Do you plan on getting married?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm not so sure anymore.

I kinda like the idea of not getting complacent in the relationship and the woman having the same constant reminder the guy has that your partner can leave.

But I also want kids. Part of me feels like I should just pay someone to have them because I'm going to be honest, there's nothing that would separate me from the kids that came from my balls. I'd rather never live in this country again.

Fathers get custody 18.5% of the time and in 2023 there was over 650,000 divorces in the US.

And the older I get, the more I see woman divorce men for just ridiculous reasons. It's scary. I used to think you could just tell but... I don't know what the answer is.

[AviatorTom]

Never again. I'm in my second marriage. First lasted 20 years until an amicable divorce; this one is 7 years and counting. If this marriage somehow ends, I'm gonna stay a single old man. Two marriages is more than enough for me.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[Anonymous]

No, as a man in the West, marriage is a mistake.

[rachel776]

yes and possibly 10 years sooner than i ever thought

[jamesgoldman]

Not anymore