Would you date someone who doesn't want kids?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

At my stage in life now , Yes considering I don’t want anymore kids , my kids are older and the thought of me starting over , Not on the top of my list , I been there and done it , so finding a girl that doesn’t want kids would be perfect for me honestly just as long as she is ok with me already having kids , Now that my kids are older I been searching for a girl that just wants to enjoy life together and spoil each other , I am ok if she already has kids as well , just as long as she isn’t expecting me to raise them , I will be friendly with them and be supportive of them , but I don’t want to be responsible for them, just like I don’t want her feeling she is responsible for mine , I am just looking for a girl that will value me like I value her , I want to travel and share experiences together , I thought I would of had that with my ex but she became a selfish whore , so my focus has been finding someone that knows what it means to be in a relationship and knows how to value each other and remove selfishness for one another , lately it has been so hard to find cuz lately I been experiencing and witnessing things that just blows my mind , I feel social media has destroyed relationships I feel like it destroyed mine with my ex , considering her and I met before all this shit took off with smart phones and social apps and the second she got addicted to Facebook I was no longer a priority to her , so to find a girl that can put her phone down is hard

To come by , I don’t get into a relationship to be single but if I am treated like a convenience or a punching bag for long and nothing changes after I sit down with her and express my feelings of concern and try to compromise with her , my ass is out. I am a one on one kind of guy I want only one girl not multiple , if I want multiple I wouldn’t get into a relationship period is how I look at things , lately younger girls have been on top of my list of legal age of course , I have my reasonings behind it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would likely not date someone who doesn't want kids. As much as I don't want them myself, I still feel like its my duty to have one

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

As someone that hates and refuses to have kids, absolutely! If anything, that would make me want to date them MORE!

I know this might be hard for some of you to believe, but not all of us want kids. I rather spoil my partner with attention and time, than stress out over a rugrat. That is why when I am getting to know a guy, I always ask him his thoughts on kids. Yes, relatively soon within the talking period of getting to know said guy; no point in dodging the question.
If he wants them? Instant dealbreaker. I'm not being rude; it's just no point in wasting his or my time.

IveGotNoName · Accepted Answer

No. I date to marry, and I want kids.

howhigh420 · Answer

At the moment yes i would want a relashionship with a guy that doesn't want kids right now i want to be properly preperd to be a mother and need to sort my own problems out right now first i wouldn't bring up a kid into the world if i have my own problems i would sort mine out first then i would its a lot of work being a mother and if u can help urself how are you suppose to help your child u must be preperd and ready first that why i got the implant

Berethor · Answer

I don't have much time to waste, so likely no, even if she virgin it's hard sell.

Patmedley26 · Answer

I wouldn't mind. People are entitled to their opinions and preferences. The last girl I really liked flat out told me she hated kids basically, but I really liked her a lot and she had many great qualities that helped me overlook the fact that we had two different opinions on kids. We never dated anyways so guess it didn't matter lol.

Seinna · Answer

Complete waste of time and effort. My friend married someone who said he wanted kids... but he's been avoiding this topic for years and it's really stressing her out. I respect his decision and honesty if he tells me upfront but that's that.

Blonde401 · Answer

I don’t want kids myself so it would be ideal honestly. I’m too old to even consider having kids now and honestly it was never something I wanted for myself. Eternally single though so ✌️ Never gonna be an issue

Phoenix-gb · Answer

At this point no, because I'm still of the age where I could feasibly have a family. If I remain single beyond that and haven't checked out of life due to depression by that point then I'd consider it.

Siren777 · Answer

No. We wouldn't have the same value system. I respect their decision but I couldn't date them. Politely decline.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

No I would not. Cause I know it will hurt me, if I stick around with that person. I also make it fully aware to people/men, that I want a serious relationship and children some day in my life.

jshm2 · Answer

Date, of course.  Why the fuck would you want kids with someone you're just dating? Marrying would be a different matter.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Yes I would. I really don't want kids so that would be preferable for me, to date a woman who doesn't want kids.

TrueConfection · Answer

Nope. I already have my own, but I couldn't be with someone who can't relate to the love I have for children.

LaNc3L0TT · Answer

Nah, I have some "life" goals which is including kids if she doesn't want it, it is hers choice not gonna push it but not gonna be with her ofc.

Avicenna · Answer

Id like to have more kids, but since I already have four, it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker if she didn’t want to have kids, only if she already had kids,.

sammyyyyasdfghjkl · Answer

Nope. I love kids and can’t wait to have my own one day.

DonkeyDan · Answer

At this stage in my life I will only date people who don't want kids.

pixie215 · Answer

yes, because people can always change their minds later on you never know

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If a girl told me she did not want to be a mother then I would think things over on whether I want be with her

MCheetah · Answer

I don't want kids myself, but who knows what I'll think in ten years.

RobT312 · Answer

I would , but I do want kids... I’d talk her into it

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I would only date someone who doesn't want kids, as I don't want them myself.

sunflower00 · Answer

Yes it’s preferable for me to be honest as I don’t want kids

laurieluvsit · Answer

Yes, until I decided that I wanted some and then I would date someone else :)

Juan_Sheet · Answer

While children are supposed to be what life is about, there are enough being born in the world that having no children would be alright. Plenty of ways to fill life as a childless couple.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Most people in my age group already have adult children.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No. I go on and off about wanting kids depending on my mood but I'd rather kids be a maybe than a definite no.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Yes, provided we got along, but I wouldn't date someone who does want kids.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'd rather not... I guess there's some part of me that at least wants kids to be an option.

Mysteryman9854 · Answer

I personally really want kids so no I wouldn't. I dont see the point if we want different things in life

AndrésC64 · Answer

I would very much prefer someone who doesn't want kids because I definitely don't. I wouldn't want to get into a relationship with someone that does.

Recurrence · Answer

I don’t want to have kids, I’d rather adopt a couple animals

Twalli · Answer

I made sure I can't father kids, so if she doesn't want them it's a good thing, because unless she cheats there is no chance of that happening

Juxtapose · Answer

I don't want kids and I'm not going to be responsible for any kid.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. Not only would I, but what I want and looking for.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like kids, but at least 1 kid is required. I wouldn't.

OddBeMe · Answer

Luckily I married someone who didn’t want kids. Whew!

alwaysmile_22 · Answer

My crush wants kids and same with me so yeah I won't date other

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, I don't want to bring kids into this crappy world anyways.

Lliam · Answer

I never wanted kids, so yeah. :-)

Interstate · Answer

Because I don't want them either.

Rabbagail · Answer

they may always change their mind

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, I would!

KatieB713 · Answer

No as I do what a family at some point

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Absofuckinglutely! Where do I sign up?

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

Absolutely not.

boggboss · Answer

Nope as I want kids would be a bad match

JoyGirl · Answer

No, I wouldn’t. I want to be a mother someday.

little_rose · Answer

Yes, because I AM someone who doesn't want kids!

GlassTop · Answer

I wouldn’t marry them. But I would screw them.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No unless I already have children of my own

AriaKorea · Answer

No, I want kids. Lots of them hopefully 😊

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes but I won’t marry her

Cubus · Answer

No, that's only a waste of time.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

It would be no issue for me.

legalboxers · Answer

Im old.. Im too old to have kids.

driven159 · Answer

we are other populated now

Alexis_1996 · Answer

Sure I don’t want them.

Fuentes · Answer

Probs would not mind im not so fond of children

TallAnon · Answer

Probably not, I want kids after all

Zygum · Answer

Yes, only to enjoy sex

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

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