How long is too long to be with someone that doesn't want to get married but you do?

[Anonymous]

[Goforit1010]

You have to determine what's important in a relationship for you. If marriage is that important, and you find out he has zero interest in getting married, than 5 minutes is too long.

One thing I discovered when I was divorced at 35, was that both women and myself (when I started dating again), didn't waste time with people who didn't have similar interests. We both discussed what we were looking for in a relationship within the first couple dates. If someone didn't share similar interests, we moved on to find someone else. We didn't waste our time staying with someone. Why spend weeks, months, or even years staying with someone, KNOWING they want different things with another person? I wouldn't even spend another day with them.

One more thing... we weren't mean about ending the relationship. We just made it clear, they weren't the person we we were looking for. We wished each other the best for their lives and moved on. There's roughly 3 billion guys in this world. Surely there's one out there looking for similar ideals in a relationship as you!

[boggboss]

What do u mean as soon as u find out thats too long why do u expect him to change his mind

[PamelaRivers]

If they made that clear, it already too long. I'd move on to someone that shares your dreams.

[LazerBean]

Any amount of time with such a person is a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

If they are that adamant about not wanting ton get married, than you should move on now.