My mom said she will always support me but she has stopped talking to me. My sister married 2 times with mom's support. Both were not arranged marriages. Now she is emotional blackmailing me to marry her choice of girl. She wants me to stay with her in India. I want to marry and live in US.
I know that parent children dynamics can be quite complicated and you cannot just abandon her. I’m assuming you were very close to her, so it must be quite difficult for you to go against her wishes and do something she does not approve of. You have to keep in mind that you are almost 30, and are free to marry whomever you want. Finding love in this day and age is hard, and it’s even harder to maintain it. Unless your mother is the type of be vindictive and hold a grudge over your dating preference, it would not be a problem. She will come around soon.
You have mentioned that you are a “mama’s boy”, but if you are planning on getting serious with your partner, I would highly suggest you set healthy boundaries and not let your mother influence your decisions in life.
Also, having a chat with your mother and having her meet your partner would be a good idea. Often, Indians, mostly the older generations, have a distorted perception of westerners. Have her meet your girlfriend once after talking to her. She doesn’t need to like her right away, give her some space and time… but do not let her influence YOUR relationship with your partner.
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It makes sense to me. Your mother does not want to make the same mistake she made with daughter. Your are carrying Family namesake. Shame on family is big deal, right ⁉️ Sister brought shame⁉️
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