What age did/do you wanna get married?

[bennies_819]

If you guys have any advice on how to have a successful long-lasting long-term relationship for the future generations that would be nice on your thoughts of what is in your opinion the number one key to a happy successful marriage.

15-19 very young 😲

20-26 Golden time🌟

30-39 little over average 👰

40-60+ older 👫

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Ideally at 18 or 19 but I wouldn't mind getting married later in life, at 22-24. I'm not really fond of getting married though, so If anything, it wouldn't be a big wedding. Probably just signing papers and getting the legal stuff done.

[KatherineJ]

I got married when I was 29.

[bennies_819]

I hope you have the best marriage and stay married to your loved one I wish to be married to one day when I'm around like 25 good luck to you and your long-term marriage.

[KatherineJ]

@bennies_819 that is very sweet of you to say! Thank you so much! We just celebrated our 10th anniversary August 4th. 👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻

[bennies_819]

I pray blessings upon your family health and your marriage you're probably not Christian but I just want to say if you keep God in the center of your marriage you'll see things happen so many blessings and I pray that God blesses over your marriage and have forever happy years for you both God bless. Also I hope you had a great time celebrating your 10th anniversary I pray that I get to your place one day with the love of my life (I don't have a boyfriend, but praying on one).🙏💞

[KatherineJ]

@bennies_819 thank you again for your kindness. The only thing I can say is In His time, not ours. Have patience, and faith that the right person will come along at the right moment.

[GlassTop]

Guys usually aren’t ready for marriage until they have a career, usually in 30’s. So women who want to be married young will need to marry men 5-10 years older.

[OlderAndWiser]

In Defense Of Marriage

[Prettygurl12]

I got married when I was 24.

[bennies_819]

Aww that's sweet how did you meet him😊

[Prettygurl12]

So we actually swam on the same swim team when we were 8 and 6, but we didn't know that. We officially met when we were 14 and 12 when our families went on Christmas vacation to the same resort in Costa Rica. We're from the same hometown back in the US. We started dating at 18/16.

[bennies_819]

Wow you guys are lucky and God was showing your future husband from the start God is amazing!!! I will wait on God's timing for me well good luck to you both!

[Guy13]

25-30 and I am working like a dog on it... How about you? I guess 18 since that is showing as your age? Big one or small wedding? I want sweet not huge...

[bennies_819]

Yes my number is 25 to be wed. i am 18 but will turn 19 in one month so I guess 19. It doesn't matter to me about a big or small wedding I do not mind a big or small wedding I will discuss all the information with my partner and if you both decide on a small wedding then what else my wedding we have a big wedding a big one.

[Guy13]

Sounds like you have a vision... I love the way you write and thing. I assume you are a very bright woman. Finish Grad School first... ;-)

[bennies_819]

I am in college... not high school 🏫🎒

[Guy13]

I guessed that and this is why I said finish graduate school before marriage. PhD or MD can take 4 to 6 years.

[bennies_819]

Well that's good for you I applaud you on your success but I'm not going to school for that long I'm only going to school for 2 years to get my associate's degree secondly come a dental hygienist

[bennies_819]

And one more year for the program

[Guy13]

My Business partner's daughter did that and is doing quite well. She's OCD and loooves it.

[bennies_819]

Well I give her props for that because being in this type of field is very competitive and I am willing to work on the challenges just like she did so I am able to travel and see the world and help people and educate them on oral hygiene.

[Tornado92]

Guy13 thats y I lien woman like her age young.
Woman our age all turn into Karen's!!!

[goodgirlsteven]

I always wanted to be married by 25 but it hasn't happen yet and I'm 55 i don't think I will ever be asked! it saddens me a bit to think about it. I think I would have been a good wife and adopt a child, I would have been a completely different person. Maybe that's why I'm a little wild I guess. sorry just got a little sad.

[Nathan25]

You can do this. You deserve to be loved. You can figure out how to get it done. Do it. Don't apologize for being sad, or showing any other symptoms of humanity.

[goodgirlsteven]

@Nathan25 yup thanks! just a moment of weakness

[exitseven]

I was 25. I just felt ready to enter a new stage in my life. I was a little unprepared for having a kid less than a year later but I ma glad I did it when I did. Lots of people wait until they a lot older.

[FilmGuy93]

I actually always thought I would be married by now. I thought I would meet my sweetheart in college and then make her my wife. Like didn't work out that way.

[bennies_819]

Did you try going on dapping apps or maybe try going to a church or even date a Christian girl

[FilmGuy93]

Yup! Life just hasn’t worked out that way 🤷‍♂️

[danka_02]

Whatever the age, you both have to understand that marriages require a lot of work, continuously. Think of a marriage as a car. If you want that car to last long you have to take care of it…get the oil changed, put gas in it, etc… you can’t expect it to work unless you do your part and put in the work.
i hope that makes sense!

[danka_02]

Never take each other for granted.

[danka_02]

I will say this, I don’t care how sweet you are or how handsome he is, if your love & marriage is not built up on Jesus Christ, it’s not gonna work. If Jesus Christ is not the center, y’all need to pray together because we are in a world right now where they don’t know if a boy is a boy or a girl is a girl.. we have some people in office that are crazy, people that run the roads that are crazy so you’re going to have to built your marriage on Jesus Christ. Find a church home, go to church, pray together, worship together, read the scripture together and let your children and family see you praying together and I promise you it’s going to work out!

[Chazmatazz269]

Never. Happiness is born of acceptance and gratitude. Married or not, you can’t be happy without those two things.

[BCRanger10]

I would have liked to have gotten married earlier. I got married at 31.

[Pyrofox]

It can be anytime so long as they are realistic and actually mean the phrase I Love You.

[Nathan25]

I'm 24 and suddenly people want to be married now. I gotta get crack a lackin

[qwert1234]

I don't plan it. If it will happen, it'll happen.

[shortster]

I was almost 8; when I started to want to get married.

[Apple1996]

I got married at 19 and still married

[Blackcosmo]

Maybe after University.

[jengeorge26]

That’s a good age

[Iron_Man]

It’s time soon

[maximumpower]

And I will never do it again.

[BLP11520]

Married at 26 , still married.

[loveslave]

before 30.