I don’t know what to say?

[Anonymous]

don’t even know where to start I am newlywed and my husband & I live about 19 hours apart we had been fighting over the course of a few days and I cheated with my sons father… I called him as a shoulder to vent to and he ended up coming over nothing malicious intended he has just always been a good friend due to us spending almost a decade together and just sharing a child however a bunch of drinks later I woke up the next morning devastated I love my husband and I am so disgusted within myself for ruining our marriage… I had told him what had happened just due to us just always being honest with each other and me wanting to continue with that in our relationship however he is now hurt mad sad and I definitely understand he is such an amazing soul and I am so sorry… he ended up telling
Me he needs space and he’ll call me later but is that a good thing should I give him space? we already live 19 hours apart so we already don’t see each other rarely ever probably once every three months so our voices is all we ever really have… I don’t mind giving him space but I know he’s hurt and it is due to me but I don’t want him grieving alone… I’ll keep praying about it but I just did one of the biggest sins and I don’t know I really hurt my partner

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t say anything. Give him space. Check in next week if you haven’t heard from him. Why assume he’s grieving alone?

[exitseven]

I think if he decides to forgive you, you need to figure out this long distance thing

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[LiamJHayden]

You cheated. It is up to him to decide if he wants to reconcile or end the marriage.

[gorydetails]

Yes, you give him space.

[Anonymous]

Wow, just wow.