If your girlfriend got pregnant with you, would you marry her?

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

yes, i would marry and I want that baby

No, I wouldn't get married and have an abortion if possible

another explanation

[VanillaSalt]

Nope I don't have a girlfriend lol... But if i did nope! I don't believe in marriage... Na I absolutely believe in marriage but I don't believe in people. there's nothing you can say to convince me you won't leave in 10 years and take half everything I worked for...

Women wanna tell me its the broke guys that say this... I've worked 60+ hrs a week for the last 10 years. I was working 7 days a week for nearly 3 years within that time... I have a 401k alimony can reach into...

Marriage on a legal level will never happen. But ill do my part willingly and then sum as long as she remains sociable. She makes interactions too much of a problem and ill leave her and the kid.

[razelove]

I have a wife, and have girlfriends sometimes, if I knocked a girlfriend up and she did want to become a permanent fixture in my life, I'd like to see how that would play out.

Rings trap men, babies trap women. Though polygamy is still illegal in the US, so it would have to be a completely symbolic marriage. Separation of church and state my ass.

[VanillaSalt]

Rings trap men is true but babies trap both men and women… let’s not pretend women arnt above men in the family where societies concerned.

[VanillaSalt]

Society and law

[razelove]

@VanillaSalt This is true, in the modern paradigm men do stand to lose more. The other option being to go work on a boat and bounce.

[VanillaSalt]

I love boats lmao… your missing option 3 though. Don’t interact unless it’s on your terms. The MGTOW way.

I suspect because of the current state of dating and relationships and groups like feminism and MGTOW as well as the erasure of roe vs wade will start seeing the quality of women and thus men sharply improve over the next few generations.

[Tdieseler]

babies trap women? i dont get that. cuz the way i see it, it traps men too.

[missmels]

Not a necessity to get married if it was an unexpected/untimely pregnancy


But if it was me then yeetus fetus, I don’t want a kid and we can go on our merry way either together or apart

[Bigbuck1992]

Probably better to get your tubes tied so you can enjoy sex like you want instead of killing that baby growing inside of you from 5 minutes of selfish pleasure from a dude who speaks good game or agrees with you. Unless you were raped but even then should be a tough choice in my opinion. Yes I’m pro life. To each their own though.

[missmels]

Well I’m pro-choice. To each their own, so I don’t really care about your opinion. It’s a clump of cells at the beginning, not a life. It cannot sustain itself outside of my body. Like a tumor or a growth. I have become a whole person, so yes, I chose myself and my wants/needs over a clump of cells. I’m not saying to be completely reckless and get like 10 abortions and feel nothing. But if an accident happens then I’m pro-choice of the actual person that has a life.

[Fonzarelli]

A clump of cells? Have you seen these babies? I have and many are full grown. These 2 doctors were holding these full grown babies up by the arms and making them dance in front of each other. And you somehow think that is ok? The soul chooses his family before the mother is even pregnant. That soul enters the womb to create that life. God says you can't enter the kingdom of heaven less you are born again, so you must first enter this world before you can die a spiritual death and be reborn again so those who support that are doing the devil's agenda of preventing another soul the chance to enter heaven. The karma that comes with that is very heavy. Women were trusted with the gift to be beginners of life. In the situation of being raped, one can always pay and ask God to cause a miscarriage.

[Tdieseler]

Im pro choice... and i think most "pro life" people are hypocrites. Personal opinion. But based off of multiple confrontations with them.

[RandomGuy1030]

Females are barely sentient. So its not a surprise she thinks a full grown baby can survive by itself.

[Apple1996]

I ended up getting married when my son was 15 months old but we planned on getting married once I got pregnant just couldn't do it since we're only 17

[OlderAndWiser]

My girldfrind is 58 and it would be a miracle but I would accept a miracle!

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Nope.

I'm sterile, so she definitely cheated.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't do it for the sole reason that she's pregnant no. Even though people do it because they think they're "supposed to", it's not a reason to marry (a sole reason), and doesn't mean the marriage will be good or last.

[r4nd0mus3r]

i dont believe in marriage so i wouldn't get married. but i would not want her to get an abortion and i would do my part in raising the kid and i would still be loyal to my girl

[TenkRealist]

Yes. She is my responsibility. So is my baby. That's what a man should do.

[clampfan101]

I’m not sure, but I certainly wouldn’t want an abortion to be involved.

[888theGreat]

If she agreed. Can' t marry a person that doesn't want to

[foxsquirrell]

If I don't want to get married getting someone pregnant is no reason to change my mind.

[bamesjond0069]

No i would not get married but i would want the baby.

[fred_durst]

i am 110% confirmed infertile by doctor few years ago , so it is not possible

[MTC29]

Pay the child support and be done with it.

[Red_Arrow]

Not if it was by somebody else.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

yes, I would marry and I want that baby

[Reaper1985]

Marriage is no longer required in modern times.

[sp33d]

Nope, no marriage. Not required.

[zagor]

Only if I would marry her anyway.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It’d be a lucid bad dream

[Charliefretz329]

I’d be a good dad regardless of the circumstances

[Anonymous]

I'm not going to even dignify such a question.

[Avicenna]

Yeah