect his decision and would try to see on a positive light whoever he married.
I'd rather my sons be gay than marry a hoe
:)) A thot? I just love modern terminology.
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