Muslims on gag.. in a marrige would you/do you spank your wife as discaplin?

[Anonymous]

I am asking because the man I most likely will end up with grew up in a strong muslim culture (From middle east) so I wonder if that is something I should be ready for?

He seams open minded so im not sure. I dont evan know if its commen within Islam. But lately I think he has been closer to God (Allah). And he tend to be kinda dominant in real life. Evan tho he is a nice and open minded person he will tell me to be silent until he is done talking etc (if we are arguing).. but that was a long time ago..

We have only talked online so I've never met him

Yes I would spank my wife if she acts out of line and I am muslim MAN

Maybe if its a severe case (I am MUSLIM MAN)

Never! (I am MUSLIM MAN)

I do get spanked if I act out.. am a muslim WOMAN

I never get spanked and I am a muslim WOMAN... and would never accept it either!

I am not muslim... show me the results!

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+1 y

Am glad the only muslim voted NEVER!

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+1 y

well the results are kinda creepy

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+1 y

Okay I hope he disagrees with this...

[Anonymous]

I kind of like the Christian Domestic Discipline my husband and I are into. He's become a stronger mand leads the relationship and I've learned to be more submissive. Honestly I kind of enjoy the spanking.

[Asker]

Okay I could see that but then do you get aftercare after being spanked? Does he still respect you and he doesn't boss you around and abuse you etc?

[Opinion Owner]

We usually have sex after he spanks, me and cuddles.
He still respects me but I act more respectful and do better around the home. He's my partner, he shouldn't have to boss me around like I'm a child, he's not my father. I'm a grown up and if there's stuff that needs doing I should get it done.

[Asker]

Alright then.

How did it come into the marrige? And where you both virgins when you met?

[Opinion Owner]

I was a virgin. I was 17.

[Asker]

Ok cool

[Asker]

Was he?

[Opinion Owner]

No he wasn't.

[Asker]

Okay cool.

Wish you both a blessed and happy marrige!

May I ask... how did the topic come up in marrige? Was it discussed before hand?

[Opinion Owner]

Virginity or spanking?

[Asker]

Spanking

[Opinion Owner]

We were fighting all the time and our pastor suggested it

[Asker]

Okay cool

And now the fighting stopped?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess. I had to learn to show him more respect and take more responsibility

[Asker]

Alright then nice

[Spade_01]

That's not a way to discipline a woman no matter how fetishised it is.

[Asker]

I agree

[Spade_01]

Update: yes that's me 🗿

[Asker]

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[MementoMori777]

I'm here just to spectate lol

[Asker]

Ok lol.. you aren't Muslim?

[MementoMori777]

Nope

[Asker]

Okay

[Asker]

I really hope the results say never!..

[MementoMori777]

Maybe I can help tho since there's nothing to spectate yet, I talk to a Muslim woman and she has told me Muslim men don't value women and they treat them a certain way, I'm guessing she's speaking from her own experience but if this is true then spanking a woman doesn't seem too far off the table.

[MementoMori777]

Let's also not forget in Islam a Muslim man can marry up to 4 women if I'm not mistaken while women have to stay with that man and I also heard women have much more restrictions than men religiously, which If he is, he will try to get you to follow them

[Asker]

Yeah that sucks... I would never let him marry someone else then im leaving..

Thank you for helping!

[MementoMori777]

Yep I don't understand how women believe into that, personally, but I applaud their strength in beliefs but yea no problem, I'll go back to my spectating bubble now

[Anonymous]

Spank would be more of a fun consent thing. I've spanked my girlfriend. We both will defo be spanking after marriage too.

[Asker]

Okay but thats different then its not discaplin