What to do if I want to get married within 2 years, but my girlfriend doesn’t want to?

[Anonymous]

Things to keep in mind :

• Unlike west, here couples only live together or hangout or some even have sex only after marriage.
• Here Marriage is a huge ceremony (with 500+ people) and Parents play an important.

Ok, I’m 27 and she’s 23. I want to get married within two years because my parents are getting old and weak (I want them to healthily attend my marriage), also usually men here get married before 30.

But she’s still a college student (corona delayed exams) and will be graduating next year. She want to enjoy few years independently after getting a job. yeah thats a legit reason, but my dad is already weak and I have pressure from home.

How to come to a decision. We both are consufed.

[Anonymous]

would you listen to yourself? "usually men here get married before 30 and well i'm 27 so i must get married regardless if i'm ready or if my partner is ready" you sound ridiculous! make your own plans at your own pace. if she doesn't want to get married, you can't force her. plus she's way too young for marriage. a break up will happen. like i get your whole parent thing but... that's just a terrible excuse and reasoning.

[Anonymous]

Accept it or move on and hope you’ll find someone else to marry within two years.

[LazerBean]

Get a girlfriend who is on the same page as you.

[Asker]

Usually the age gap in my country is 4-5 years.

[Agape93]

Move on or get over it

[In_Trance]

Find a different girlfriend