+1 yI'm a house husband in training, full time. I once worked the IT world and loved it for long time.. it served my introverted fear of humans and was highly respected and valued for the "bugs" I'd create and then fix... go figure. But the stress of being in the wrong job did me in for that career. The physical aspect of my next job was excessive, wasn't gonna last doing that.
So I'm thankful for my lady @midnightmoon and I get to play support, which I'm good at. I tend the house, cars and kids. It's good teamwork. Home job is under valued. It's a full time job running a house. Doing everything yourself is too much and doing it alone is a waste. #getamate
I could see getting part time job or volunteering at some point in mens ministry or such, got plenty on my hands as it is for the moment.
Who ever came up with this idea that both adults should work and that it is not a well regarded use of life? The devil? We have kids at home and I Can tell you, they need A LOT of support and engagement and supervision in this nutty world. We need parents more than ever. #trainparents.
That pesky inflation though... hate to tell ya, one worker used to be able to care for a family of 4 at reasonable standard of living. Wars ruined that. #govttheft.00 Reply
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As long as there's income and there's no financial worries, I'd gladly be a house husband for my two loves. I personally think it'd be pretty fun, just doing chores and learning new skills, cooking food and organizing things, perhaps even picking up new hobbies with how much time I'll have on my hands.
I think it'd be an interesting experience, as long as my partners would want that and ask that of me.12 Reply- +1 y
I had to do that for my little siblings at 8 years old, I had to do that for my mom who had cancer, and for my dad who is currently on breathing support because of COVID-19, but it really isn't as bad because they required every bit of attention I had when I also needed to divide it between multiple other things. I can definitely handle it if that was my only priority, hence why I said "as long as there's income and no financial worries," I can take on a lot of responsibilities if other matters are taken care of.
+1 ySince I love making my own money and having my work valued, I'd say being a house spouse has too many disadvantages. If you're being a PAID housewife or househusband, then yes, it's possible. You shouldbe paid your worth. j Figure out how much your "services" would cost if they were paid for in the outside world. :Your "salary" would come out of the outside wage earners'.
That is the only fair way to work it because being at home, cooking, cleaning, child care, home decorating, washing clothes, ironing them, repairing them for the wage earner's outside appearance, dog walking, cat care, bringing children to the PTA, doctor, are costly and time consuming services worth thousands of dollars per year.
A 401K and savings for your retirement would have to be set up, plus an education fund if you'd like to go back to school when the kids are older and your child care serivces not needed.10 Reply
+1 yI'd get too bored at home
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+1 yI have done it, and it was pretty fun, but I had a problem of being a bit bored and losing motivation.
My first years I spent a lot of time doing online school, then starting my own business from home. I also spent a lot of time on personal fitness, staying in shape with my body as well as my mind. I think the one aspect I neglected was my social life, and I spent too much time focused inwardly on the home.
In the end, I just got tired of the routine. It is fine, and I enjoy cooking, cleaning, organizing and managing the home. Taking care of the dogs and spouse, but I need a bit more variety in my life was the main issue. I could and would do it again, but I need to be really focused on having balance in my life and staying stimulated by more activities and interactions. If I did it again I would probably also keep my volunteer job for something to keep my mind and body busy.10 Reply
+1 yAs the man with traditional values, you won't see me be a househusband. I'm the main breadwinner and it will stay this way. Both my girl and I work, but if she chooses to stay at home she can. Why? Because we both have traditional values and remain loyal to our genderroles. I refuse to have one of those modern "relationships" that usually end up broken as stats have shown
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+1 yI am already just bored staying in the house because of COVID-19, I definitely wouldn't want to make that into a career. Plus I wouldn't making any money just being at home, I mean I could always work from home if I had to. But would I want to become a househusband nah, I don't have any problems of women or men who do enjoy being in the house but I don't want that to be my whole life. So I definitely be a working man. https://images. app. goo. gl/axWTBqU4mFZMVNVm6https://images. app. goo. gl/1SzgBxVsw4pBm6cb6https://images. app. goo. gl/TS9npawRRh82Ut1k7
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I wouldn't want to become a househusband.
+1 y"I want to meet a househusband so freaking bad. I have a bunch of questions!"
if you REALLY want one, you could try older men who are successful enough that they can retire early. But they would probably be too old for your young age.00 ReplyI am single and semi-retired. Mostly work from home these days. So I can't help you as far as answering any questions. I do know one guy that also works from home and his wife is a Surgeon. They share most of the housework and cooking. 100% sexist remark I admit, but I could never have a female to support me. I would not be comfortable giving her control over my life like that!
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+1 yEnough though I have enough drive and motivation for 10 people i could definitely see myself being a housedad. I would love my children with every fiber of my being and even tho they may get annoying some times I wouldn't picture being away from them. Its a main reason as to why I dont have any now. I would want children with someone who wouldn't try to take them away from me.
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+1 ySadly by most people's idea of it yes i can be the breadwinner and a househusband both at the same time better than most women could be a housewife. Its pretty pathetic if you ask me.
But personally im not going to do housewife things because i dont want to and dont have to. Thats a womans job.12 Reply- +1 y
You have a woman?
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@Hallo626262 yes and she does all of it.
+1 yHere is my loving house husband 😘 you can ask him.
he is the best 💗
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Miss you honey.20 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yMy mom is a housewife its not really my cup of tea but i might be one some day its just easier. My sister was not planning on being a housewife but the minute she gave birth she couldn’t go to work she would go and think about her baby ALL DAY she couldn’t focus and she declared she simply can not stay away from her baby and became a house wife too
20 ReplyIts clear you have no real world experience. Your chances of being a house wife / house husband is very slim unless your spouse makes a ton of money 150k+ a year.
10 ReplyJust go to the YMCA homeless shelter and raise your hand and say, "I'll pay you to be a stay at home dad". They will be swarming you like migrant workers in a Home Depot parking lot.
00 ReplyYes no problem, I am working from home now. So that would just means go down in hours and do more households tasks. But then she needs to earn more or it doesn't make sense.
00 ReplyYes, if we could afford that. I'd also like to homeschool.
30 ReplyI know for sure I would struggle. Thankfully, I'm with someone who would be the best househusband so I'm not too worried.
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+1 yHell yeah, I love kids. But bby girl better be bringing home some serious bacon 🥓
20 ReplyOh easily I was pretty much raised to be one I was basically my mom's house wife my whole life or servant perhaps
20 ReplyYes I could and would probably thrive at it as my family is my life and I absolutely hate corporate America
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+1 yI wanted to be a housewife before I realized that men with nice jobs prefer women with the same job.
20 ReplyHouse husbands need their ducks chopped off like way to make the woman do every single thing
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No sweetie, not everyone wants to become a trans like yourself.
+1 yI want to take care of some animals and tend a garden and make pottery on the side
20 ReplyIf my wife were in some good profession, I could be w "home maker", soccer-dad, etc.
00 ReplyNo while cleaning and looking after kids are things I can do. My cooking skills are slim to non.
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+1 ySure. As long as there aren't any children. I could easily be as lazy and useless as the typical housewife.
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+1 yOnly if he is ready to work his butt off to provide for a very good life then it’s possibility for me.
10 ReplyI have no problem doing that but I honestly don’t know if would want to. Plus kids are annoying and I don't know if I want them
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNO. Hell NO. Listen, I don’t judge women who become housewives…. but that’s not for me I have shit to do and shit I want to do. I’m not a servant.
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You're talking about servants you're not talking about housewives. And i know what strawman arguments are and that's an example
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You'll end up as one probably.
Opinion Owner+1 yYou’re funny @Hallo626262
Opinion Owner+1 y@Aiko_E_Lara I don’t give no fucks I hate misogyny and chauvinism. I’m not going to be a housewife regardless tf lmao
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No sane person likes misogyny and chauvinism for the same reason no sane person likes misandry and feminism. Also nobody is saying you have to be a housewife here but the fact that you're still generalizing that all housewives are slaves is an act of misandry in case if you didn't realize. It's not much different if i generalize all independent women are just bitches. So that is a strawman argument and whether you care or not, my first comment still stands
+1 yFemales the better of being a housewife which is now Made sexist. which is the foundation of a happy family
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These are delusional horseshit from girls for lazy usually fat girls who never did shit in their lives and who are usually very spoiled which is what you sound like don’t worry I’m pretty sure you’re overweight so I think nobody gives a shit what you want when we say girls we’re talking about beautiful feminine young looking girls so you will not be part of the list.
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@mjthecoach wow you have it all figured out. How did you come across this belief to be able to conclude "pretty sure" means you know it all.
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@mjthecoach Damn bro you're a savage keep annihilating these snowflakes!
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@TruthBringer in this misandry world! We need at least 2% of men who tell the truth just like women open their mouth they don’t give a flying rats ass how offensive nasty their shit is and usually is actually not true! Just pure horseshit of in denial emotions refusing them self responsibilities. Girls complain about my as##hole attitude all the time yet they still sleep with me.
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@mjthecoach Modern men like independent women who have something to bring to the table. Only misogynists' from the 1950s like bimbos who have nothing to bring to the table. Men like you , make terrible husbands, once your wife is no longer young and hot, you will just start cheating on her. To you, there is no value to a woman besides her youth and vagina
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Again! I’m not listening to someone ugly fat lady. You’re 30 now. Your p###sy has pretty much expired. Women’s p###sy value is only between age of 18 to 30. That’s why you’re 99% single. And now that you’ve hit your 30’s.. good luck finding a good guy. That feminism horse shit is why you’re shoving a diddl0 in your a22 every night.
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All women have the same argument you have no logical reasoning so you call me misogyny! In that case in you’re a Misandry. Oh yeah what a healthy happy relationship that must be. That guy probably wants to put a bullet in his own mouth everyday! Yeah it’s funny you mention that I seem to have no problems getting young attractive girls to sleep with me. Just like you they complain all the time but they seem to wanna give me pussies.
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listen no girl wants you. who wants to date a misogynist? i wouldn't want to be with you either. To you, women have no worth other than her looks and pussy. Once your wife hits 30 , you will dump her for your next 17 yr old girl who turned 18 an hour ago. To you, all women should be housewives because you think women are INFERIOR to men.
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No.. I don’t dump them. I tell them everything straight up. And I tell everything everything I told you. The get highly interested and I leave them after a day or 2 sometimes they stick around while I bang other girls. I don’t go into relationship! So I can have a bitter b##ch like you who wants to nag me to death. If I didn’t have a need for sex. I would’ve avoided girls all together.
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Your mouth means your boyF is a p###sy! Or else you wouldn’t run your mouth to soldiers like me.
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Since all these illegals are being dumped into North America. Next time couple Cartls grab you by the throat. You can wonder to yourself why you’re hero p***dried boyF won’t do nothing. And then you come ask guys like “what do we have to offer.”
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@mjthecoach "Girls complain about my as##hole attitude all the time yet they still sleep with me."
You've literally described my life as well! I get terms like "misogynist", "incel" and all kinds of shaming tactics thrown at me that women don't want me, yet I have no issues getting one night stands or relationships. It's mostly from the bitter misandrists themselves and their neutred male allies who are desperately trying to get a girl. Jokes on them, "assholes" like us are getting the pussy - +1 y
@TruthBringer yah that’s it! That woman who keeps yapping is because she’s a men hater probably ugly fat and now she’s hit the wall. Masculine is what hot attractive girls want, and she won’t understand anything until one day her pussifed boyF is need to protect her fat a22! But she has fagged him up. And he’ll sit there and do nothing.
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@mjthecoach Oh don't mind her, she is just mad at guys like us because she got pumped and dumped by guys like us. The fact she needs to argue here with you is telling that her current boyfriend (if she even has one) isn't satisfying her needs and didn't manage to fill that void of hatred within her 😂
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Her boyF oh bother! Poor bastard he’s probably been neutered! I don’t even pump and dump. I tell girls everything flat out. A Relationship are only mention to lead to a marriage.
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A girl saying “bro” and talking like a guy. Probably a dyke looking nasty fat ass girl with hair all over your body.
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Because you’re a moron you don’t know what passion is and you don’t know that a lion roar you’re so surrounded by feminine soft-spoken girly men because you’ve Fagged them up. That you think any guy that sounds like a manly man must have anger issues.
Sooner or later you’re going to find out what I’m saying will show how true it is one day you’re gonna be in trouble and you’re going to find out how useless feminine girly soft-spoken waiting for women’s approval men are.
Your mouth hasn’t got you in trouble yet.. one day you’re goanna get mike tysoned for trying to test a wrong guy. - +1 y
Yeah how did I know you’re surrounded by Pussified guys that have been neutered! hot attractive young girls seem to like me so your fat ass approval and bullshit is irrelevant
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Whatever you say.. 👍
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@mjthecoach The fact she is still here preaching her horseshit goes to show she is intrigued by you and doesn't want you to stop giving her attention. Block the bitch and deprive her from the validation she desperately seeks from a non-simp
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Yah! I gave her a chance to make any sense. Or give me some logical reasonings for why I’m such an idiot. Typical women keeps repeating the same nonsense 5 second material 1000 times.
She wishes her guy was half a man. I guess this is why birds with the same feathers flock together. - +1 y
Yaaah okkaaay hahah
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Keep repeating the same thing again and again this shows your limited fucking stupid ass brain! I would honestly hit you. If you did the same shit in person to me.
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Mate just block that scum. She blocked me as well while I never even talked to her, to begin with. I guess the only explanation to that is that she got triggered by my posts and decides to block. Deprive this girl from your attention. Clearly she is desperate for your attention much more than that of a simp. And the evidence to that is that she is still here arguing with you lmfao
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Yah hahaha i’m such a evil fucked up person that she can’t stop messaging me back yeah I blocked her there’s no sense she keeps repeating the same two words over and over again.
+1 yHell no, been off work a month and completely stir crazy already
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yOnly if she would be dominant in almost all parts of the relationship.
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+1 yI'm sweet with cooking, cleaning and other parts.
Full time with the kids at home... yikes!
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+1 yI could be because I would constantly run Magic the Gathering tournaments at my home.
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+1 yI can be when i retire but right now, i can't leave my business yet.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI can never become one. I turn mad if I am not making any money.
10 ReplyI am new here and I don't know what to ask?
What's this App for?🤷♀️00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNo. I love my freedom to get rid of partners who annoy me.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yWAIT!!! There’s more women saying NO than men. Do women not know their place in society? Women are beneath men. Men hunt! There’s so many loser men on here ffs
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Not only were your statement sexist it also reeks being a pathetic loser who haven't gotten a girl. 🤣🤣
+1 yhousehusband is an animal that should go extinct lol
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figuratively extinct
+1 yNo way in fucking hell
20 ReplyNah, i like to have my own money.
10 ReplyI don't mind being househusband
10 ReplyI could be a housewife. I love taking care of home
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+1 yNo especially since I don’t really want children.
20 ReplyI could never be one
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+1 yI mean in like 10 years we probably could be
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+1 yWomen are better at taking care of the home.
10 ReplyI want to a house wife myself. Is that possible?
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Aren't you a guy? Your username is blue, if you want to become a housewife you at first would need to become a woman yourself.
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@FinalFantasyBro That makes it hard
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Remember the question also asked if men want to become househusband, why not just become a househusband? What exactly is a difference between the two it literally the same thing except the gender is different. 🤷🏾♂️
+1 yI'd love to be.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI wouldn't want to do that, no.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yA submissive house husband in a FLR.
10 ReplyI'd like it
20 Reply412 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. Not a chance in hell
10 ReplyNo but only because I dont want kids
00 ReplyJust takes patience
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+1 yMy dad is one
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+1 yDefinitely.
00 Reply335 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. im a housewife
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+1 yAbsolutely
00 ReplySure, why not?
10 ReplyNo, I can't cook ;)
00 ReplyI could, no problem.
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