Guys, would you marry someone who doesn't want kids?

[Anonymous]

Would you marry someone who doesn't want kids and just wants enjoy life between you and her as a couple? Or do you want kids and she's a pass?

[OlderAndWiser]

When I was younger, and I met the one who I thought was The One, but she couldn't have kids. I hoped we could adopt but she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis about a year after we married. I stayed married to her for 17 years before we divorced. By that time, I was 50 years old and that is too old to start having a family, so I gave up on the hope of having children.

[Fireguy17]

Yes.
I never had the desire to be a parent, and after years I figured out why.
I'm unable to be a father even if I did want kids.
Needless to say that was pretty much a deal breaker when I was younger on long term relationships.
Most women really wanted a family which I totally understood.
For me it was fine, sort of.
I understood.
When I got older it wasn't a big deal as after a certain age many women either had kids and did not want anymore, or were past the age of being able to have kids.
I will say that there were a few times I've always wondered what if.

[HelpfulWoman]

there's literally at least one date site that is for kids free people.

[AI Opinion]

Well, you're touching on quite the spicy topic there! Marrying someone who doesn't want kids is a big decision and really comes down to what kind of love story you're dreaming of. Are you all about those duo adventures, endless romantic getaways, and spontaneous date nights? Or does your heart yearn for the pitter-patter of little feet and family cuddles on the couch? It's all about matching your visions for the future. Remember, love, it's crucial to be on the same page with your partner about kids. It can be a deal-breaker for some, but a dream come true for others! So, are you ready to dive deep into your desires and find someone who syncs up with your life's script? 😉

[Hanrej]

No! At least not if she hasn't had kids previously. A woman who says she doesn't want kids is a MAJOR red flag to me. I interpret that as a person that don't want to take on any responsibility and remain free of anything that could hold her back. It signals the kind of person who doesn't commit, help out or accept accountability for her actions/decisions.

[Berethor]

A pass, why would I commit to a woman who don't want to commit to children? why should I risk my money for nothing? why should I give up on having a legacy? maybe it's trans.

[BCA6010]

That would be an automatic no for me.

I'd make an exception for a woman who couldn't have kids if she was open to adoption.

[Quidthonian]

Marry no, be a couple yes. I am in my mid-40s: by the time the kid is 20, I would be in my 60s. I am an introvert, I am fiercly independant, I don't like being around a lots of people.

[Conqueeftador]

It depends on the person who you are marrying if he don't want to have kids then you are good to go. Well most of the men want to have kids and it's a beautiful thing to have your own kids it brings a lot of joy to you and your family.

[DrPepper12]

Back then no way
Now? It would get a lot of consideration knowing what I know now

[bobby_bush_eater]

No I would not.

I want kids/a big family.

[Anonymous]

That's a loaded question. I probably wouldn't marry a woman who wasn't at least open to the idea of kids. Because that is a red flag🚩.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'd ONLY marry someone who doesn't want kids !!!

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

No interest from her in kids = no interest in her from me.

[LEGENDARY4200]

I would marry. I do want kids not the end of the world if it never happens if she's everything else

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Absofuckinglutely!

[RavVid]

I wouldn't regard her as a pass.

[exitseven]

Having kids was not a deal breaker for me.

[TheLimeNan]

I would absolutely if she's the one

[thearchjoker]

pass

[soe11]

I agree

[jordynthedecayer99]

She would be a pass

[gatixek710]

Never.

[Staximus]

Yeah sure

[scott04sa22]

I'm ok with it

[jahaims]

Nope

[OddBeMe]

Thank god I did.

[Human79]

Not for me