I am an Asian guy and I am dating an American. I have little pressure from parents to marry. I want to introduce her to my parents. Is it too soon?

[Anonymous]

[Bethany22]

Yeah after 10 months is a good time to start introducing her to parents. Then, if they don't approve, then you can break up with her graciously and allow her the opportunity to date someone else while she is still in her prime years.

[Asker]

No, I can't. She is mine!

[CalmUntilAbused]

Now, from what I read in the opinions, 10 months is far too soon. Science says the chemical infatuation caused by Your hormone system might last for as long as 3 years. Thus, it's 3 - 4 years when it can be considered remotely safe to decide anything about marriage.

[Anonymous]

how am i supposed to know if it's too soon if you didn't even say how long you two have been together?

[Asker]

Since 10 months.

[Opinion Owner]

that is too soon to marry then

[Asker]

Really? In Asia, it's too long.

[Opinion Owner]

you're dating in American. are you in america?

[Asker]

Yes, I'm in America. But I have pressure to marry and make babies ASAP.

[Opinion Owner]

honestly, pressure to get married and pressure for a baby actually turns out bad. that's unhealthy for a relationship and can lead to divorce.

[Opinion Owner]

over here in america, it's not uncommon to be together for even 4 years before marriage.

[Asker]

Okay! I want to create a family. My friends and relatives told me, don't be fussy. You just go for it, ( 💍 Wedding).

[Anonymous]

Don't trust Americans that fast..

[Asker]

Why?

[CalmUntilAbused]

Not after Amber Heard happened, that's for sure.