My husband refuses to pay my student loans.’ His reason? I took out the loans before we were together. Is there some loophole to get him to pay?

[Anonymous]

I am married but unemployed, and my husband refuses to pay my student loans, which I had before we were dating. Do I have access to the money? Yes. But if I were to touch it, it could cause a divorce because he feels that it’s not his responsibility, as we were not together at the time I acquired the student loans. Is there any way to get out of it? Or is there some type of loophole? I haven’t worked in years. I don’t even know how I would repay these back on my own.

[boggboss]

Any loophole u are thinking of would cause a divorce

[Subarugirl]

Dude, pay for your own freaking bills, they are your loans not his. Start driving for post mates or uber or something.

[Subarugirl]

Thanks for MHO

[PrettyPriya]

Just curious, but you say you haven't worked in years. Why?

[Asker]

Stay at home hubby

[PrettyPriya]

Is there a reason for that? Why not get back into the workforce? I don't want you to take this as a criticism but my curiosity to remedy the situation.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for the MHO!

[Anonymous]

No way can you make him pay. Look into forbearance or deferral.

[Anonymous]

can't tell if this is a troll or if you're really that stupid and entitled.

even if you got the student loans after you were married, it still not his problem. and it shouldn't be. regardless. grow the fuck up.

[ragooo8]

You need to get a job and pay them off espicially if your husband is already paying for everything else.

[Citizenkirk]

It sounds like you got much bigger problems in this marriage than student loan debt

[Juxtapose]

He is your lover, not your dad. If your parents don't love you enough to pay for your college then figure it out yourself bud.

[Nazorella]

He don’t have to pay? Why you are depending a man?

[Agape93]

Pay your own fucking bills dude

[Honesttguy]

Wait u gay?

[Redstang88]

Maybe get a job? 🤷‍♂️

[Pohjolan]

Even gays have now gold diggers...