My husband doesn't seem very pleased. But I like getting likes. Would you mind if your girlfriend did something like this?
It's not cheating and if your husband didn't mind you doing it, it would be perfectly fine, but since he doesn't like it, you are being disrespectful to his feelings. If the shoe was on the other foot and he was doing something you didn't like would you expect him to stop.
Every individual has their own boundaries and when you become a couple the two of you have to identify the bounds of your relationship together. Just because we think it's fine doesn't mean he does or should.
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I think a good number of men would say that it would be considered cheating on the husband and a good number of women would say it would not be considered cheating. Of course there will definitely be men who will say go for it because why wouldn’t they and women who will say don’t do it because why wouldn’t they?
It isn't cheating. However, your husband might not like it because he wouldn't want anyone else seeing you in revealing outfits. But you'd have to talk to him to get his thoughts on why, I'm only guessing.
Nope not cheating. Especially if you husband watches porn, checks out other women then he has no room to complain about other men checking you out
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It's not cheating. Your husband is aware that many of the guys will be masturbating to your pictures, and he is right to not like that.
It's no different to how things would be on any beach! Does he have a problem with that too?
Would I mind? No not at all. My mindset is, guys can dream about whatever they like but there is only one reality and that is she my wife, and happily being so!
If your husband does NOT mind the plethora of idiots that will be masturbating over your photos then thats fine , assuming you are making money , if he is not okey with it , as many would NOT be , well , you need to find another guy.
Well, do you care about your marriage and your husband more or likes from strangers on the internet?
Hopefully that's an easy answer.Not really, if you don't escalate any of the attention people give you then it can't really be cheating on any form, it doesn't mean it can't be harmful to the relationship tho if the husband doesn't like it and you keep doing it tho
It's not cheating, just attention seeking. Ask him how he feels about it.
Cheating? No. Poor taste, though, because it's probably going to stir up attention... Use common sense.
You're coming off as a woman who likes attention and needs validation from others. It may not be cheating but it can create insecurities on your Husband.
As you desire intrest from other men and to be seen as attractive by other men, it's a slippery slope.
The only opinion that matters is that of your husband.
It constitutes disrespectful advertising. And for what? Validation. I would think less of you for weakening the relationship and demonstrating poor judgement.
Wanting attention is not synonymous with cheating.
I think it's your own choice.. wearing bikini doesn't mean that u r cheating... if you can stop sharing it for your husband... why can't your husband be happy in the fact that you look amazing in such pics
If it was for the reason of "getting likes" she wouldn't probably last too long.
I wouldn't have any woman in my life that felt the need to seek attention online in any way, shape or form. Only a true woman of God would be in my life...
This isn’t cheating. You guys should talk about why it bothers him though.
I think you shouldn't do it if your husband doesn't want it.
Not yet, so far it only counts as turning me on. More please.
In spirit, but since you aren't having s*x with other men, not really.
Why do you feel the need to look for attention of random people online
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