Men, would you date a pregnant woman?

[anon1903]

Not your child. It's of her ex's.. they broke up some time ago..

Yes

No

I'm a girl

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+1 y

I'd def abort his "crotch fruit" if he chooses to walk out on me. Just saying.

[Dragonpurple]

I can't say I would date a pregnant woman. I'd be friends with her, hang out... see where things go. Even support her in labor if needed but I'm more likely to date a single mother than a pregnant woman.

I'd be too afraid she'd dump me to get back with her ex for the good of the child.

[zeitgeist057]

I did this, and actually even assisted the delivery at home when the midwife didn’t show up it was just the two of us.

Good times and a cool kid.

[anon1903]

Good for you

[OlderAndWiser]

Too much potential for drama with the ex.

[ChrisMaster69]

Oh good question.

it would need to be someone very special and you would need to have known them prior to pregnancy.

Going out socialising with a pregnant woman is an experience, especially once those hormones are kicking in.

Even something like going for a meal is entering the unknown.

Yes but I would have needed to have known them well previously, really fucking well and have that emotional connection.

if not, then it’s not happening as trying to understand a pregnant woman at an emotional level is seriously hard and really not to be done.

[integrale77]

It's one of them things that depends on the situation maybe it's someone you knew already.

Maybe they split with there ex making the decision to keep the child because they wanted to be a parent.

Maybe it started as a friendship and the situation changed.

If it was a complete stranger on a dating app then they really need to be appealing in some unique way.

[beebella]

I'm assuming most wouldn't, but there are some men who have a fetish for pregnant women. 🤷‍♀️

[anon1903]

It's pretty sick in my opinion

[Still-alive]

"I'm pregnant"

"tell me more mmm" :P

[anon1903]

Sick, sick, sicko-

[Kaneki05]

let's not shame any kinks lol

[beebella]

Lmao

[anon1903]

I don't know, I just can't stand a few links like this one... It's so... You know

[Kaneki05]

All is fair in love and war

[anon1903]

*pukes nonetheless*

[Still-alive]

I won't kink shame, but i will think shame

[anon1903]

Cute picture, Bella

[beebella]

@anon1903 Thanks 🙂

[Anonymous]

I may have done at one time (when i was buying into the bullshit peddled by feminists about real men taking on other peoples children etc) but not anymore.

As a woman you hold all the cards surrounding pregnancy, if you want to have a child without the consent of the father or have the child of a man who isn't right for you etc thats fine, thats your business, but dont ask me to be ok with taking on another mans responsibilities.

This is the only say that i have and I would much rather be alone than be cuckolded.

[ThePolishKnight37]

If she is someone I have known in the past and we reconnected sure. I probably would also give a someone I just met a chance also. I would need to know why thy are not together and what his involvement will be in the future. Hey he could have died for all i know.

[Kaneki05]

What would be the point would just have to leave when the baby is born. I can't deal with kids, humans are annoying nvm there child forms.

[anon1903]

I know right!!! Best answer ever!!!

[Flatmanlewis]

Hell no! They couldn’t have broken up some time ago seeing as how she’s still pregnant! In what world is nine months ago a long time? Once that kid drops you may very well find them changing their views about each other and at the minimum you don’t know if she’s not just looking for a replacement baby-daddy.


Bye!!

[elvitto]

I wouldn't like to. Honestly.

But If I have feelings for this girl. I would be glad to date her and take care of her and the child, even if it is not mine.

If there are no feelings involved I would not date her. I would rather go for girls with whom I could form a traditional family.

[oliver4love]

Yes If I love this girl deeply from heart sure date with her ♥ and the bad things happen in everyone life it's the game of destiny so I accept her child and married her soon

[AgentRED]

I wouldn't want to take care of some other deadbeat's kid. on another side, for myself i feel it's harder to have any emotional attachment to a kid that isn't even biologically yours to begin with.

[Still-alive]

hmmm maybe but only if they tell me what happened with the baby daddy

[Still-alive]

ehh doing it out of spite isn't healthy. also just saying

[anon1903]

Don't care about "healthy". Never did.

[Still-alive]

i hope you get some help for that in the future. not a put down mind you. just saying you deserve to be happy.

[anon1903]

Children don't necessarily mean happiness. Just saying we've different perspectives on this.

[Still-alive]

ok so what is your perspective? if not happiness then at least live in a way where you aren't burdened by how badly others treat you.

[anon1903]

Excuse me? What I do with my child has nothing to do with anyone.

[anon1903]

No uterus, no opinion.

[Still-alive]

didn't even mention that... but ok. im saying if your ex or others treated you poorly, you deserve to not be treated like that ever.

and no i have no opinion on what you do with your own body.

[anon1903]

I don't date.

But thank you. I appreciate it.

[Still-alive]

look if you ever wanna talk about something. im here. you don't have to, of course but i do care.

[anon1903]

Thanks but I'm good.

[Still-alive]

its always open. i won't bother you about this again.

[CrazyGirl2]

As long as we’re “just sayin’ “. If you don’t date, and don’t want kids… WTF does your uterus have to do with anything? And I DO have a uterus… just sayin’

[CrazyGirl2]

Jesus “anon” this dude is going out of his way to be polite to you! Trust me I’ve been through my own share of shit in my live. Not every guy is just out to be a dick to you. We all go through our share of shit in live, especially where men are concerned (like being raped by your fathers twin brother, on your 13th birthday, and having to abort his child! But I still treat people with kindness and respect, even men! Because THEY didn’t rape me, my UNCLE did! You really do (at least come off) like you need to talk to someone! Please, just seek help it really is there is you want it, and usually free of charge! Seriously, he was really being polite to you!

[Still-alive]

@CrazyGirl2 thank you lol.

[anon1903]

@CrazyGirl2 I don't remember speaking to you. Please don't interfere.

[ChrisMaster69]

@anon1903 I appreciate this is your question, however please try to be polite.

@Still-alive was simply stating his opinion in a really casual non argumentative way.
@CrazyGirl2 also did mention that @Still-alive was a really nice guy.

Can everyone just chill a bit please.

Thank you.

[Still-alive]

@ChrisMaster69 thanks chris!

[madgoat]

Well you can have a pleasant evening meal with her. But anything more is a logistical nightmare.

[DaveToo]

If you love her, that child in her is hers, not his. If you love her, that child in her can be yours, if you truly love her.

[DJB72]

Yes. I don't see the problem. If I'd date a single mum, what's the difference?

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, I don't know that I'd want to be an instant daddy but, other than that, it'd be okay.

[Scotsmanky16]

Yes I did and was there when she gave birth held her hand in the birth room. Brought her up. If I am in love then I will be there emotionally and legally I am in love now.(she knows who she is )

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

That's a really bad investment from the guy's perspective, just in pragmatic terms.

[potatoooo]

No, buuuut I do kind of think that dating isn't really in their priority. Ya know. Like, they are pregnant and all that stuff.

[AmeerX]

I would prefer she date after giving birth. She can tell me she is interested though