Am I a bad person for this?

[Anonymous]

So I'm getting married in 2024 we have 100 guess so far and out of those hundred people only 37 of then are mine and I only think about 15 will show and 4 of the 15 are my bridesmaids I feel very upset and unhappy and a bit upset at my fiance for inviting so many people am I wrong for feeling this way

[Pyrofox]

I'd say you need to reevaluate who you're close with are they really friends and family or just acquaintances.

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm with you. Why the fuck would you want that many people? Of those 100, maybe only 10 are actually close friends.
I never understood why people do that

[gorydetails]

Are you upset you don’t know as many people?

[Asker]

Yes and no when we got engaged we both agreed we weren't inviting people who aren't in our almost daily life and people we haven't talk to or seen in a long time and half the guess list is that and I've paid for almost everything for the wedding so I'm frustrated that I'm paying for people on his side that I've never meet or even heard of

[gorydetails]

But you’ve not sent out invitations, so it’s ok to go through that guest list and make adjustments.

[Anonymous]

You are not ready for marriage but I hope you figure it out on the fly.

[noohair]

If this is the worst thing to happen to you during your marriage, you won life's lottery.

[slatyb]

Who is paying for it? Sounds very expensive.

[Asker]

I've paid for almost everything the venue was paid for by my mom and step dad though

[Sasha0426]

Why would you be upset?

[Asker]

Becuase I'm paying for almost all of it

[Anonymous]

Ok so why does this make you upset?