Have you ever been a part of someone else's wedding?

[beebella]

Were you a bridesmaid/maid of honor? Groomsman/best man? Flower girl/ring bearer?

I've been a part of someone else's wedding (s)

I've never been a part of someone else's wedding (s)

I've only been a part of my own wedding (s)

Poll options B an C

[NamerOfStars]

I was a groomsman in both my siblings', and two of my friends'; those were pretty uneventful. I was also the ring bearer in one of my aunt's. My brother had held the same position in a different aunt's wedding, and, following directions from my father, had responded to the request for the ring with "You wants the precious?".

The aunt I was ring-bearing for did NOT want a repeat of that (I'm not sure why; most wedding ceremonies could USE a little more levity), and made me promise that I wouldn't even use the WORD "precious". I, having been carefully coached on this point by my father, promised. Instead, after walking up to the altar being asked for the ring, I shouted "to Mount Doom!" and fled as fast as my four-year-old legs could carry me. After that, it was decided that none of my father's children (of which I was the last anyway) would be allowed to be ring bearers.

[humanearth]

My 1st wedding was kept secret. Only 4 people knew.

Fact is,

I was embarrassed to get married to a batshit crazy woman

Second wedding

Just enough people to have a witness so two people

I hate weddings, a big waste of money

[Tinana]

I haveeeeee ☺️☺️☺️☺️ My aunts not really aunts. I just call them aunts for respect. They practically raised me when I was a tiny baby and I was in their bridal train 🥰🥰 it was so fun being all dressy. And dancing with them I absolutely loved it I can’t wait to do that more 🥰 I love weddings so much but I’m scared of getting married 😂😂😂 the irony

[LovingLoverReturned]

I complained about never having been invited to a wedding then suddenly in the two pandemic years I had wedding after wedding to attend lol... it seems someone is reading my mind and granting, I silently wanted something very specific and got it. Cosmo, is that you?

[OlderAndWiser]

I have been a best man, a groomsman, and a groom. And I have helped plan a few weddings.

[Anonymous]

I have, but unfortunately, it was a pathetic one, and I was only there because my parents dragged me to it. The wedding, much like how my parents got married, was unfortunately caused by an arranged marriage, and it felt like absolute torture being in this so-called ceremony. My parents and other relatives who were within their age range or older enjoyed it, but goddamn was it a torturous experience for not only me, but also the only other person who was in my age range. It was a South Asian wedding, so no surprise it was a chore to get through. Luckily, he offered me a ride home and dropped me off before going back to his home so I managed to avoid a part of the torture.

Hopefully, weddings of other cultures aren't via arranged marriages and instead the couples actually fell in love and dated before the marriage, and maybe those weddings won't be such a nightmare to be in.

[Jamesshinobi]

a few. i was a part of my wifes wedding, (not my choice, she made me show up)
My buddy Bob's, my buddy Chris', my buddy Scott's. i was the maid of honor in a girlfriends wedding she pulled out and the weddimg nevwr happened. i had the sexiest dress too i was gonna fucking slay

[TrillXHippy]

I’ve been invited to my cousin’s wedding. If my brother gets married I’ll probably be apart of the wedding but if not then it should be his twin brother. Personally his twin brother is going through some things health wise and I’m personally going through some things health wise

[Emiliamazing]

I’ve been a bridesmaid in more weddings than I can count. My husband has been in many many weddings because he has a massive family. We both enjoy it, love the celebration and the gathering of family and friends

[lilyanony1]

I thought I was a brides maid but apparently culturally my role was to serve and collect money even people through it at her.
I'm quite insulted tbh.

[NathanDavis]

many times an after-party wedding singer...

best man to my best friend, he kind of forced me...

and I also walked down the aisle my best friend, because she wanted it that way

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah a few times, Usher usually, avoid best man like the plague lol.

However I have promised a mate I will do it for him if he ever gets married.

[electromagnetic]

I have been flower girl a couple of times as a child. I've been the maid of honour when my best friends got married also.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Yup. I was the maid of honor in my sister's wedding. And I was a bridesmaid in a friend's wedding last year.

[melanieeeB]

In the end no, I have been asked to be braids of honor and I did say yes in all of these joy but declined later

[Chill_Thoughts]

Was the best man of my best friend and of my cousin, both of them are way too young to be married tho. My best friend is 23 and my cousin 21 💀

[Sonorous]

No, but I have facilitated the creation of piano sheet music that has been played at weddings.

[Sonorous]

creation & distribution*

[Sonorous]

creation, production & distribution.*

[Sonorous]

planning, creation, production & distribution*

[Sonorous]

planning, organization, creation, production & distribution*

[Sonorous]

vision, planning, organization, creation, production & distribution*

[Sonorous]

vision, planning, organization, creation, manufacturing, production & distribution*

[Sonorous]

vision, planning, organization, consulting, creation, manufacturing, production & distribution*

[bubblegunnn]

Yes i was a flower girl to my sists wedding.. and also im a bridesmaid on my bestie's wedding too

[Apulu_Imback]

I will be a part in the wedding of my engaged sister. I don't know which job I will get though.

[BCRanger10]

Yes, once. I was a groomsman at a college friend's wedding.

[Emilyis]

Bride's maid several times and Maid of Honor 6 times.

[DarkCarousel]

I’ve been a bridesmaid twice. It would have been three times but the 3rd wedding was called off.

[TransAm85]

In '14 I was maid of honor and 25 years ago my Grandma remarried and I was the flower girl! lol!

[DizzyDesii]

I was a miniature bride in 2 weddings... my cousin and my dad’s