Should I follow through and just do it?

[Twalli]

I can't imagine marrying anyone else but my girlfriend. However, the very idea of marriage scares me. Will it ever stop scaring me since I already know who I will marry?

Yes

No

Updates

1 mo

P. S. as of yesterday we've been dating for 5 years and 8 months.

[Friendlybro79]

It's normal to be scared but if you know it in your heart that this will make you and her both happy then go for it. Good luck!

[DizzyDesii]

Marriage scares me because if things aren't working, i can't just break it off. But i still want to marry. Just do it. And both of y'all need to sign prenups

[NathanDavis]

what's scary about it?

[laly520]

take ur time
u dont have a deadline for it

[Twalli]

I kind of do. Most girls wouldn't have stayed with a guy this long without an engagement ring.

[Tharithi]

Why it scares u lol

[Twalli]

Not sure. I mean I know I want to get married eventually and I know that she's the one, so there's nothing to really stop me.

[Tharithi]

Why is she the one

[Twalli]

My parents marriage is as close to perfect as possible. I use their marriage as a basis for what I seek in a relationship. Apparently my relationship with my girlfriend is better than their relationship is (at least according to them).

[Tharithi]

Why? Could u describe the dynamic

[Twalli]

We are perfect compliments for each other and haven't really exited the honeymoon stage. We have never fought and it's because we just don't have issues. We have had a few instances of miscommunication, but I can count the numbers one one hand with fingers to spare. Due to my rule of not pursuing a romantic relationship with someone who isn't already a friend, we have enough similar interests in which we can just enjoy being together even if it isn't flirty or romantic.

[KrakenAttackin]

Marriage should scare you.

[strateguy632]

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