Would you date a pregnant girl?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

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+1 y

Why has this question brought out so many gross men. Yuck! No need to start calling names and using incel terminology. just say "Yes" or "No" and GO

[letssee89]

Assuming the father of the child is not in a relationship with her, sure.

[seanras]

Would you want to marry her soon after?

[PhantomMk]

I’m indifferent

[Anonymous]

Lol you'll have to forgive the misogynist idiots. They dont like that real men in real life dont match their basic ass mantras or buy their messaging

I do think dating someone pregnant would not be something most people would be interested in, but someone commented something gross about only "cucks" dating women with children from other men.

I know friends and people in general who have kids who have dated and found love and happiness after having children with other men. Women have been doing this since the dawn of time. In fact, scientists actually think one of the main drives toward monogamy in humans (or our early ancestors perhaps) was infanticide - males killing children from other men to prime the female to have their kids. Okay, so not *exactly* what we are talking about here, but my point is that there are opportunities for love after kids. And hey - a lot of older, more established, and sometimes wealthier men who have kids or have been divorced like this deal because they know these women know children are the priority in their lives and they can bond over parenthood. Its a huge experience.

One of my friends is dating a cute guy right now. Not only does he know she has a young daughter, but he was actually "friends" with her ex while he cheated on her. Now divorce is happening and this fine ass mf is taking her out on expensive $600+ dinners, buying her expensive ass gifts, and courting tf out of her. he's better looking, more educated than, and most likely has far more money than the incel misogynist little scrotes online saying nasty things about single moms. Real life is so yummy that way. I dont have kids and I'm not preggo, but dont like the haters get you down.

I would wonder if dating new people while pregnant is something one would even want to do though. Its a lot going on physically and emotionally. Bur to each her own and there are guys who are into it.

[Yaaten]

"Women have been doing this since the dawn of time."
Yes, and it's high time they stopped doing this. If you can't stay monogamous, then don't even think of having children!

[Opinion Owner]

@Yaaten

Being monogamous has nothing to do with having children by other men. We're talking about monogamous relationships that didn't work out and resulted in children.

[JoJoiLL]

Yes. for two reasons.

1) I find pregnant women attractive. Not in the 'instant boner' way that a man with a fetish has. They just appear to be more womanly to me, like carrying a child emphasizes her feminine qualities - Her ability to create life, her nesting instincts. I think they also have a certain glow, their skin looks gorgeous and their hair is more shiny and lush. I personally think her body shape is attractive too, for a lot of the same reasons but also it makes me feel protective of her, like I want to be her guardian.

2) I'm not hung up over who's sperm contributed to the pregnancy. Some of the most influential and wonderful men in my life have been fathers to children that they didn't sire, having met a women who already had a child from a previous relationship. They taught me the truth that a child is a child and every child should be loved and mentored by the adults in their life. If the situation allowed for it, I would adopt the child and raise it as my own with her. If the sperm donor was still around and wanted to be a part of the child's life I would respect that, the most important thing is that the baby is loved and cared for - if it has 3 parents who love it - all the better as long as they all get along and agree on some basic parenting principles!

[TruthBringer]

This was a very moving comment. However, those with cuckold tendencies tend to enjoy paying and taking care of a child that is not biologically theirs. You're fetishizing pregnant women. You know they don't stay pregnant for long. And did anyone tell you that YOU can get a woman pregnant aswel? (given you don't have fertility problems). I've came across to many stories and have stopen to both step fathers and ex-step fathers and they all warned me to never date someone with children not my own. For various reasons.

Not htat they need to, because I'd rather start my own family than being financially and energetically cucked in taking care of another man's genetic offspring. Children are children, but that doesn't mean I have to take care of another man's child and bear his responsibility. It also reflects back to the woman's poor judgment skills. "Alpha fucks and beta bucks". I'll take care of my own biological chidlren, thank you very much.

[JoJoiLL]

@TruthBringer You've used a lot of very derogatory terms here to try and sell your perspective and invalidate mine, with out actually trying to read or understand my comment. Most of your statements about me are false.

[TruthBringer]

I was speaking from a general perspective. If you feel this is meant towards you as a person, that's your own interpretation. I was not trying to "invalidate" your perspectives and neither am I trying to have you agree with me. As you've shared your perspective, which is interesting to read nonetheless, I'm free to give my thoughts aswel.

[JoJoiLL]

@TruthBringer

You've replying directly to my opinion and stating:

"those with cuckold tendencies"
"you're fetishizing pregnant women"

How can I not interpret that as being aimed at me?

[TruthBringer]

Because it's up to you as a person to take offense or not. Just like how the fool of this take throws the word "incel" my way, yet I don't take offense because I know the contrary. The rest is up to you.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer Asker was right, you're definitely an incel. How pathetic lol

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Yes yes, we all heard that unorginal and baseless shaming tactic. Always produced by the same insecure snowflakes who don't have the intellectual capacity to come with a decent counter argument. So they resort to name calling because MUH FEELZ get hurt.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer The audacity lol. Let's talk about your intellectual capacity and decent argument here. You said a man who would date a pregnant is weak. . . LMAO stop being so emotional and think objectively dude.

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Lots of men refuse to date a woman who isn't bearing a child of his own. And for good reason. Cry me a river.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer Cry ME a river and get over it, not every man will think like you. Leave them alone

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Men like JoJoiLL are entitled to like and think what they want. So am I. Take your own advice and practice what you preach.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer You're the entitled one thinking other men owe you by being and thinking as you do. Not all men are sexist and thank goodness for that

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Nah they don't owe me shit. Not sure where you got that from. Lovely how you called me crazy, but you sound just like one. Makign shit up and accusing me of false things. And choosing not to get with a pregnant woman who got impregnated by someone else doesn't have anything to do with sexism. It's time for you to open a dictionary, sweetheart. Your cognitive dissonance is getting the better of you.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer how do you not see how entitled you sound smh. Ok I'm officially done here

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Aren't we all with certain things? Ciao~

[guesswhoseback]

So she goes out and spreads her legs for some random asshole (probably with no condom) and expects me to come save the day? I don’t the think so.

And fuck you desperate betas chumps out there who think otherwise. You are enabling women to indulge in reckless self destructive shitty behavior. It’s funny how all of the sudden when the going gets rough in their lives the “nice guy” is now more attractive.

Now if the father recently passed away that might be the only far fetched scenario I might consider. I did date a widow who had two kids. Her husband died in a car accident. That’s a completely different story. He had been dead for 3 years too.

[TruthBringer]

YOU NAILED IT! And any man who refuses to "save the day" is called an "incel", a "woman hater", a "bigot" and you name it. The funny thing is, it's men like us who they love to sleep with in their 20s and completely ignore that nice guy until they hit their 30s. Alpha fucks and beta bucks.

[guesswhoseback]

@TruthBringer I’ve just seen this shit way too often in real life. Women who are in shitty predicaments because of their OWN DECISIONS and looking for people to save them. There are consequences to your decisions. You made your bed now lie in it.

But I have never ever showed up to “save” one of these bitches. I’m a nice guy but I’m not that nice. If women want to chase douchebags let them. It’s their choice, but let them live with the consequences. Men don’t get shoulders to cry on for stupid decisions (or even when it’s not fault) so why should women get this?

[TruthBringer]

Once again, you keep amazing me with your comments that are spot on! the thing is, many women (especially GAG women) will shame you for not wanting to step up and save that "independent and strong" woman who says she doesn't need no man, but somehow she does.

[guesswhoseback]

@TruthBringer actually I’m finding some women are agreeing with me on this one. I also changed my views on the asshole vs nice guy dynamic.

Instead of criticizing women about chasing assholes (this can’t be rationalized, they won’t change) nowadays I’m just like “if that’s what you want go for it. But you nobody to blame but yourself when he screws you over”. Give them the freedom to choose self destruction if they find it so tantalizing. But never ever give them a shoulder to cry on. Never.

That’s where most men go wrong. Society gives a very limited cushion (if any) when we get screwed over. We are considered chumps, suckers and doormats when we taken advantage of. We get very limited time to feel down about it and we are not allowed to cry about it.

Well let women get treated the same way when they make stupid choices. It will slap some sense into them. I’m finding several women actually agree with me on that.

[TruthBringer]

@guesswhoseback 100% correct. I'm actually glad they have the freedom to do whatever, which includes following a self destructive path. Sure I'll try to combat that with trying to give advice, but if it's not taken, not my problem. Life will eventually catch up to them and hit them with a sledgehammer. I won't be there acting like "Mr. Save the Day". She is on her own.

At the same time, I kind of feel bad for them. They get pampered so much by society simply because they have a vagina. Only to get a sledgehammer to the face later on. While we men have always had the short end of the stick and learned to cope with it. One of the things is carrying the burden of performance, which I have no problems carrying.

[guesswhoseback]

@TruthBringer yep. Just like the “fat acceptance” movement the so called well intentioned kindness is actually the worst thing you can do for somebody.

We will see the final results of all this “wokeness” and feminism bullshit in another 30 to 50 years. I estimate it will hurt everybody but the people who wanted it to begin will be hurt the most.

Anyway hope you are doing well and Merry Christmas in the Netherlands.

[TruthBringer]

@guesswhoseback I honestly fear for my future children living in a world the way it is now. It's going to take a lot of re-education from what they will be taught by society and schools. In any way, I had an amazing Christmas day. Spent the whole day with my girlfriend and her family. Tomorrow she'll join me with my family. All while feminazis on this website are trashtalking me and calling me the same unoriginal and overused "insults" like "incel". While they do that, I was enjoying myself with loving people. I hope you also had a great Christmas, despite Covid

[guesswhoseback]

@TruthBringer that’s awesome bro. I spent dork time with the fam and caught up with my HS best friend and his fam (known them for 30 years). I’m also discreetly talking to a beautiful young girl who I knew through CrossFit. (She’s 23.). We are making plans to meet up.

Just stay positive. If you show vulnerability on some of these threads the femnazis see that as “weakness” and double down.

The most stupid part is this is anonymous posting website. I can talk openly about what I’m really thinking and I have a natural inclination to be fair as possible. The only thing I hate more than a liar is a hypocrite. If I feel like I might be wrong (after I thought it through) I’ll give the other person credit. It’s about finding truth and becoming a better human being.

But I particularly hate people who are plainly aware of their own hypocrisy and yet can insanely coexist with two identities. We are seeing tons if this delusional madness on the left right now. It’s just nuts, when is it going to stop? I predict a breaking point with real violence (and fucking speech isn’t violence)

[guesswhoseback]

*spent time (not dork time) lol

[TruthBringer]

@guesswhoseback The end is coming near indeed. And I mean that breaking point you speak of. Society is in it's collapse. Degeneracy is booming. We can see this clearly as the nuclear family is disappearing, more people divorce and less people get married. Men especially are starting to give up.

[Celtero]

The fuck... 30% of guys said yes? What is wrong with people.

Literally the only logical reason to do so is if you have a sick preggo fetish.

Otherwise, you're just a desperate loser who needs their fruit as low as possible to be able to pick it.

[prince360]

That. Help an idiot get validated. Why when so many others are not fuck-me-and-dump-me material

[guesswhoseback]

I thought the exact same thing.

I guess whenever I feel regret for having a beta moment in the past all I need to do is look at this poll.

Nice guy or not I would of never tolerated this bullshit at any time in my life. Ever. Extremely pathetic.

[homystew]

I wouldn't mind at all. Whats the problem? Its a women creating another human being! I think its cute in a sense and they shall be loved and taken care of. Treated with respect and dignity! (How do you think you came into this world honey?) But I have no fetish for such thing no no no. Its just not a turn off. I see nothing wrong but a normal person in an important part of their life! Just because the child is not mine, that doesn't mean i won't have children of my own! And I wouldn't be in the hospital as the birth happens, that was supposed to be for the real father.

[ManOnFire]

No, I could not do that. Any time there's kids involved, whether unborn or already born, there's the possibility that the guy comes back or she still has feelings for him and wants to go back. Not something to get tangled up in. I was in a relationship with a woman who had kids and it ended up being a mess.

[Dchrls78104]

A guy I knew once dated such a woman. He had to end things with her when he found out that she not only lived in the house of the father of one of her children but was also still sleeping with him.

[ManOnFire]

@Dchrls78104 Damn!

[DWornock]

I voted "No" because it is not realistic. I'm not going to date a pregnant girl within my league since I can date girls in my league that don't have that extra baggage. However, if I am a 7 and she would accept me, I would date a pregnant 9 or 10.

However, that is unrealistic since, pregnant or not, no 9 or 10 would date me. The best I could hope for would be a high 7 or else a low 8 if I'm a high 7. Regardless, if I'm a 7, I would not date a pregnant 8 because even though an 8 is prettier than a 7, the slight improvement in looks does not offset the disadvantages of a pregnant 8 extra baggage.

[Vickysplash_]

You would be a 7, without that beard in your picture

[DWornock]

@Vickysplash_ I had a similar experience. I was a recent college graduate, he was the starting linebacker in high school but not talented enough for an athletic scholarship, and she was a very pretty 19-year-old with a new infant baby. He was obviously athletic and good looking and he and I became good friends. Certainly, he was the guy all high school girls would choose to date over the more intellectual guys like me.

We all lived in the same apartment building. I consider college pompom girls to be 9s. She may have been that pretty but likely not as talented and lacking college she was not that classy so I would rate her as a mid 8. As an electrical engineer, I had a higher income. However, as a 19-year-old girl looks trumps income so she married him. He worked but earned considerably less than an engineer. They had money problems so sometimes I would lend them several hundred dollars and after they moved about $1,000 I never got back. One time, he told me that they had discussed if she should have married me. Probably she would have preferred me in her mid-20s because at that age a guy’s income would have more value to her than it did at age 19.

[iseekpinetrees]

a lot of guys would. For many its a fetish. Guilt free sex. Hot to see nipple colors change belly grow. Girls usually always horny. But might not stick around during labor part. Many would love a pregnant friends with benefits.

[Drakkith]

I admit that I'd fit most of what you just said. Pregnant girls are often super hot. I just hope that I'm not the type to run after labor. Seeing as how I spent most of the last 2 years in a relationship with a girl who already had kids I think I'd be okay staying.

[Red_Arrow]

All that is true. But the question was only if a guy would date a pregnant gal, not if he would want to marry her. He may not still be dating her when the baby comes.

[Drakkith]

@Red_Arrow I was replying to iseekpinetrees comment about guys not sticking around.

[Red_Arrow]

And my comment was directed to iseekpinetrees.

[Drakkith]

@Red_Arrow My mistake then. Good day to you sir!

[Red_Arrow]

.. 😀 ..

[DaMack999]

I seen lesbians fetish for pregnant women too. Its not only straight guys.

[AlexAndriatg111]

Your response is spot on. All these ignorant comments on here. They must be illiterate and not understand the definition of dating. There needs not to be any long term commitments in dating. For all people know, maybe she's pregnant from artificial insemination wanting a child. But so many stupid responses assuming way too many things.

[Unit1]

Nein. I'm not a cuck to invest tremendous parental effort into someone else's kid.
Almost nobody really invested in me when I was growing up, so why should I?

[TruthBringer]

LMFAO I'm stealing this picture

[CubsterShura]

I wouldn't date any woman, and I don't think men can get pregnant unless they are trans men, but the thing is I like cis men and they can't get pregnant, so uh issa no.

I hope I'd never have to date while I am pregnant. Sounds like it will only happen after a series of hurtful events.

[Yaaten]

It's impossible - LITERALLY impossible - for trans "men" to get pregnant. Same goes for trans "women". They do not have the right equipment, so to speak. You're 19. How could you possibly not know this? Don't they teach biology in school anymore.

[Hannahbananaaaaa]

Our worlds educational systems have failed us... Or have they worked out as planned?

[CubsterShura]

@Yaaten There are trans men already giving birth so I mentioned that.

[CubsterShura]

And FYI I am not supportive of LGBT so like stop judging people by a single G@G comment, it was just in case someone was like "well trans men can give birth".

[Yaaten]

If they're able to give birth, then they're not men: they're women.

[Yaaten]

I wasn't "judging" anyone, simply pointing out a ridiculous, nonsensical observation of yours.

[CubsterShura]

But you did exactly that. You judged me. Look up trans men giving birth and stop bothering me.

[Yaaten]

Okay, so I judged you. Big deal, grow up, and stop being such a delicate flower! The truth sometimes hurts. Be a (real) man and deal with it!

[Yaaten]

Or woman, whatever.

[CubsterShura]

Imagine thinking that just because I called you out I have been crying about it for 24 hours lololol, whatever helps you sleep at night, xx

[Yaaten]

Okay, whatever.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol why is in your update you are calling out men gross have you read girls comments it's no different 😅.
But I am sorry how thaf is making you feel.
I don't think if a person is not already in love with you can really date you for you while being prego, maybe after you deliver but not while you are pregnent it will be always be co olecated with the father of the child and the guy

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Complicated*

[Drakkith]

I'd totally date a pregnant chick. Why the fuck not? I couldn't care less about the baby's daddy.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Easier said than done, if you took responsibility of the child you would understand why you need to care for the child's biological father its important to the child there will be questions when she is of age and ask questions consciously
All the best anyways

[Drakkith]

Yeah, I'd raise the kid just like my stepdad raised me. He raised me like I was his own son.

[TruthBringer]

Ever heard of the phrase "Alpha fucks and beta bucks" ? Only cucks date women who are pregnant with another man's kid or got kids from another man. You must be a very desperate and low value man with no options to date some girl who sees you as an ATM who benefits her.

[Asker]

Nope! Never heard that term because I’m not an INCEL

[TruthBringer]

@Asker interesting, because I'm not an incel and I did hear it. And I don't even go on incel sources to get this. But yet, the term "incel" is thrown around so easily to anyone who doesn't conform to feminazi standards.

[EyesOfGod]

Since you have heard it now, does that make you an incel?

[Asker]

“Feminazi” ? Just say you’re an incel and you hate women and go

[TruthBringer]

@Asker An Officer at the Air Force in fighter pilot training who also got a girlfriend being an incel? Quite a rare sight if you ask me. Your wishful thinking and lack of ability to come with valid arguments are getting the better of you.

[Barbaric]

If you don't want to date a pregnant woman and raise another man's kid, you're an incel and you hate women.

[TruthBringer]

@Barbaric Gotta love their logic

[Anon_deals]

@Barbaric First of all, your logic is shit. No one gives a crap if you want or don't want to date a pregnant woman. The problem was OPs description, making up psycho shit about other men who would date pregnant women. Let's not play dumb here lol

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Awh, getting your feeligns trampled on because real men choose to invest in their own genetic offspring instead of allowing themselves to be used as an ATM to take care of a woman and children not his own. Cry us a river, sweetie.

[Barbaric]

@Anon_deals

Men who date pregnant women and single mothers are beta cucks.

[Anon_deals]

TruthBringer look dude, I don't care who men would date or have sex with. I already said what the real issue was. Get out your feelings about what real men are because you sound psycho and obsessed with men. Stay out of real men business, they can date whoever they want

[Anon_deals]

@Barbaric how about stay out of their business and stop being so obsessed with other men. . .

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals How about you stop obsessing over what we men tend to think? Make sure you practice what you preach. Or does what you say only count to people who you don't agree with? Lmfao

[Anon_deals]

What we men tend to think? lol dude, it's YOU who's obsessed not me, you hate men who respect women or goes against what you deem a 'real man'. Well sir, that's a you problem because real men will continue to date whoever they want and not care what you think

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals I don't hate men who respect women. I hate men who "respect" women in order to get what they want (the poompoom). Even if it means taking care of another man. I don't hate men who step up for someone else's child, I just see them as lower than men who DO have options (like myself) and who can get with a clean woman with no kids. So once again, baby girl, cry me a river. No cry US a river.

[Anon_deals]

^ Goodness what are you talking about? You don't know these men personally to know if they have any ulterior motives or if these pregnant women are using them or unclean. You sound crazy lol

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals seems like you've been living under a rock. I've seen it all myself how simps and "nice guys" who get rejected turn on a woman. Women themselves (also on GAG) have shared similar experience. I'm speaking about them generally, of course we have to asess each individual. Just because you have no clue about what I say, because you got your eyes shut, doesn't mean I'm "crazy". Go take your cognitive dissonance elsewhere, sweetie.

[Barbaric]

@Anon_deals

How about no.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer you've seen it but it isn't all women just as men do crappy things but it isn't all men. Duh

[Anon_deals]

@Barbaric ok... ?

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals No shit sherlock. Nobody claimed ALL men or women are like that.

[Anon_deals]

So what was the point then. We all have reasons to hate the other gender

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals I don’t hate genders (male/female). I simply don’t respect certain people within these genders. But to say an entire gender is bad is delusional. Only feminazis and incels do that. When will people like you realize that not everything is about hate.

[Anon_deals]

You literally bashed pregnant women though: women who are even more vulnerable than women who are not pregnant. Excuse me for noticing your tone

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Pregnant women being more high value than non pregnant women is your way of seeing this. But in the eyes of men when it comes to dating they are not. Except the man who has knocked her up himself. And my OP was from a man's perspective in dating. I don't care what you think of my tone. If you can't stand some harsh truths in how men see things, that's a you problem. Not mine.

[Anon_deals]

actually, I don't put a greater value on pregnant women. What they're doing is selfless but personally, I still think they're crazy as hell. Babies are cute and all but they're evil. The whole pregnancy experience doesn't even seem worth it.

And your tone was anti-women which I only mentioned because according to you I'm a feminizi who claim men hate women. I would have no reason to point out the reason if you people didn't make it so easy

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals My bad I misread your comment. I thought oyu said "valuable" instead of "vulnerable" lol. And I have no issues with pregnant women. I look forward to the day my girl and I get married and have kids. I do have a problem when a pregnant woman tries to get with me (which some have tried by the way). Often, things don't work out with the baby daddies and they go off on some dating app or try to be extra flirtatious just so they aren't alone when giving birth. And you did kind of sounded like a 'feminazi'. Hard to tell who is and who isn't since this website is full of em.

[Anon_deals]

I'm a feminist. That's what I am

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Then our views will automatically clash. Have a good one ;)

[Anon_deals]

Yeah because a person being anti women's rights is a problem🤷‍♀️

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals `Not anti women's rights, darling. Anti-modern feminists who portray themselves as wanting equal rights, but have proven they want to GET at men. They want the same equality, but without the responsibilities that come with them. An example: usually a man has to pay his ex wife money after divorce. But when Adele had to pay her ex husband over a million after SHE divorced him, the feminists went bat shit crazy.
You can't have your cake an eat it too. I'm all for true equality between men and women, but if that means getting free-passes, no I'm against it. And we're living in 2020, soon 2021. Not in the 50s. Women aren't "victims" as much as they used to be.

[Anon_deals]

And who made women victims? Men. Not our fault we fought sexism. Sexist men hate it. However, learn that sexist women are not feminists, they are just sexist. I have biases myself but I do not believe either gender should be considered superior to the other. I do believe all those centuries of sexism against women need fixing. Why would some women fight against sexism without biases just to continue experiencing it in this country that pretends sexism against women doesn't exist anymore. Some people are angry

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Always lingering in the past. It's 2020. Feminism has made advances towards equality. We aren't living in the 1800s of in the 50s. And no one said anythign about superiority. This victim mindset needs to stop. If we are going to talk about sexism, make sure you also fight against misandry. Because there is a lot of double standards out there in favor of women and not men.

[Anon_deals]

Again, centuries and centuries of sexism practiced in the US then women given some rights isn't 100% fair. We're literally still fighting against tactics of sexist nature. There is no victim mindset, women are victimized. Bad things happen to women in the name of sexism, of course plenty of us will fight back. Lucky sexist guys though, have half a population of women who view women as second class citizens and less than men. We all have our double standards, at least mines make sense

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Sexism exists for both genders. Feminism has made huge progress compared to before it existed. Don't try to deny that. For decades men have to deal with the short end of the stick for things like divorce alone. But somehow that's not sexist? You can only be a victim if you choose to be. And even then, it's a question if you truly are a victim

[Anon_deals]

Than deny the nature and traditions of this country I guess. I will still fight for women as well as other disadvantaged people regardless. Agree to disagree I suppose

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Is that so? Then I'm looking forward to see you fight for men's rights against double standards in places like court. Win-win for everyone

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer when equity is put forth and equality is 100% present (yet men somehow are treated unfairly), sure

[Kaneki05]

I am too young and takes a lot of effort to look after myself nevermind a pregnant women and a baby.
yeah umm i will take a rain check on that, maybe if i was in my later 20s. But even then i don't think i want a child that reminds me of your ex and how he was the one to pregnant you.

[Drakkith]

As someone who spent the better part of the last 2 years helping raise my ex girlfriend's kids (11 and 14), I have to say that I never once thought of them as 'someone elses'. I mean, I knew they weren't my kids, but so what? It never mattered to me whose sperm it was.

Now, I'm not saying you need to feel the same way, I'm merely presenting my own point of view. There are plenty of people out there that simply cannot accept kids that aren't theirs.

[AFellowWeeb]

@Drakkith you're so beta bux dude, bro wtf

[Drakkith]

@AFellowWeeb I wasn't aware liking kids was 'beta bux dude!'
Here's a life lesson for you that I hope you take to heart. It's okay to like people. It's okay to like kids. It's okay to like other peoples' kids. It doesn't make you less of a man or less of a person. If anything it makes you a BETTER person.

[Kaneki05]

I get your point drakkith. It's certainly just my point of view on it, and i am glad you can and have done that. The thing for me, is i get hurt by the thought of that other man sure it's a jealously issue but it's me. And i would never see this as a way it wouldn't hurt me. Wouldn't bother me to help out an ex. Just if i was with her. Or if we adopted a kid. Just wouldn't want to be with a girl who has a kid from another father

[AFellowWeeb]

https://youtu.be/hRnWHUSu0iI

[Red_Arrow]

Dating is not committing permanently. So I would have no problem dating a pregnant woman. (When I was younger. Now my dates would be too old to be pregnant.). So if the gal is nice, and also attractive, why not date?

[EyesOfGod]

Cougar Hunter

[Red_Arrow]

Hardly! You need help understanding what a cougar is.

[Anonymous]

despite how moody and grumpy i look all the time, i actually have a soft spot for animals and babies. I have a motherly instinct to go towards a baby if I hear it child. Sometimes even grown adults with disabilities even trigger it so I feel as if i need to take care of them and act like their mom.

[AndeeLuv]

Ugh this is me. It's from being an empath.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Is it so difficult for many male gagers to say no without insulting or being misogynistic. It is ok to not date any pregnant women but you dont have to insult also men who dont mind dating such women. Funny how they call these men beta male or men who have no self respect but except single young women date their old fugly ass with backage but call women feminazis for wanting the same like them.

[Dweezil]

If you say nasty things about men, you might just be a misandrist

[hi_it_is_me123]

I dont say anything about men. They ain't men. These male gagers are definition of cry babies aka littke kids. It is insult to men to call them men

[Dweezil]

Thank you for proving my point.

[hi_it_is_me123]

No, i should Thank you for proving my point

[TonyBello]

I did !!! a beautiful friend with 5 months of pregnancy, who had been abandoned by her boyfriend when she found out she was pregnant, confessed to me that she was desperate and would like to have sex with me. it was great for us 2. we stayed together until she was 8 months pregnant

[Anonymous]

Hell no! Why wouldn't I? Because I'm not a self-hating, woman-worshipping, emasculated, white knight cuck mangina.
Why doesn't the useless, lazy bum who got her pregnant in the first place look after her? Isn't it his JOB to do that? Why is she trying to hook up with someone else? Is she a floozy?

[seanras]

That's what we need to encourage. Not guys sucking up to women because some douche acted irresponsibly and left her.

[cherieday]

My mom dated while she was preggers and I have no dad on my birth ceritificate so I don't know what to believe anymore lol. Ima have to take a paternity test to see if the man I know is actally my dad

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm sorry.

[guesswhoseback]

You deserved better then that. Sorry. This isn’t any way a reflection of your own existence.

[Jamie05rhs]

^Agreed.

[cherieday]

Personally i think she could've waited a bit to go out on dates, try enjoy being pregnant, get ready for the relationship with your child, cus my girl was not ready when i was born. She wasn't ready for 13 years. but to each their own.

[Jamie05rhs]

@cherieday I feel you.

[guesswhoseback]

@cherieday I’m glad your mother decided to keep you

[cherieday]

I'm not lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww. Don't say that, @cherieday. You may not have had the best of upbringings, but you DO have a purpose in this world!

[Tiffyk]

I think that would depend on why she is single and pregnant in the first place. If she were raped or if her sig other died, it would be much more understandable than if she ditched the guy because she got tired of him or if she got pregnant in a casual sex situation.

[Mehzmeh]

I have dated a few pregnant girls. And it wasn't about sex (even though it's pretty awesome). It was more because, they needed someone to be there with them. And I am always trying to be that shoulder. And when they no longer need me I, walk away. They just like that I, am a chef. And I am always cooking for them. Lol

[Yaaten]

You're not a "chef", you're a doormat, a convenient person to have around who can later on be tossed aside when the woman in question thinks she no longer needs you. You're being used. Wake up Mister!

[Mehzmeh]

That's my choice. And I, am a chef. That's I do for a living. And I, do not do long relationships. And you sir are a fucking judgmental piece of shit.

[hahahmm]

No. Sometimes in life you just have to suck it up and focus on doing what's best for your kid & yourself which might not be fun. It might be hard work and being lonely. Men do it all the time.

[sadMeester]

You'll find mostly fetishists.

Part of the issue is it shows you either just got out of something serious, or you're a whore.

[Dweezil]

If the child wasn't mine then no.

A pregnant woman should not be chasing men when she is already pregnant.

The situation would soon turn ugly.

And what sane guy would want to get involved with a pregnant woman?

[Barry88]

If she isn't in a relationship, yes. Wouldn't be a deal breaker for me to go on a date, however, I don't know if I could get in a serious relationship with her. I don't see myself raising kids. But a date and perhaps some fun afterwards... sure!

[pervertedjester]

If I did it'd be because the old Norse genes. I have succeeded where my enemy has failed and claimed his woman for my own, more BEER!

[Jenom]

Yes. If I'm into a girl, I'll date her and accept everything that comes along with her as long as it's not baggage hung up on an ex.

[Sonorous]

Hell naw, to the naw, naw, naw (Hell to the naw)
Hell to the naw, to the naw, naw, naw

[jgokgotit]

No because then she could make me responsible for the child and put me on the child's birth certificate. I do not feel like supporting a child that is not mine. It is a different story if she already has kids and we get married.

[Avicenna]

Under absolutely no circumstances would I do that. Not only don't I need or want the drama surrounding all that, but I have no desire to raise someone else's kid, and especially not on my dime.

[Dchrls78104]

Doing so is often a thankless job.

[Avicenna]

@Dchrls78104: It definitely is.

[Bee-Hatch]

Were I looking to date women. Probably not. Once the kids come along sure. It's not a snipe at your life choices. I just don't think it's something I'd want in my life.

[SjE78]

if i got along with her yeah i would, contrary to what some guys think that just cos a woman is pregnant doesn't make her any less attractive or worthy of a chance of happiness

[M1k3y]

Highly dependent on the situation with it. But it's not a straight no.
I'd be less likely to hit on/initiate the relationship if she was pregnant as I'd assume she was taken.

[Drumlin2001]

It's a tough one. But i would. Would have to take things slow, build relationship between us. Support her as she wants with pregnancy and baby. Obviously the baby daddy would be a factor too. I wouldn't want to step on his toes as far as child.

[EyesOfGod]

Aka your a beta male

[PhantomMk]

@EyesOfGod because he dosent share your opinion 😂😂🤣🤣 fuck outta here.

[EyesOfGod]

@PhantomMk no he literally described what a beta male woukd do. Take care of the alphas woman and kids and the give the alpha space when he returns for his woman and kids lol.

[EyesOfGod]

Its pathetic really

[Drumlin2001]

If my relationship failed and i were back in the dating pool i would be asking someone to accept my two kids, why would i not do the same? Would be hypocritical wouldn't it? And if my babymama met someone new i would expect them to respect the fact that whilst they are part of my kids life, i'm their dad and it's between me and my ex to agree how they are raised, not for them to interfere.
My earlier point wasn't that i would hold the door for someone to return but that whilst i would be part of any step kids lives it's not my place to replace their dad.
But as you don't want to date someone with kids you'll never have to worry bout that. Will be interesting when you have kids in future and the relationship breaks down, your ex meets an "alpha" who tries to raise your kids, how you gunna respond?

[EyesOfGod]

I dont have kids so obviously im not gonna think that way. Also the fact she's already before the birth means she has terrible decision making.

[Drumlin2001]

So her partner is killed in a car crash soon after impregnating her, thats her fault?

[Drumlin2001]

Or because of the pregnancy she is unable to have sex for a few months so her partner decides have a sode chick or visit prostitutes. She leaves him. Thats a stain on her character or his?

[supercutebutt]

I know a guy who loves dating pregnant girls because he can fill her with his cumatozoa without having to worry about getting her pregnant. :)

[Jersey2]

But she had better worry about diseases.

[supercutebutt]

@Jersey2 It's probably worth the risk for his ladies because a sniz full of jizz would act like a slip 'n' slide for the baby, making the birthing process so easy! :)

[BrianMerritt]

Yeah, what's the worst that could happen?

"WE INTERRUPT 'PREGNANT BABY' FOR SOME BREAKING NEWS!"

[jshm2]

Not sure of the purpose of doing so.

You're going to be a stepfather, or get her to abort. Neither are very good options.

[Tinna80]

You man are disgusting.

[Drakkith]

I think my own stepdad would disagree with you bruh. Better man than my father ever was.

[Dchrls78104]

No, I would not; let the guy who made her pregnant date her!

[Tinna80]

You man are horrible creaters

[Hangry22]

No. I am not gay
But if i was preggo without a SO, i wouldn't date because that's the time to be focused on the baby

[MCheetah]

Unless the baby was 100% mine, then nope! That's on some major cuckold sh*t!

[Hypnos0929]

No way in hell.
Nothing wrong with them I'm just not excited or ready to leap at the chance of meeting a woman who just got out of a relationship and is probably looking for a baby daddy

[icecreamanmam]

It would feel awkward and burdening on me not to hurt the baby i know its a long shot but i dont like taking chances.

[EyesOfGod]

Fuck no thats just fucking gross. Like id want to be reminded that some dude recently pounded a baby into that women. Nasty AF.

[Anon_deals]

lol I'm sure plenty of women feel the same about men considering women cream in your mouths and we women do not want to kiss that. Like eww

[TruthBringer]

@eyesofgod I know right, gotta love the dudes who settle for scraps

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer if you love them oh so much, leave them alone. Stop bothering them in the comments and calling them names

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals They are free to do whatever they like and I'm free to practice my freedom of speech. You can always block me so you can't see what I write if it bothers you so much.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer I only block psychos. Also, hate speech isn't free speech

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Sure sweetie, you block anyone who doesn't kneel to you because you happen to be a woman. Equal rights, baby.

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer you don't have comprehensive skills do you. If anything I expect YOU to block ME, the weak ones always do

[EyesOfGod]

You must be really weak to think of this as hate speech. And lady when someone opens their mouth and talks its automatically free speech. You cannot pick and choose what is and isn't free speech this isn't fucking china.

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals I don’t block. Unlike many other snowflakes on this website. I don’t get intimidated to have my beliefs challenged.

[Anon_deals]

@EyesOfGod it's still hate speech. . . Also, google is free

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer lol suuureeeee

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Glad we're on the same page.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Only if I were the guy that knocked her up or if I fell in love with her.

[Liam_Hayden]

I cannot see a situation in which I would do that. Either the guy is still lurking or has died. Either way that is more potential drama than I would be willing to risk.

[kmala]

I would date her and give her lower back massage and shoulder massage.

[Anonymous]

This reminds me of a chick that contactwd mw on a dating website. She said she just recently found out she was pregnant. So... And i said " well it's been nice talking to you". Lmao

[Opinion Owner]

You know if you didn't want to hear a guys reasoning you should have used the block post option. This leads me to believe you're either soft in the head. Or you really wanted to hear responses just not anything that doesn't fit your view. I don't see how a guy having zero interest in a pregnant chick is gross. Seems to me the other way around would be disturbing..

[Anonymous]

I would, Even if its not my kid.

depends on the circumstances, but yea id be open to it

[guesswhoseback]

So she goes out and gets knocked up by some random asshole and you come along to save her day?

[Opinion Owner]

@guesswhoseback

Save her day how? Il knock her up again after she gives birth... ?

I have kids in my family that aren't mine. And its never ben a problem.

[TessCasie]

Nobody wants to carry an extra burden.

[Dchrls78104]

Especially when doing so is a thankless job.

[Anonymous]

I have in the past. Sex was pretty good plus the big fun bags. Stopped after her husband came back from deployment

[EyesOfGod]

😂 lol

[Kiss_Me]

No.
She has biological proof she lacks the character/will/discipline/intelligence to make sound decisions. I try to avoid these types of people. I would NEVER date one. Add single mothers to the lost as well.

[Asker]

When women get pregnant, they want to stay with their baby's father forever. But as you know, clearly, men can be assholes and hard to deal with. So the best choice is to leave the toxic father because if he stayed in their lives it would ruin the children.

[Kiss_Me]

I agree. Guys can be real low lifes. I will say that women should take the same stance I took on dating pregnant women. I f you discover a guy has a child out there somewhere... NEXT!!!

[TruthBringer]

@Asker Then why get impregnated by that toxic man, to begin with? See? All it reflects back at the woman. If she didn't open her legs to the wrong man, she wouldn't be in this predicament, to begin with. But keep blaming men for your own bad mistakes.

[Asker]

@TruthBringer If you haven’t noticed, when guys get comfortable around girls that’s when they start acting like a complete fucking asshole. He could be all nice to her and as soon as he finds out she’s pregnant, he’s comfortable because he thinks she’ll never leave him and he starts treating her badly. This happens all the time. Men are manipulating as hell

[TruthBringer]

@Asker only bad men do this. Which leads back to what I said, that it reflects badly to the woman.

[Asker]

@TruthBringer no it reflects badly on the man because their dumb ass friends encourage them to act this way. And society has men thinking they rule the world. and do bad men usually advertise they suck? No, they wait until they get comfortable. Just like serial killers, they’re not going to yell out “I’m a serial killer” they’re going to seem innocent enough so you can trust them. Just like Ted Bundy.

[TruthBringer]

@Asker Sure sweetie, keep running from responsibility. It's never your fault, it's always men's fault! You willingly opening your legs to them is also on them, not on you. You going Anonymous must be men's fault aswel. Poor girl!

[Asker]

@TruthBringer LOL last time I checked women can't fuck themselves and get pregnant. so yes, it is mens fault.

[TruthBringer]

Last time I checked a man can't fuck a woman without her willingly open her legs without calling it rape. It takes two to tango, sweetheart. How about you keep your legs closed for the right men?

[Eleni079]

No my ex she has a child it be Saturday Morning we be getting hot the kid come running in. That and I am Childfree.

[Anonymous]

Guys who would do are desperate fools. I wonder how such men can look at themselves in the mirror without vomiting.

[TruthBringer]

This is a question I ask myself aswel. Unbelievable how a man can agree with being voluntairly cucked.

[Machiavellio]

If i was sick in the head lol the last thing on a pregnant Girl's head should be dating. If she dated she's sick in the head and i don't date people who are sick in the head. Damn! that rhymes lol

[Nigjt]

Yes I would if she is still willing to fivk or have sex what ever u want to call it because sex is still sex an if she can't get help me get a nut then hell no.
God Bless

[Anon_deals]

You're 51🤣🤣🤣

[Nigjt]

Yes an it is what it is.
God Bless

[TruthBringer]

@Anon_deals Since we aren going to be ageist here. A 51 year old man can still nut many times more and even produce children unlike a 51 year old woman.

[Nigjt]

Oh my don't tell them that let them find out the hard way ha ha ha.
Thanks.
God Bless

[Anon_deals]

@TruthBringer that doesn't make it less disgusting. Only desperate women would have sex with saggy ball wrinkly old men.🤮

[joeldalton]

Only if I was the father. I wouldn’t date a single mom looking for a handout.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I would date a pregnant girl and it makes no difference whether she's pregnant to another guy

[iFarted]

Nope, not ready to be father to a child that isn't my own.

[seanras]

I'm pretty sure the number is smaller than 36%, it's easy to click "yes" on a poll here, but tbh most in that 36% wouldn't walk the talk.

[Anonymous]

If I am single, and unattractive, and asexual, I don't mind to become a father of someone else's father.
But sometimes, it can turn toxic.
But someone who is a really a good guy can be one.

I would be just I need some conditions.