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Would you marry a person older than you and why?

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  • Anonymous
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    I am 31 my husband he will be 47 uear old soon he is my blessing the most beautiful human you can ever meet. We have a strong bond and connection something I never had with all the spoiled immature childish men my age. Men my age are all womanizers mommas boy immature men child. A 47 year old gorgeous men knows what he wants hebis mature I don't have to worry about dealing with childsih immature behavior. My husband and I we have a strong connection. Our sex is beautiful strong we have this special connection. When went to my church singles gathering I was smart I've always knew I wanted an mature guy. My husband and I we can spend hours talking we enjoy good conversations.

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    • Tinat
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      That's it 👏. So cute! I like your story. Amazing!

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    • Anonymous
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      Thanks girly 🥰😍

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  • Ms_Facesitter
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    Yes, if I love him.

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    • Southshhshs
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      Jesus fucked my mother

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    • Tinat
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      I'm with you. If I love him, then, yes😍

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  • HawkPerception
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    I see no issue with it. The only thing I care about is chemistry and physical attraction. Is the girl kind? Does she have similar interests, views, way of thinking, style of communication, where she wants to be in 20 years, sense of humor, sexual compatibility, etc? If she checks off on all of those aspects, then I see no reason why I wouldn't date/marry her. I think at the moment, my cutoff would be around 45 years old.

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    • Tinat
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      👍🙂

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  • D_Bone_Steak
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    A woman the same age as me looks like somebody's grandmother. That's a big hell to the knaw knaw knaw.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/8QxIIz1yEsA
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    • Tinat
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      🤣😭

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    • Xia1994
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      I'm died guys I'm finished depleted!!!💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😭

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    • Tinat
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      Lol.

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  • Rei13
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    It depends on how much older the man is. 10-15 years is pushing it and 20+ years starts getting a little too close to my parents ages even tho they were 29/30 when they had me.

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  • Avicenna
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    "Older" is a broad, vague term. One year older? Ten years older?

    The main problem at my age with doing that is that she may not be working any longer if she's, say, ten years older than me.

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  • Anonymous
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    Had one of my colleagues been 10 years younger than he was, not 18 years as was reality, I'd have definitely considered dating him & if worked out marriage.

    We had the chemistry, attraction, sense of humor, etc.

    And if his jealous girlfriend - who came along 2 years after we started working together - and didn't like our rapport though it never once went beyond colleagues... was to be believed he was also good in bed.

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  • Xia1994
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    Yes, I like older men but only 5- 7years older than me.

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    • Tinat
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      👍👍

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  • Flatmanlewis
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    Yoda Age: 52 , mho 46%
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    I’m open minded since at my age I’ve achieved most of the life goals I have established and having anymore children is not one of them. Hence, a woman’s age is not a particularly relevant factor to me. I’d be far more concerned with her personality, place in life, and overall beauty than an numerical age alone.

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  • LiamJHayden
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    Yes. My best friend just turned 30 and if I were terminally ill I'd marry her so she could inherit my house and other holdings without having to pay any inheritance taxes.

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    • Tinat
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      Okay 🙂

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  • TheSpaceGnome
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    Master Age: 39
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    Yes if she checks all the boxes, but thats not likely to happen since women who are my age or older are far less likely to be gamers, atheists, into anime and sci-fi, and most of the other stuff on my "perfect match" checklist (not because women that age won't do that, but because most millenial women or older just didn't do that at any point in their lives, which is unfortunate, as it would be nice to be with someone my age).

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  • SolitarySolace
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    No, but not because they're older. Because I don't plan on ever getting married. I'd rather keep my money thank you very much

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    • SolitarySolace
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      Keep my money and my freedom

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    • Tinat
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      🤣😭

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  • exitseven
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    858 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    No, anyone significanly older than me would be on medicare.

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    • Tinat
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      🤣😭

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  • itsclearlynicholas
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    Xper 7 Age: 32
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    I'd rather they married me who's older lol. Aka, she's 23 or 24 or at least 20 , and I'm 29.

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    • itsclearlynicholas
      itsclearlynicholas
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      No, at 29, I couldn't date a chick older than me lol 😅😆

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      I agree with you. 😄

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    • itsclearlynicholas
      itsclearlynicholas
      +1 y

      After all, somehow the women in their earlier to mid 20s, much feel more secure potentially with me at my wise old 🗝️ lol 29 years me 🦉👌

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    • itsclearlynicholas
      itsclearlynicholas
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      🤭 💪🫠

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    • itsclearlynicholas
      itsclearlynicholas
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      Tis only a 5 or 6 year age gap younger than me (I'm 29) so I'm sure I could still snag a hot early to mid 20s chick 😈😈👀😋♀️♀️

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  • IslaTheWitch
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    Master Age: 48 , mho 47%
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    I don't care about the age... if we click and connect... nothing else matters

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    Master Age: 46
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    414 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    Nope, for some reason a woman older than me is a major ick.

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      😂😂

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    • Xia1994
      Xia1994
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      Bruh 💀

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  • Apple1996
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    Master Age: 29 , mho 40%
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    527 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    Definitely not. I'd only marry my age or younger

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  • Sun_Kim-Ai
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    Guru Age: 28 , mho 38%
    +1 y

    Yes, I did.

    My wife is 30 and I am 26.

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    • Alwayreckles93
      Alwayreckles93
      +1 y

      Nice to see a guy not discretine a woman my age lol

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  • TenderFantasy
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    Yoda Age: 42 , mho 51%
    +1 y

    My ex-fiance was 8 and a half years older than me.

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  • Nikki1989
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    Mentor Age: 37 , mho 31%
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    1.2K opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    I already did and have been very happy for the past 9 years.

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  • PeachyPie93
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    Guru Age: 32 , mho 44%
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    Highly Unlikely. Since I just never been attracted to older people.

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  • abc3643
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    Master Age: 63 , mho 38%
    +1 y
    419 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    I did.

    My wife is 5.5 years older than me.

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Yeah, less liberal, more dominant and more life experience what more could you want

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    • abc3643
      abc3643
      +1 y

      Actually, they are often more liberal with age because they learn about the realities of life; something someone your age is not that familiar with.

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      I understand.

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      Old liberals are brainless so they are out of the running already for failing on intelligence

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      😯😶

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    • abc3643
      abc3643
      +1 y

      This coming from someone not much older than a child. LOL

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      No that came from arguably the greatest statesman of the last 100 years

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    • Nikki1989
      Nikki1989
      +1 y

      @abc3643 Exactly!

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  • jadeXcatastro62
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    Xper 1 Age: 20
    +1 y

    Yes I would totally. Men do it to women all the time, women can/does it as well. I don’t have any issue with this. As long you guys both agree/and or ready for marriage.

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  • Slapmynuts
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    Xper 5 Age: 46
    +1 y

    Absolutely! They know what they want, you know they have tons of experience in everyday life, and they have the wisdom you don't! Absolutely!😁

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  • art84
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    Guru Age: 41
    +1 y

    Probably though depending on the age gap like if was 2 years at the most.

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  • 12karen
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    Yoda Age: 22
    +1 y

    Yes, bc I don't want to marry someone younger than me

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  • andreasderjuengere
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    Master Age: 62
    +1 y
    316 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    I have no intentions to marry.
    But if so, slightly older would be ok; provided that she's in my own mental age stage.

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  • SphynxUK
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    Yoda Age: 53 , mho 32%
    +1 y

    Older? My ex husband was 2 years older. Does that count?

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Not likely. Why? There's nothing in it for me. Would a woman marry a homeless guy? No! why? There's nothing in it for her.

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  • renodnol32
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    Xper 7 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Yes. If we connect, thats the main thing. Regardless of age difference.

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  • Twalli
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    Master Age: 35
    +1 y

    Within reason. I won't marry someone who is 10+ years older than me.

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    • Alwayreckles93
      Alwayreckles93
      +1 y

      What happen to your 35 year old girlfriend?

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    • Twalli
      Twalli
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      @Alwayreckles93 we're still dating and she's 38 now

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  • Paris13
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    Master Age: 42 , mho 60%
    +1 y
    708 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. NP. xxoo

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      Thank you 😘🥰

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    • Paris13
      Paris13
      +1 y

      Welcome, hun. xxoo

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  • universecatdrowning
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    Xper 1 Age: 16
    +1 y

    honestly only if im already well into my twenties, you'll NEVER catch me lacking that bad before at least 25

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I won't rule it out, but I'd say it's unikely.

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Yes, I would but no older then 5 to 10 years

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Southshhshs 🤨 sorry what?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Southshhshs Well that's random how dose that have anything to do with a 5 to 10 years age difference? 🤨

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  • elizamichale1
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    Master Age: 31
    +1 y

    I m married to persons older than me

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    • Alwayreckles93
      Alwayreckles93
      +1 y

      Hey girly how old is the lucky guy? Don't worry my husband he will be 48 next month. Best relationship I've had guys our age are all immature and womanizers.

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    • elizamichale1
      elizamichale1
      +1 y

      @Alwayreckles93 well Happy Birthday to him 😘😘

      N mine is 33.. he is 4 years older than me
      N yea i agree the older the better

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      👍🙂

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    • elizamichale1
      elizamichale1
      +1 y

      😊😊

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  • FireFox001
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    Xper 7 Age: 32
    +1 y

    Nope. I don't need older than me women i my life.

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    • Alwayreckles93
      Alwayreckles93
      +1 y

      WHY NOT? Chances are we are wealthy and even better looking then younger woman idiot! No I am not jelous of younger woman people always tell me I look 18 all the time. Youngerbwoma just want your wallet dumbass face it!

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      Lady, would you mind your business? Must you insult a person? Respect their opinions 🙄

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    • FireFox001
      FireFox001
      +1 y

      Lol. Chances are you are not as wealthy as me. Pilots earn quite well ;) And definitely not better looking. If you think you look like 18, you are delusional. Also, I want to have my own kids and don't want to deal with your emotional baggage.

      And @Tinat, thank you kindly.

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      My pleasure.

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    • FireFox001
      FireFox001
      +1 y

      It's quite surprising how some people have the audacity to do this... all the while being blind how they may not be the jackpot at all. Hell, this attitude is a super big telltale.

      Also, what is your opinion on your own question? Out of curiosity.

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      I like older men. I want someone who is matured. Someone with experience. Not a little kid who would toss me away without a second thought.

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    • Billlewis
      Billlewis
      +1 y

      Just hypothetically speaking, if you married an older guy who wasn't as dynamic in bed as he used to be, would you consider engaging in extramarital sex, if he encouraged you to do so?

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      Never. I would never do that.

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    • FireFox001
      FireFox001
      +1 y

      @Billlewis stop hhijacking convos. Open your own damn thread.

      @Tinat most of the women I know prefer older guys than them - up to 10 years in the extremes. Similar reasoning, though.

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      Yeah, couldn't agree more. Most women are like that.

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  • 888theGreat
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    Master Age: 57
    +1 y

    Women should marry older men. Man should die first

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      🙆🏽🤣😭

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  • Booklover_90
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    Xper 7 Age: 36
    +1 y

    Yes. I’ve always liked older men. 😊

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  • JacobJordan
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    Yoda Age: 41
    +1 y

    I did. My wife is a couple older than me

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  • CozyCoffin
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    Xper 6 Age: 35
    +1 y

    I don't see why not.

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  • laly520 s
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    Master Age: 26
    +1 y

    no older than 5 years

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  • Iron_Man u
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    Mentor Age: 46
    +1 y
    1.2K opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

    Me no

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    • Tinat
      Tinat
      +1 y

      👍😎

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    • Iron_Man u
      Iron_Man
      +1 y

      lol 😂

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  • riverrat3
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    Yoda Age: 75
    +1 y

    When i was younger, sure. Probably not now

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  • Dongie
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    Guru Age: 63
    +1 y

    Yep. What's age got to do with it?

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  • Miah04
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    Xper 7 Age: 24
    +1 y

    Yeah

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I guees, why not if I love her?

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  • jaskin777
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    Xper 6 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Yes I would

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  • DreamLife7
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    Xper 7 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Yes why not?

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  • Gabriel-Chicanito
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    Explorer Age: 52
    +1 y

    Yess;y not?'

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  • litty736
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    Xper 5 Age: 33
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    I prefer younger

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