Girlfriend doesn't want to get married, should I break up and find another woman to marry?

[Anonymous]

I need to marry to get inheritance

[WonderBell99]

Did you discuss marriage, kids, long term goals etc. before you started seeing each other more seriously? Is she not OK with the institution of marriage at all or is it just that she is not ready yet? It seems like your long-term goals and values are not compatible, hence the relationship will not work out.

If she does not want marriage ever and you stay with her, you will likely start resenting her which could ultimately drift each other apart resulting in a breakup.

Do you love her? If your inheritance is more so important than your partner, then it is best you end this relationship. I will give you a small tip, next time you're back on the dating scene, make sure you discuss important things such as marriage, kids, long term goals, travel plans, career, etc. before you start dating them seriously. This would help you choose a partner that you could see a future with, and you will also get your inheritance. A win-win situation!

[Blackcupcake]

if you don’t share similar future goals, then yes, breaking up could be needed if you both want to follow different paths.

[Avicenna]

If it's that important to you, then it's a dealbreaker and you should break up with her. If you have to figuratively twist her arm to get you to marry you, you wouldn't want to marry her and it wouldn't work out anyway.

[Guy13]

Sounds right to me. Discussions have consequences and she's watching you to see if you "say what you mean and mean what you say". Do not let her suck you back in when you stun her with Manned-Up move...

[Sour-rose]

Wow... yes. Let her live her life so you can do whatever, jebus christ

[Anonymous]

If you love her you shouldn’t break up with her. Just explain the situation to her. Or get a lawyer to challenge the terms of your inheritance.

[AsaKyo]

If you want marriage and she doesn't, then I think it's best to break up, yes

[Anonymous]

Why doesn't she? And will she in a few years?

If the inheritance is at stake, and that's your guiding principle, you may need to move on.

[In_Trance]

if you wanna get married, then yes