Should I do it?

[Anonymous]

I am ignoring my best friend and a lot of people anyway i only care about my best friend i always send memes and things like this but in few last days i got mad from something and my friend is like never online and I text she respond like one word or two like always but in real life she is completely different she's lovely person and we are always together but as texting online she is cold with everyone not just me and never online on any app. After i ignored her for a week should i text her memes like always or stay like this until i meet her in person ( in next two weeks i will) i really love her and i know she is like this only on social media but in real life she is amazing and love me but i become cold because of her responses and i am not in a good mood.

Text her like you always do

Wait until you see her and see how she feels

[Guy13]

You should really think about getting a job so that you have something to do with your time besides fretting like a woman.

[Anonymous]

Grow the fuck up.

[Asker]

Are you saying this because you are hurt or just being rude.. Irdcf about anyone but you still have people you care about.. If i told you she is not my friend but my big sister or one member of my family would you say the same?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not being rude, I’m being blunt — grow tf up. You’re acting so entitled to her time and literally not talking to her because she’s “cold” online? Like be fucking for real. She’s your friend, not your girlfriend or your life partner, and her time is not designated to tending to you and your mood swings. You haven’t talked to her in days and wanna open the door with a MEME? You’re a child.

[Asker]

Since you are bigger than me i respect you and i did say what should I do. So i am asking you again what is the best thing i can do.. I said she is my friend but i didn't tell you that she's also my crush i always text her meme it's my thing you can't say i am a child because everyone have a thing. Also she is the one being cold on social media not me

[Opinion Owner]

You need to apologize for being childish, and respect her time away from you. If she’s not as responsive on social media then that’s for a reason, not everyone cares to be online all the time and that doesn’t make her cold. If you’re upset because you like her then you need to confess your feelings and either you date or you don’t. But this behavior has to stop no matter what because it’s unacceptable. Learn how to manage your emotions in a healthy way.

[Asker]

So i shouldn't care about her cold responses. I should only care about how she is when she is with me and don't care about social media because it's childish thing. And tell her how i feel

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a downplay of your behavior and honestly kinda gaslight-y. What I’m saying, is that you are not entitled to her time away from you. Your whole reason for being upset is that you don’t like how untimely she is online in response to your memes, and that’s so dramatic and stupid. If you wanna ask her to do something, or just checking in on her then say that. Don’t send memes and random bs and think it’s a priority for her to respond. She’s got other shit to do.

[Opinion Owner]

And absolutely, stop caring so much about social media! For sure. That’s not everyone’s life.

[Asker]

The problem is not about memes only i tried to have conversations with her believe me i did. But she is the way she is no different if i send meme or normal etc. In real life she is not like this that is why i confused

[Asker]

Thank you a lot for the advice.

[Opinion Owner]

Then you might have your answer, and it’s that she may not be interested in you the same way you’re interested in her. You prioritize giving her attention because you like her, but if she doesn’t feel the same then she won’t have the same desire. Of course this is all hypothetical but you can get a straightforward answer from her, that way you can know if it’s pointless putting in additional effort.

[Asker]

Ok thank you very much. You were very helpful

[Opinion Owner]

No worries dude