Would you date a single pregnant girl?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Nikki1989]

Normal men of character would.

Most men on g@g, probably not.

[AngryCarl2]

Man with character? You mean a cuckhold, right?

[petera1987]

Normal men of character don't want to be responsible for someone else's child, and a mother who makes poor life choices (i. e. a welfare basket-case).

[Miristheiss]

Nice shaming language.
Actually, it is wise to avoid a woman for dating who is in that condition.
Being wise is in good character. Making decisions that can ruin your future is not good character.
If that is some other man's child and she literally just got impregnated by some other guy and is already separated from him and looking to date while carrying some other man's then she probably shouldn't be looking to date at all.
Not dating her is not a blight against anyone's character.
Any one with sense knows that.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

On gag u will get honest answer in irl guys will be diplomatic

[Momma-404]

A good man with character would.

[Momma-404]

Most men on this app specifically, would not

[BlackBeauty90]

@Momma-404 - ROFL. No he wouldn't. A man on welfare looking for a bigger paycheque certainly would

[genericname85]

"a good man" with "character"? what would make him good and what's your definition of "character"? just curious.

[DextroShade]

A good man with character knows he deserves better than a trash baby momma whose mistakes he is not responsible for.

[genericname85]

@DextroShade i'm pretty sure her opinion comes from the fact that she's a single mom herself xD

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Nope sorry that's not how the system works

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I would never date a pregnant woman. What guy wants an ever-present reminder that she was fucking some other guy less than nine months ago?

[BlissfullyCurSed]

As if it was raining pregnant woman from the sky, and they were all chasing after you.

[OlderAndWiser]

@BlissfullyCurSed I never suggested that pregnant women were chasing me. The question asked WOULD I date a pregnant woman and not whether I actually have that experience, and the question did not ask for responses only from men under age 35 or 40 . I answered what was asked.

However, I do appreciate your attempt at being uplifting and cheerful.

[Juxtapose]

Hahaha good response older and wiser, that was classy.

[coachTanthony]

That would be a No for me.

[Anonymous]

I would date her as a side chick that doesn't require contraceptives. ﾠ

[Opinion Owner]

@d_bone_steak should you agree that she's a vessel of life? Not that pregnant woman having another man's essence developing, but I mean that she is a walking coom jar?

And a good point can be made about getting a bigger welfare cheque.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'd bang her... pregnant. If the other man will pay for the baby's life... I'll get her pregnant too. ... side chick action only though. Living coom jar AKA cum dumpster.

[BlackBeauty90]

Given a choice 98% of men would say no.

There are exceptions but the average single mother is single because of poor life choices, usually tied with sleeping around & having no clue whose baby's dadda is.

So, typically, it's a hassle.

There is no biological investment, there is potential ex-boyfriend drama, emotional baggage, if the girl got pregnant because of poor self control (sleeping with anyone) then there's an increased likeness of her cheating, etc., etc.

Not to mention exception for the rare occasions the average single mother in USA does not have an education, does not have decent job (welfare), etc. and so she is baggage.

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Single mothers are not like single fathers.

Single fathers are more often than not the result of divorce, are educated, contribute to society, etc. because yes courts favour women so for a man to be single parent he has to stand out.

Single mothers are more often than not single, as said, due to sleeping around or making bad life choices (poor partner choosing, etc.)

[JacobJordan]

not a chance in hell. for several reasons. 1 that baby is from one someone else you should be with them. if you can't be because of 1 reason or another you shouldn't have been with them to begin with. 2 that baby is going to be your priority and you are more than likely going to expect that man to pay for that baby even though it isn't his. 3 only way a single girl gets pregnant is if she has a habit of making poor life choices. which likewise means she is a poor life choice for men to date

[Juxtapose]

No, not unless she is so utterly incredible and blows my mind so hard that it erases concerns that such a pregnancy would bring. I'm talking about a once-in-a-lifetime dream babe who just so happens to be perfect for me.

Other than that? No way. Most women are going to treat you like trash compared to the kid when in reality the romantic partner should be given priority. You don't need to be the kid's friend, you do need to be your husband's friend though or you will be left of quite the empty nest but the time your kids are 18.

[Screenwriter]

I think there are some out there who wouldn't care. But if I were a man, I'd sure want to know whose baby it was and if you were still involved with them.

You're asking a guy to jump into something unusual. Especially if you're keeping the baby, which also would mean that ex man will be paying child support and will be in that child's life, more than likely. All fairly stressful for a new dating relationship.

Good luck, though.

[LazerBean]

Nope. Single fathers and mothers need to stay out of dating and raise their children. Maybe by the time their kid is grown then they will have learned enough to not be a screw up anymore.

[LazerBean]

Doesn't apply to single fathers and mothers whose spouse died, of course.

[Monalisa77]

Just cos a marriage breaks down doesn't mean each person is the screw up

[Asker]

@lazerbean how are single mothers and fathers screw ups?

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

I agree with you

[YAsQuen]

because they fuked before marriage and ruined their childrens lives

[LazerBean]

Yeah, like you have

[YAsQuen]

hey hey hey i didn't get noone prego. Bro everyone makes mistakes. Chill.

[Monalisa77]

You can't prove that for every marriage lol

[YAsQuen]

@Monalisa77 no blame if the spouse died.
The rest is always on you to a certain degree.
And provoking single mother status is honestly sick. Either from a biblical perspective or from just looking at stats.

[Monalisa77]

My ex sil is trying to take the kids away from my brother even tho socials keep checking on her she's doing things the way she's supposed to, she's a nutter its not always equal fault

[Pyrofox]

@Monalisa77 If they did it selfishly for their own happiness with no intent to keep their child sane its like rainbow of red flag colors.

[Anonymous]

It's important to consider the circumstances and your my feelings. Communication and empathy are key. If I have a genuine connection and are willing to support each other, it can be a positive choice. However, I need to be prepared for the responsibilities and challenges that come with dating someone who is pregnant.

[TomMarks]

I would have to get to know her first. I have a girlfriend now, but if I was single, her being pregnant wouldn’t stop a relationship with a girl that I feel I am otherwise right for. However, I wouldn’t tie myself down to a girl I’m not right for just out of pity for her being pregnant. Doing so could keep her from finding the right guy.

[HelpfulWoman]

- i hope everyone answers no.
Nothing wrong with a single mama. But a girl who's not even finished making a baby and pushing it out and dating? rather than chilling with herself? RED. FLAG.

[OneTrueYou]

I said yes because I have. Yes, it can come with its own struggles to help raise another man's child, but that doesn't mean you have to interfere between the kids biological parents. If the woman is special enough to you and you have or want children and love kids then I don't see the problem.

[nawtee_me]

Just because she is single and pregnant doesn’t mean anything at all. There could be circumstances such as he left her or died afterwards. Even if he is still around not being the man he should doesn’t put her at fault for anything. And the baby didn’t have a say so yes I would date a single pregnant woman.

[Anonymous]

Not in the U. S. There isn't enough space here for me to list all of the reasons after the things I see in public and online at least 20 times daily from them all across the country as to why. It's not age or race dependent either. White American, Black American, 19 or 33, it doesn't matter. No, no, no, no.

[Billlewis]

Not only would I happily date a single pregnant woman, I'd actually prefer her to be pregnant.

[Anonymous]

Miss @BlackBeauty90 nailed it. I will add to her great comments that women already have all the rights when it comes to reproduction and children, and men have almost none. It's risky enough for a man to marry a woman and have his own children with her. Why would a many assume all the risk when the child isn't even his?

I will also add that when a women is pregnant and soon to be the mother of a newborn, how much fun do you think she will be to date?

[molonski2]

No , would not be appropriate , I'd let her give birth first.

No man with any self respecting character would put himself in this position while she is heavily pregnant.

[Kaneki05]

I don't want a kid so no. Even if they said I don't have to be it's father it's still going to be in her life therefore effect me if I am trying to be around her.

[Anonymous]

I think the pregnant girl should be focusing on having her baby and not dating.

[Asker]

I need a father

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry sweetie but that's just going to be hard to find with you like that. Maybe once the baby is born and you've settled into motherhood you can think about dating preferably a guy who also has kids but not while you're pregnant. You should be focusing 100% on that baby. If a guy comes along great but it's not very likely while you're pregnant. Just reality of the situation you're in.

[genericname85]

nope. you had all the good time with another dude. why would a man choose to skip the good part and go right in for the worst parts?