Would you rather choose a love marriage or arranged one?

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WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

In my culture, arranged marriages are very prevalent. I'm allowed to date within certain conditions. I would much rather have a love marriage than an arranged one. The concept of arranged marriages seem so archaic to me. Even though courtship periods exist, I would much rather prefer to get to know my potential partner at my own pace than rush into marriage with someone I'm not sure about because I have a metaphorical gun to my head.

My parents had an arranged marriage and it fizzled out right after I was born. It had turned into a fucked-up catastrophe by the time I was 5. So yes, while for some people it may work out, regardless of your horoscopes matching, your marriage can be a disaster. Love marriages for the win!

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

Arraigned marriages are for natural problem solvers. I’d rather choose to live in a strong relationship with peace and happiness.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I’d choose that bad ass girl in the profile picture that is asking this question 😜 Love marriage only , arranged marriages are dumb consider you can’t force yourself to love someone

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I’m 50/50. Parents know us best lived a lot longer. I would expect final decision though.

LazerBean · Answer

Well since I'm in a live marriage, I'm going to choose live marriage.

Summeroflove · Answer

Nope. Definitely need someone I would be happy with

Shiface92 · Answer

For love, why would I want to be arranged with someone I don’t love that is bizarre

Guardian45 · Answer

BOTH can be EXCELLENT within certain parameters. I have been offered an arranged marriage and did seriously consider it many years ago. In the end, I prefer a love marriage.

Havthrills · Answer

If she's hot, arranged. Kidding. Love of course. Would be a horrible marriage if we hated each other.

Staximus · Answer

Love, why the hell would you marry somebody you don't love? We are not making peace between two kingdoms here for fuck's sake

Anonymous · Answer

Love marriage so I can trap a man I love with a kid and force him to be mine forever and if he tries to leave, make him pay child support and threaten to blow his brains out. :)

alance99 · Answer

I dont mind either, my main concern is that our marriage never breaks

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

They are not mutually exclusive.

crmoore · Answer

Love marriage, hands down.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Love marriage always.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I would look at a loved marriage.

LavLavLuv · Answer

I dont want an arranged marriage

Anonymous · Answer

We married because we are in love.

krin_m · Answer

Aren't all marriages based on love?

Mollynotgemma · Answer

Love

sunflower00 · Answer

Love marriage

curlyfirecracker · Answer

Love.

Mcheal_arson · Answer

Love marriage

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