Are you married or do you want to get married someday? What are your reasons?
I would love to get married one day, my reasons are because when I find the one I love I want to settle down, live with him and keep him and our family happy and healthy.
Are you married or do you want to get married someday? What are your reasons?
I would love to get married one day, my reasons are because when I find the one I love I want to settle down, live with him and keep him and our family happy and healthy.
Married for 23 years. @Horse-girl great reasons and great thinking. Best wishes to you. My only advice at this point: do NOT get disappointed along the journey to finding that one to marry. It isn't easy, or fast, and you will have mistakes and heartbreak along the way but the end result is worth it.
Ahw thanks for that, I hope there won't be too many heartbreaks. 😊
Want to add on…learn from our mistakes. It is worth it.
Yes! What @midnightmoon05 said is right. And, like, the mistakes make us better!
Very true, I've learnt many lessons from my mistakes already.
I sure am willing to marry. But just need to find the right one, as you said.
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Who is more gorgeous? Hard to decide, eh?
I'm married 22 years.
It is very hard to decide! 😅
I am already married, for nearly 7 years now.
I'm not married. I think I would like to get married because well I think it's a nice way to solidify a relationship.
Personally I don't see it happening any time soon because a lot of guys run from even the basic levels of a committed relationship.
I'm not a traditional woman. And that is a turn off for most men. I wasn't raised to believe that women look after the house and although I've lived alone for 12 years it's done in a way to works for me.
Marriage is about compromise and working as a team to each others strengths.
A lot of people just don't have what it takes.
I feel off my career path recently to follow my dreams but in doing so I've not been very successful and been messed around.
That's not girlfriend or wife material.
I lost all of this because my life started to crumble...
I need stability again in my life and I hope that now I've met someone. I have a puppy and actively looking for work I can get back on the path to return getting where I need to be in life.
I do want to get married for a lifelong partner and the promise to be together for life. I thought I found my life partner then a yr and half in he says he does not believe in marriage. I will definitely make sure the next man believes in marriage early on.
I don’t, no. I’ve always viewed marriage as nothing more than an expensive document that tells the government that you have a SO, and with divorce comes losing half your shit. So I see no benefits to it. Easier to stay with your partner long term and do everything that a married couple can do, live together, have kids if you want them, and one day if you break up, you don’t have to go through messy paperwork or pay a hefty fee just to leave each other.
Nope.
I've never been married and I don't want to.
The idea of being in a long term relationship doesn't sound bad, but I don't think it's necessary to marry them as well, if you can just live together and have kids anyway.
Personally, I'd want to find the right person, but I've never been with any before, so I don't care too much about it either, as long as I'm happy.
I want to, despite the fact I don't want to have children, biologically. It's not like we can't adopt, and she has a lot of younger relatives that like to visit her mom, and I wouldn't mind if they visit her and me when we get married. I love my uncles that aren't blood related. If I knew any more distant family, I'd probably love them if they're only family by marriage.
I would like to get married one day. I just need to sort my life out first before trying to start something new. Marriages can have ups and downs but with the right person it is an unparalleled experience.
Yep im married. Its not for all. there's a lot of stress, conflicting emotions and ups and downs. Its like you're forced by law to figure out how to live with one another and with kids your life is always changing. So you grow in the process.
I do want to get married. it has a lot of benefits, even health wise lol. I mostly just want a committed relationship, the championship and help/responsibility that it brings.
Wdym health wise lol?
@michael00007 I recall reading that married couples tend to live longer, experience less stress, lower blood pressure, less STDs, and tend to drink less alcohol. I can look it up more specifically if you want and send you links but that's what I remember.
Ohhh. Sure PM me.
@michael00007 why?
Maybe we could have a convo?
I’m married. It’s weird because I never really cared for marriage before tbh. It was never something I looked forward to. But I couldn’t be happier.
I've been married for a little over 3 years now
I have been married since just before 9/11. I was a little over 38.5 and my wife had just turned 44. (I am her 3rd husband, but I've only been married once.)
Nah to expensive. divorce rates being so high too it's not really worth it anymore. I'm of the opinion that people shouldn't be able to get divorced. It would make people more loyal to their partners and more selective. The only reason divorce exists is because of king Henry the 8th who wanted to divorce his 7 wives. Random history fact lol
Divorce should only have negatives for the one that wants a divorce.
I wanted to get married in past but not anymore especially after seeing my best friend in an abusive marriage i don't believe in love and marriage anymore it just fades away with time
Well, I am unable to do it because you don't follow me, beautiful
Because, you only allow messages from the people you follow it seems
i would like to have a relationship that lasted for the rest of my life , but if my partner doesn't care about getting married then i don't either
I did not plan it; it was just in my path.
After letting it behind me, I have no intentions to repeat. My relationships are ''serious'', though.
I think this tweet speaks volumes:
Omg- THIS!
We will be celebrating our fourth wedding anniversary in Nov.
I have been married to John now for 29 years, very happy thank you,
If I get married then only to a traditional woman. I don't want anything of that toxic modern society in my life.
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