Guys would you want to marry a woman who doesn't want children?

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Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

Yes, and only because I couldn't have children.
I have lost many relationships because of that.
At first, they were fine with it, but then as the clock was ticking, they decided that they wanted to have kids.
I get it.
The odd thing is that when I met my wife, she was past the age of being able to have kids, and it turns out that she couldn't have kids either.
Go figure.
That was not something I put in my dating profile.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Hmmmm.

In theory it wouldn't matter. I was always 50/50 on kids and was always planning to just do what my wife wanted. So if a woman didn't want kids then that would have been fine.

My wife wanted kids. We had 2 and then I got a vasectomy. She is not on birth control.

In this scenario I'd just get a vasectomy. If she was planning to stay on the hormone pill all her life I'd not go along with that.

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

I’m interested in the opinions given. I don’t want children (or marriage) and I’ve found a great partner who also doesn’t want either of those. But I know that not every man will feel the same way that my partner does.

Faith18letsgo · Accepted Answer

I’m not a guy but I’m gay. I would marry a woman who didn’t want children but that would be the number one predictor I’d have for the reason of our divorce.

Guy13 · Answer

I don’t want a No Baby producing “woman” because I want a well trained lineage grounded within the household, critical thinking, by God’s Grace houseful.

musicbrain5 · Answer

I’m sure there’s guys out there who also don’t want kids. Men who want kids are not a good fit for you.

Backnforth · Answer

Neither me or my wife want kids, not even when we were younger. She also can't take birth control because she's sensitive to hormone changes, so I just got a vasectomy a few years ago. Vasectomy was way easier than her getting her tube tied too as it's less invasive and doctors never asked me a million questions or told me no haha I was 25 when I got it. Best decision of my life, and we couldn't be happier.

RavVid · Answer

Some guys do really want children but I think most guys just accept children come with marriage and go along with it. I just don't think guys regard children as that important in the same way that most women do.

I would regard a woman who doesn't want children as perfect for me.

420Rachel · Answer

Well I have a child myself, and I would like another baby someday so I would hope that he wants a baby lol. Of course not everyone wants kids and that’s ok!

nitsuj86 · Answer

Marry no. Probably not.

I have always wanted kids. My own kids, not someone else's. So it has been a deal breaker for me in the past.

Now, if I was unable to have children myself, then sure it wouldn't really matter to me then.

BCA6010 · Answer

That would go against my primary motivation for dating and hopefully getting married in the first place. A woman who can't have kids but wants to adopt is a different story.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I would be fine with that at my age (even if I was 40 or so). I am not interested in having any babies. Don't get me wrong, I love kids just not interested in having a newborn.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

That is a major reason why I would want to marry. I want to have kids so my family can continue.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I'd be in a long term relationship with one, but no marriage, as I view it as pointless. I don't want kids either.

UmbrusNightshade · Answer

Personally, no. I want my own children. But there are guys out there who don’t want kids so they very well might.

Avcfhcic · Answer

If we had a great connection of course! I don't know if I want kids or not yet but I'm not very good with children anyway

nrm736 · Answer

I don't want kids either so it's a big up for me. But I'm not a fan of marrying either. Maybe I could be convinced about the latter if our relationship stands the test of time.

Twalli · Answer

I plan to, and it's pretty easy to make that choice because I got a vascetomy to ensure that any woman I have sex with cannot get pregnant from me. I am open to adoption if she still wants to be with me, but wants to raise children.

HighValue · Answer

I have no interest in a woman if she doesn't want children and to raise a family together.

Lynx122 · Answer

I don't want children but I don't want to get married either. At least atm.

ManOnFire · Answer

Yes. Because I don't want kids anymore either.

Anonymous · Answer

If you truly don't want children, and she's sure she doesn't want children, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Not everyone should or can be a parent.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes since I´m not good with small kids I surely would.

dustybiker · Answer

When you meet a great person reality effects theory.

TheVigilantFox · Answer

If I loved her then yes, I don’t want kids anyway as they’re to much hassle.

cunnilinguist · Answer

That's the only kind I'd marry. Sex every day, no excuses, no interruptions, no hiding.

exitseven · Answer

I didn't not want children. I could have gone either way. I am glad I had them now.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

If she only meant biological child then i dont mind adopting. But if none at all, then that's a deal breaker. (Except im mot marrying. Marriage has nothing to do with love)

Hardworkingguy · Answer

I suppose it is supposed to be if the man in question doesn't want any children himself but so far I have never met a woman who doesn't want to have children

fonduegirl · Answer

Of course. If she changes mind (worst case scenario), we'd adopt.

libsaretards · Answer

There are guys out there who do not want children. I am not one of them

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

She would have to not want children, because I don't want any either.

loveslongnails · Answer

IF I were to marry, that's the ONLY kind of woman I'd want to marry!

John_Doesnt · Answer

Yes, I can't stand kids and don't want any kids myself.

genericname85 · Answer

well... rather than one who already has children tbh.

Deserter · Answer

I don't like children but they bring meaning to your life and your genes live on. They bring about fun and challenges to overcome

captain_voidwalker · Answer

What would be the point. Children are the entire purpose for relationships otherwise just buy a fleshlite they're cheaper

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

At the time yes as long as she keeps an open mind. It's one thing to not be ready or want at the time is ok

standardguy · Answer

This depends if I already have own childern or not. If I have children perhaps its even better that she doesn't want own kids.

straightmax12 · Answer

Hell yeah. Because I'm not interested in having children as well.

Bgdre · Answer

Yes I can see myself marrying a woman who expressed so Really how she feel about her personal body and how she thinks of others and being responsible

LiamJHayden · Answer

If I were not averse to marriage under current laws, yes.

Jay3344 · Answer

Sure but it doesn’t mean we have to stop trying!

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I’m a proud antinatalist and my love is another one! Dunno about Her, but I myself support adoption.

BJP21 · Answer

Only if Im wired to not want them either. Sure... IM NOT.

Guardian45 · Answer

I would consider marrying a woman who doesn't want children.

msc545 · Answer

yes and no. Yes to no child support, no to marriage at all.

In_Trance · Answer

Sure, why not.  I think it's crazy to bring children on to this should show of a planet now

Raaj4you · Answer

I want to make our own babes with my future wife.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Fuck no. Why bother getting tied down for no reason?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope cause I want kids that's a deal breaker for me

headphonekim · Answer

It's up to them they can do whatever they want.

Anonymous · Answer

No quite simply it would be a waste of my time and resources.

Anonymous · Answer

yes. Although i can also do without marriage. Why complicate things?

superderpy500 · Answer

Yes, this world is too jacked up to raise a family in.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

No, but I don't want to get married anyway.

fantasticass · Answer

Yes. It's a bonus to not have kids...

jshm2 · Answer

Depends on the reasons, I suppose.

Exterminatore · Answer

That would be ideal if I were single again.

front2back · Answer

If I was impotent I would be okay with it.

DiegoO · Answer

Why not. I don't want children, neither.

Kelly6 · Answer

I’m mom who wants kids

Cubus · Answer

No, because I want children.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Sure! Sounds perfect!

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