Is it bad that I don’t wanna attend my friend’s wedding because I dislike her husband?

[Anonymous]

His husband once said I was ugly and I dislike him. I don’t wanna see him. Do you think it’s okay to find excuse to not attend her wedding?

[GreenLanternI0I]

You have to bite the bullet and do what is Right not for you, but for your best friend. If it is really true what he said about you, to your face, rest assured that their marriage will not last for long. If he insulted you, that means he is insulting other people, that means he is too cocky, too confident of his own looks and strength. Those type of people fall and get burned HARD, I have seen it myself and for him it is just a matter of time, before he insults or crosses the wrong person and will get Exactly what he deserves.

[Asker]

Too confident of his looks 😂 I think he’s ugly, many people think he’s ugly and short, he’s even below 165 cm. I don't know where he gets his confidence to judge others that’s so lame. No friend and him have been dating for 8 years I don’t think they will divorce and my friend is a good woman she doesn’t deserve a divorce but that guy certainly doesn’t deserve such a good woman

[adidas0169]

How petty are you? it's your friends wedding not yours and no one ever said you have to like someone's bride or groom did they probably not and who cares if her soon to be husband said you were ugly your not with him are you no your friend is. oh my God he finds me ugly that's highschool crap.

[Asker]

I think you should have some empathy and try to see a from others’ side. It’s normal to not want to see the person you dislike.
And even if you think it’s a good idea to attend her wedding, isn’t it better to use an encouraging tone instead of a blaming tone?

[adidas0169]

There's no empathy. your there for YOUR FRIEND that's it. its called pull up your big girl pants suck it up for an Hr and be there for your friend. by not being there for her could end your friendship.

[Asker]

I feel petty for you for saying you have no empathy. No here for rude comments and fight. Bye

[MissBoogus]

You can see this two ways, don’t go if you don’t want to, he sounds rude and you don’t need to put yourself around that. But also , do you want to miss your friends wedding? Don’t let a jerk change your decisions or make you miss out on anything. Go with your head held high.

[sheikalana]

As long as you can be honest to your friend and explain to her why you don't want to attend her wedding. I didn't attend one of my good friends wedding years ago later on I calmly explained her why I didn't go she understood and we're still friends till this day.

[Anonymous]

It depends. How close are you and the friend? If you're not super close then I think it's fine but if you two are close then I'm not sure if you should skip it. I mean I know it would be hard given he is a bit of douche, but you would be going for her not him.

[RoseySarah]

Na I stayed home from my sister's wedding for that! 3 kids latter and a divorce my sister agree she was dumb and should have listened but could not!

Don't go who cares the reason you don't like him!

[jahaims]

That's lame on your part. You're an adult. Why do you care if someone thinks you're ugly. Don't make your insecurities your friends problem.

[Asker]

I never said it’s my friend’s problem, it her husband’s husband, and it’s not about insecurity, it’s not that I’m insecure when I’m near him, it’s that I dislike that rude person.

I think you have problems with comprehension, you got the wrong points, I suggest you to reread my question

[Asker]

Calling a person ugly is offensive and rude, even confident people will be offended, no one likes a rude person. If it’s not about being called ugly but other things like your religious belief is stupid and crap, that’s also offensive and rude, okay?

[Jmmmfi4]

I wouldn't go